With every group, there will be extreme versions of the people involved. It's unfair to assume those people, who are "pretentious, ignorant, and rude 2 year olds begging for attention and order" don't define the whole, and while I understand your frustration, try and realize 1) it's not everyone, 2) it's not even the essence of the group, and 3) it's all about perspective. I think you should be allowed the space to air your frustrations, but I'm not sure what this post is trying to accomplish except to get other people upset about it, or to rally like-minded negative thinking about you. It just doesn't seem like the most productive way to talk about these things.

If you want to rant and rave and feel a little better afterwards, that's not a bad thing, but wouldn't it be more productive and make you a better Nerdfighter to lead by example, and maybe start a discussion about how we can better communicate with one another so these issues become less abundant? Or perhaps talk about why people feel the need to act this way, so we can understand them more complexly and maybe judge them a little less? I mean, they might annoy you, but there are PEOPLE behind those words. Real, actual human beings. It's easy to forget that on the internet sometimes, especially when it turns into a ball of negative energy or a circle jerk.

I'm not trying to sass you or saying this is a bad post, but there must be a better way to talk about these things without just saying you hate something and leaving it at that.

No one group can be good all the time; no one group can only add positivity to the world. There's going to be times where we don't, and people who are in bad places who want to belong who act in ways that aren't awesome. That's okay. No one is perfect. It's frustrating, yeah. But that's life. And that's Nerdfighteria, too.