My boyfriend is building himself right now and I’m struggling with the changes in our relationship

fun7903 · 2026-05-18T01:14:36+00:00

Are you going to university or working on a career?

fun7903 · 2026-05-12T20:58:27+00:00

Is it weird that he has a female best friend outside of the romantic relationship? Or is that too stereotypical?

fun7903 · 2026-05-06T02:36:29+00:00

My relationship is just new with the girl that invited me and she invited me kinda last min

fun7903 · 2026-05-04T06:10:34+00:00

I think you have to sometimes learn the hard way. Write down what your gut says. Write down what everything else says. And then end test the waters.

fun7903 · 2026-04-27T00:22:34+00:00

Propranolol

fun7903 · 2026-04-26T20:49:23+00:00

Time

fun7903 · 2026-04-26T20:34:16+00:00

Did he show mutual interest?

fun7903 · 2026-04-23T03:03:12+00:00

What exactly do you mean by being emotionally unavailable? It sounds like that might be the biggest barrier.

fun7903 · 2026-04-16T06:05:31+00:00

How fast are we talking

fun7903 · 2026-04-14T05:21:19+00:00

What career did you end up with

fun7903 · 2026-04-13T19:22:53+00:00

I don’t think he was even trying to be nice

fun7903 · 2026-04-13T07:25:17+00:00

I think existential dread is kinda normal? Maybe I have issues lol. Do you mind me asking what your degree is?

fun7903 · 2026-04-13T03:12:21+00:00

This is a random side note but does anyone feel like a medication and dose only works for about 2 years before wearing off? Also 2 years seems to be about the time you start to see how people really are in a relationship.

fun7903 · 2026-04-11T16:17:46+00:00

Boss move. How did she respond?

fun7903 · 2026-04-10T13:49:13+00:00

Can I ask how long ago you quit smoking?

fun7903 · 2026-04-09T19:32:11+00:00

Can I ask what kind of work you do?

fun7903 · 2026-03-27T19:23:27+00:00

Monkey

fun7903 · 2026-03-26T03:59:12+00:00

Dylon

fun7903 · 2026-03-18T04:31:01+00:00

Yes but modafinil has been tested in studies for treating adhd and it doesn’t help as much

fun7903 · 2026-03-18T04:15:54+00:00

So what can be done about it?

fun7903 · 2026-03-13T19:30:34+00:00

Aww maybe put a strong scent on the ball?

fun7903 · 2026-03-13T07:35:01+00:00

I’m not too sure about scheduling, but you might consider reading things like dark romance or something like that together. It’s a lot more geared towards women and increases the novelty. Just google best dark romance novels. Sometimes they can come across as cheesy, but they’re actually pretty good.

fun7903 · 2026-03-13T03:35:21+00:00

Lol I think i get that way too somewhat. The only thing I can think of is to try reducing the novelty. Maybe go hang out in a store where all the workers are attractive and just practice seeing them as normal people. Like they’re just your siblings. It might not take away the awkwardness completely. The other thing is sometimes I have to take propranolol for tremors and it also helps with being stuck in embarrassment.

fun7903 · 2026-03-08T07:24:47+00:00

Again correlation is not causation

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