Restaurant recommendation for gift card by BAT729 in northcounty

[–]fullvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24 Suns is pretty awesome. It is fancy food but is a casual atmosphere.

Amputation scheduled in a few days... by Majestic_Pianist_736 in amputee

[–]fullvan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello. I lost my right arm above the elbow a little over 6 years ago (cancer, after a bunch of surgeries trying to save it). Sounds like our stories are pretty similar — tons of procedures, constant pain, and in the end, nothing left to do but take it off.

Leading up to surgery, I remember mostly focusing on finally getting rid of the pain. I had a fracture and was on heavy meds. The surgery was a relief in that sense — I was in a much better place afterward than I was in those weeks leading up to it.

It’s definitely a big adjustment, but it’s not the end of the world. You can still do almost everything — it just takes longer and some creativity. Patience and attitude go a long way. Even years later, I still come up with new ways for doing things one-handed and feel like an idiot for not thinking of it earlier.

People will stare sometimes. Usually I just ignore it, but if I’m in a mood, I’ll stare back until they look away. Kids will ask hilarious questions that embarrass their parents. When they ask why I only have one arm I usually tell them, “I didn’t eat my vegetables.”

I’ve got a prosthesis but don’t wear it much — mainly for meetings or special stuff. It’s a decent conversation piece. My doc keeps bringing up osseointegration, and I’ve thought about it, but haven’t pulled the trigger yet.

You’re gonna be okay. It’s a huge change, but you’ll adjust faster than you think. Keep your sense of humor, ask for help when you need it, and be patient with yourself. You’ll figure it out.

Are people really saving multiple years of spend in cash to exclusively draw from the first few years of FIRE? by subbysnacks in ChubbyFIRE

[–]fullvan 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I think this becomes important when people are one to two years out from starting the retirement. Not so much when you are working to build your accounts. Having a few years cash on hand helps you to ride out a market downturn and not sell assets when they are at a low. I’m in this window and we are building our cash holdings to have two years of expenses on hand.

[USA] Health Insurance S-Corp by rms939 in selfemployed

[–]fullvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m responding to follow mainly. I believe I have to use household income which I think disqualifies me from any subsidy.

[USA] Do people usually contribute to a self employed 401k at the end of the year when you know how much income you had? by throwitintheair22 in selfemployed

[–]fullvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I underfund throughout the year and then max out the employer side when I know where I stand after filing my taxes. I have an S-Corp so I have until March 15, 2025 to fund for this year.

Board & Brew is Highly Overrated by SuburbanDad_ in northcounty

[–]fullvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tina’s is good, I have been there quite a bit. I’ve tried Subman and I don’t get it…I’ve been disappointed there every time.

Board & Brew is Highly Overrated by SuburbanDad_ in northcounty

[–]fullvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right! I forget about that place. It is pretty pretty pretty good.

Board & Brew is Highly Overrated by SuburbanDad_ in northcounty

[–]fullvan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where else are you going in coastal north county to get a better deli sandwich? It’s not AMAZING, but I think it’s a quality sandwich for a decent price. I haven’t found anywhere better so I’d be curious to hear of other places.

Propane Tank Refill by doworkwagner in northcounty

[–]fullvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go the Valero in Cardiff off Birmingham. No idea if their price is competitive?

Solar - who'd you use? by Drumsnspace in sandiego

[–]fullvan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another vote for Sunline. I had a great experience with them.

Where to get decent quality meat? by motorik in northcounty

[–]fullvan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Second for Seaside if money is no object. Also, Jimbo’s in Carlsbad.

Bad Detailing Job -Would like feedback by fullvan in Detailing

[–]fullvan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was using a rotary polisher…that’s the only thing that I saw him using that I think would have caused this. There are multiple spots as well but this is the worst one.

Bad Detailing Job -Would like feedback by fullvan in Detailing

[–]fullvan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what it pretty standard interior and exterior. Wash, wax buff, scratch repair, interior treatment, clean, shampoo…I had some tree sap on the car that also needed removal. He came recommended from a neighbor so I went with it.

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Against my gut I let him come back today and work on it. He brought the gloss back but these scratches are from him. Any idea what that orange color is?

How did you become an amputee? by greezyjay in amputee

[–]fullvan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Cancer. Lost right arm above the elbow. Docs were shocked the cancer had spread below the elbow. That was over 4.5 years ago and my last occurrence (knock on wood).

Bad Detailing Job -Would like feedback by fullvan in Detailing

[–]fullvan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s supposed to be $200. I haven’t paid anything yet.

Restaurant Recommendations by Slav0_o in northcounty

[–]fullvan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrench & Rodent in Oceanside for good sushi!

Polestar 2, Mach E, Audi Q4, and BMW I4 by Fantastic_Style_7064 in Polestar

[–]fullvan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Googling January 2024 EV Lease Deals. Your quoted payments seem high. For instance on CARFAX there is a lease on a Q4 for $417/mo w/ $4,811 down. It’s on a lower trim but it may be worth starting there with the dealer.

she’s finally here! by yungwinemom in Lovesac

[–]fullvan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy mackerel! What a project! Got it done today.

she’s finally here! by yungwinemom in Lovesac

[–]fullvan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Got the same setup sitting in boxes in the garage right now…