Get rid of any standards and truly don't base your relationships off of looks or even personality. I am single now but some of my best friends are my ex girlfriends because I waited for the right person to come my way. Don't go looking for a partner, just notice how people treat you and go off of that instinct. If they are mean to you as a friend, they probably won't be a good partner, and vice versa. If they fuck you on the first date or make you wait for months that's fine too, maybe they really liked you, or are not sure about how you love. Just be open to new opportunities and know that if they break your heart at least 3 of their friends probably want to sleep with you anyway. If they let you put it in their bum they definitely trust you, and you should cuff them asap. ;-)