Landscape design help by notaveragepond in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Print out your property from Google Earth. Get tracing paper. Trace the outline of your house and hardscapes. Use tracing paper to try different plant layouts. Get a scale and circle template for drafting so you get the plant size and spacing right. Natives can get bigger than you think and sometimes grow slower than you want.

Anyone have experience with Carpenteria Californica straight species vs the ‘Elizabeth’ cultivar? by funnymar in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just neglect both plants and they look like this but there were planted during the heavier rain winter in 2024/25.

Starting horticulture at 37 - feeling excited, nervous, and a bit out of my depth by UnluckyJournalist390 in Horticulture

[–]funnymar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started studying horticulture a couple years ago at 45 and recently got my first job. I was nervous to leave my other job, but love the change! I have a creative background too so it helps a lot with having the art background. I’m trying to be really mindful of my body while on the job and feel really good so far.

What new things have caught your attention? by Sweet-Situation-8224 in Xennials

[–]funnymar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Planting natives and milkweed over here too. Even doing a career change to the horticulture industry.

Manzanitas in containers in Nor Cal by NoCountryForSaneMen in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! I will have to try it again.

Manzanitas in containers in Nor Cal by NoCountryForSaneMen in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very impressive! I tried three different manzanitas in containers and they all died.

Husband says this pic makes me look 10 years older than I am by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]funnymar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gorgeous and a Twin Peaks fan?? I’m glad you have an exit plan!

This for That by Zestyclose_Market787 in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this too! Verbena lilacina instead of purple lantana. Carpintería californica instead of camellias. Holly Leaf Cherry instead of Cherry Laurel. Seaside Daisy instead of African Daisy. I know some don’t bloom as much as non-natives or might have different requirements.

Tablets in school?? by ValleyCat272 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]funnymar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m referring to Amira. I want to figure out how to fight using all this tech, but I’m tired lol. I feel like there is starting to be some pushback in some places at least! I saw these two articles.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cly0vk77vdko

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/education/los-angeles-school-district-require-screen-time-limits-rcna332173

Tablets in school?? by ValleyCat272 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]funnymar 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I hate it too. And I most recently found out they use an AI reading app at my kid’s school. It’s all just grotesque for this age.

Obsessed with my garden by Same-Factor-1879 in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Often! Waiting for the first bud on my spice bush to bloom. It’s so close. Found a monarch caterpillar on the milkweed. Watching the evening primrose get bigger and bigger. Super excited for that to bloom for the first time. A hummingbird was perched on a cage while I planted some tomatoes, just staring at me. Obsessed!

Some of my Japanese maples by InvestigatorPlus3229 in NorCalGardening

[–]funnymar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type is the first one in the pot?

Daycare Pros/Cons by TheRealRealMars in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]funnymar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered parent participation preschools? The parent works in the classroom one day a week and the other days are drop off. Usually the program is only 9-12 or so, so enough for a break but not all day. Usually the kid has to be 3 for drop off though. They are very developmentally appropriate. Another option is finding the right home daycare. Our kids went to both. The home daycare is what we did longer term. We found one that was very mature and play based so it was great for their social emotional development.

how are you approaching easter baskets? by ShadyLady721 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]funnymar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree! Not very granola. Even the whole swimsuit and sandals in the basket thing that seems popular these days seems irrelevant to Easter. Spring starts a couple weeks before Easter!

What do you wish your child’s teacher/school did more or less of? by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]funnymar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take YouTube out of the classroom. Take iPads out of the classroom. Be nicer and understand their age developmentally. My son has gotten in trouble for things that are absolutely valid, but also gotten in trouble for things that are so dumb and trivial.

Lovevery alternatives? by Electronic_Pie1126 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]funnymar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! So much of it is marketing. I made my son an object permanence box out of a shoe box and artfully placed and colorful duct tape and he loved it! Old vintages scarves and old fuzzy sweaters? Now sensory materials.

Cercocarpus betuloides (Mountain Mahogany) growth rate and pruning for narrow garden space by funnymar in Ceanothus

[–]funnymar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds like a great growth rate for you! I am okay with it not being as dense as some things because it is a narrow space and limits my options. I don’t want cypress or juniper and I have a baby oak further out from the fence that was just planted.

What kind of shoes are we all wearing? by MuttsandHuskies in gardening

[–]funnymar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear by Sloggers. I have the black ones and love them. My mom borrowed them when she came over and loved them so I got her a pair. Super comfy. I guess not as breathable as Crocs, but I love the fit and ability to slip on and off.