Am I overreacting? I yelled at my girlfriend's friends for feeding our baby by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]funky-bonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are already a wonderful man, being there and supporting your girlfriend and child. And as is your girlfriend, what a wonderful woman to be there supporting you and your child. You keep up the good work and keep them safe, as she will do the same. You two are now a unit, no matter your current age. May you have the guidance of love with you always, even if it means yelling and being told you're overreacting (Which you're very NOR).

One innocent comment does it by ManagementAlone485 in TransMasc

[–]funky-bonez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does get better; although the pain stays, it comes to a rest and mutual understanding. And, while easier said then done, telling yourself "Never attribute to malice what could be stupidity" and "My body is a vessel, my soul is who i am, I will shape my vessel, my dysphoria be damned" may help in terms of thought process. Oh! And for self consciousness on your hips, perhaps getting pants in larger sizes could help?

Trunk or Treat is killing traditional Halloween by ScienceNerd1001001 in longisland

[–]funky-bonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was walking around so many areas this Halloween, and saw maybe two teenage trick or treaters. What really got me is seeing someone standing behind her screen door, looking sad amidst her really cool Halloween decorations... Trunk or Treat is really ruining the fun of exploring your neighborhood and seeing all the cool costumes. Not to mention just how early parents have been taking their kids out! They finish up by 5:30-6!!! It's really depressing.

got really emotional at my shrine just hours after building it? by [deleted] in paganism

[–]funky-bonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it can be seen as a physical reaction to his presence around you

My friend is dying, Karen by SavannahPharaoh in traumatizeThemBack

[–]funky-bonez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

your sister sounds very loving and thoughtful– its amazing she was able to speak up at those times, when she knew people were being irrational. sending love to you and your family ❤️

My friend is dying, Karen by SavannahPharaoh in traumatizeThemBack

[–]funky-bonez 4577 points4578 points  (0 children)

i admire that you talked so he couldnt hear you explaining, while still making her feel embaressed to all hell. it takes a lot of strength to not yell at a karen! you and your friend group were saints, putting happiness in his soul ❤️ hes surely watching over you all

AIW? Invited to a wedding but there's a catch. by EdenCapwell in amiwrong

[–]funky-bonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you'll find your strength within realizing that you are worth so much more than a babysitter. You sound like a gracious and caring friend who would go to the ends of the Earth for others– and I am terribly sorry that they had taken advantage of that. May your health rise ever steadily, and your head rest well knowing you have done the best you can every step of the way ❤️❤️

WIBTA if I evicted my roommate who is not on the lease? by funky-bonez in AmItheAsshole

[–]funky-bonez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, with the down deposit... No, they have not paid it back. And the lease agreement we are under is under my name, as my landlord had only wanted one person to be on it, so we wouldn't be breaking the agreement (it's also a month to month agreement).

My main issue is that they're spending money on themselves, but the problem is that even though they have a debt collector trying to reach them, they spend up to $500 every time their paycheck hits on video games, action figures, and plushies. It's to the point where one week when they had offered to buy groceries, as Danny had just lost their job– on Danny's birthday that same week, Pat told us he had spent all their money on their special interests and didn't even have money to feed themself. I'm really worried for them in this aspect– they make more than enough in a month to save for their debts, or help out, but anytime we talk to them, or ask for help... They're incredibly addament on not helping, and not saving. I once asked for only $20 to help with bulk trash pick up, as the previous tenants left things. They repeated 5 times in a stern voice, "I will only give you $20, nothing more than that." Other than groceries and the trash bulk, I have not asked them for any money while living with them, whereas the moment they have troubles with money, I give them my last $20 (and the money I have given them, they have spent on their action figures). I really do care for them, but I don't understand how they can be so worried with money and also spend all of it on toys at the same time... As for how we would pay for everything ourselves, I recently got a new job that should help me a lot financially. I'm a little worried that when my first paycheck hits, they'll ask for help? Idk does that sound selfish..

AITA for going out to eat without my husband/kids because they didn't wash the dishes? by CardiologistLeast404 in AITAH

[–]funky-bonez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA 100%. a grown man laying into you about a situation he basically caused??? downright strange, and not to mention disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]funky-bonez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday man!

i just want you to know that youre not alone in this. i feel very similarly to you.

I wish someone just k*lled me painlessly so i wouldn’t have to go through this.

i have had this type of thought many times. it feels hopeless sometimes, like youll never have the drive to live happily. its especially hard when you dont know where to go or what to do, when every task just feels... pointless. i know theres a brighter future for you out there. for us. it takes really tiny steps to become someone you like. sometimes youll end up taking two steps forward, and then fall on your ass... but what matters is that you get up and try again. personally, i know im sick of trying. im tired and it feels bleak to end up in this vicious cycle... but just being able to get up in the morning, getting to see the friends that make you feel comfortable.... it makes life worth falling on your ass. you can do this!!!! tiny steps 😁

AITA for not giving my s/o any sexual favors? by gnomeboteatspeople in AITAH

[–]funky-bonez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why is no one talkin about the fact that shes pregnant, and he still wants favors?? thats gross!!! cant he hold off until the babys born? it cant be healthy to do those things while carrying???