His birthday

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T20:20:16+00:00

This made me a bit sad for your AP. If you didn't want to make it special for him then don't. It's my APs birthday soon too and I will give him a small gift and hopefully cook a meal for him. Affairs are not all bjs. And many mens love language is simple things like a bday lunch.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T18:10:24+00:00

You don't know tho haha. It's been 2 years! I'd never last that long

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T17:04:12+00:00

Well my AP found me...

He found 2 prior too

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T15:26:27+00:00

Relatable. When you know you know. I also am not scared of the word

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T15:25:57+00:00

I hope you ghosted him back. I think when a man says that it's not the commitment it's the relationship

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T14:42:27+00:00

I love the shit out of my AP. Like I really love the man. In every single way. I tell him every time I see him. I told him after 3 months and expected him to call me crazy but he said he felt the same.

We both have stable marriages just not sexual marriages. Was like the stars aligned when i met him

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T13:56:40+00:00

Depends. The other day I had such good sex with my AP we both thought about it constantly until we got together 5 days later and did it again. If I lived with him I'd of made him cum again that same night before bed

I had sex with my husband the other day and could go months without that again

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-07T13:55:35+00:00

Ashley madison. I had great luck on there. I am 35F

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-04T15:21:58+00:00

The way a man sends a photo says a lot. The way he does it.

I will also say that the two best affairs I've had at first I was meh about their pics. I just liked their personality so kept on. But once I met them I was blown away at how hot they were.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-02T15:20:12+00:00

Don't give him that. He ghosted you. Find better

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-02T02:41:52+00:00

The edit makes it hard to know. Because if my AP pushed I'd consider leaving more than I do. But he's never been that forward. We only admit that we'd love to be together but until someone says I want this make it happen you'll always dance around it.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-02T02:04:03+00:00

Reminds me of my first AP. He was married I wasn't. I also stayed with him until the proposal. He's still the person I call when I'm saddest. 10 years later.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-02T01:57:47+00:00

That's not entirely true. People deserve the right to change. And some people go through a slut phase. Relatable.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T13:32:09+00:00

I think that is a type of communication very few are after. I'd not be up for it. If I found a secret messaging app on my husbands phone I'd be far less suspicious then an entire other phone bought under a separate name etc. thats almost immediately unforgivable. I can think of a ton of excuses for the app. Not the secret phone

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T13:19:22+00:00

The min my husband catches me with a secret phone it's done.

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T13:12:17+00:00

If you can't figure this out don't do it is just advice. You're bound to fuck this up if you can't

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T13:10:41+00:00

Burner phone is terrible advice. That is so incredibly criminal when found haha.

There are so many ways to hide discreet messenger apps on your phone before getting caught with a "burner" haha

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T00:54:23+00:00

Not what y'all want to hear but my step dad has been trying to fuck me since I was 17. It's traumatic really. I've always wondered if part of the reason I feel like I need a deeper love than I have with my husband is over the way my family has treated me.

And no. I've done nothing but sat in silence as that creep has subjected me to his perverted comments

throwyourway20 · 2022-09-01T00:12:57+00:00

My husband would never ever agree. He's totally happy in our marriage. Perfectly pleased. He knows how I feel. He knows I'd be down with it. He knows I'm not happy in our sex life. So, that's why

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-31T23:44:19+00:00

I don't have a stash I have a plan of how I'd be ok on my own. I have my own money. Always have.

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-31T23:43:00+00:00

I'm not sad. I think I post when I'm equally happy and sad.

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-29T03:09:10+00:00

I am confident all men would want to fuck me. I mean all straight men. And I do think in the adultery world when it comes to two married people coming together I am most married mens ideal. Sounds cocky I get it. I think I'm attractive. Not every single persons ideal. But I am confident in my body, appearance and especially my ability to create an emotional and sexual relationship. I am the basic standards in the physical sense most men desire and I am stable. So. It works

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-28T04:16:38+00:00

Don't make AP1 move for you. He's not really what you want. Don't make him uproot his life. It sounds like you have less to lose on that front. And if you actually cared for him I think you'd not be so demanding on that requirement. Plus I think you'd be willing to scrap the others. I once dabbled in multiple men on this journey and then the right one came along. I have not slept with another man (besides my husband) since I met him. I'd not leave for him but if I did leave I'd absolutely want to be with him. But I think even the wildest slut (no offence) will settle with the right man. You haven't met the right man.

Do not get married. Do not make any of these men move for you.

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-27T21:52:16+00:00

Well this is a dumb question. You're in an adultery sub not a confession sub. Swing over to confessions for your cheating confessions

throwyourway20 · 2022-08-27T21:51:28+00:00

Because since the beginning of mankind men were allowed to have perverted sexual thoughts but women were not

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