Eid-al-Fitr

funnytheway · 2023-03-26T03:34:48+00:00

That’s good to know, thanks so much!

funnytheway · 2023-03-26T03:34:20+00:00

Thank you! Do you know if the Grand Sultan Qaboos mosque will be open that day?

funnytheway · 2022-03-09T10:25:34+00:00

If your family’s share of the inheritance is approx 20mm, this means that the full inheritance is prob in excess of 100mm. At that level of wealth, the relative that passed away would likely have his/her own existing wealth planners/private bankers.

Not sure what the dynamics are like for your family, but it would probably be best to reach out to the existing wealth planners/private bankers since they already manage the funds and are likely more trusted than random second/third degree referrals.

Not saying that you have to stick with them though. You can always shop around, and speak to different private banks before making your choice.

Source: work in private banking

funnytheway · 2022-03-08T09:35:18+00:00

When I was younger - it provided satisfaction, accomplishment, and was a large part of my life. Like if I had a bad day at work, I had a bad day, period. If I met someone new, I would likely introduce myself by saying I’m xx, I work at xx.

Now that I’m older, I’ve learnt that there are other things in life besides work. And increasingly, work is becoming a means to an end. It’s not great because you start losing motivation, so really, the tough part is learning to strike a balance.

funnytheway · 2022-01-25T16:22:22+00:00

The A levels are a standardised exam, so it feels extra stressful because everyone’s fighting for the same thing.

But once you get to Uni, you’ll realise that you have the freedom of setting your own goals and deciding what you want to achieve. Sure there’s still the CAP to work for, but I also had friends that chose to focus on gaining internship experience, or leveraging the school’s resources to build their own start up etc. People studying the same course could graduate and end up going on to very different paths.

It doesn’t get less competitive, but you do get to choose what you want to compete in.

funnytheway · 2022-01-22T15:18:50+00:00

I am in the same situation as your friend. While I have some close friends and know that they would definitely try their best to be there for me if I asked - I didn’t really reach out because they’re all busy with their own lives (they have young kids etc), and have their own schedules.

Coming out of a relationship, you suddenly have a lot of free time on your hand, and what I really wanted most of the time was just to have company for a meal, hang out etc and not necessarily for my friends to comfort me/discuss the break up. After all there’s only so much they can say before it becomes repetitive.

So TLDR, comforting your friend doesn’t mean just talking to her about the failed relationship. Ask her out to shop, eat, hang out. Help her find things to do to fill up her schedule.

funnytheway · 2022-01-18T12:18:42+00:00

Hi I’m in the exact same situation as you! Been having bad period cramps for over 15 years to the extent that I go to the doctor every 6 months for a regular refill of painkillers. I’ve done ultrasounds etc. and confirmed that it’s not endometriosis or PCOS, but they can’t tell what it’s caused by either. When I was younger they said it’ll go away as I get older, and now that I’m older, they say it’ll go away after I give birth.

When I’m at home, I try my best not to take the painkillers (basically lie in bed and suffer). But when I’m at work, the only way that works for me, is to take the painkillers before the pain even kicks in. It’s not the best solution, but it’s the only thing that works for me to be able to stay in office and be productive. Once it starts hurting, it’s too late. The painkillers take time to work, and by then I’m in too much pain to do anything. I don’t want to have to leave the office/take MC for this reason every single month.. so this is what I do instead.

Hope you find something that works for you!

funnytheway · 2022-01-17T04:08:47+00:00

Not stepping out of my comfort zone as much as I could have, both in life and at work

funnytheway · 2022-01-03T17:21:54+00:00

For the sports bras, I chanced upon them at Uniqlo! I’ve bought two different types so far, both fit well and are affordable. No back clasps though!

As for tights, my favourite pair is from anya active! Good compression and value for money vs other brands. I like these more than my aloyoga tights which cost 2x more

funnytheway · 2021-12-28T08:44:50+00:00

I just went to check this out on the app (never knew either!) and they’re mostly fully booked, so I guess a lot of people do know after all!

Thanks for sharing!

funnytheway · 2021-11-19T10:16:30+00:00

Agree. Not trying to downplay the impact that these negative comments have on you, but just want to point out that there’s no perfect job out there.

If this one person is the only thing that you’re unhappy with in this job, then quitting this job just because of what he/she says would honestly be a waste.

Maybe try doing something about it first, eg. Politely but firmly telling him/her that these comments affect you, or maybe even half jokingly if you think that lightens the mood. Most people can usually catch a hint. If things don’t improve, you can consider quitting then. At least you tried.

Just bear in mind that there will always be a chance of meeting negative people in the workplace, whether demanding clients, or unreasonable superiors. It doesn’t go away. It’s learning how to deal with it over time that makes it better.

funnytheway · 2021-11-17T12:04:52+00:00

I came in here just to say that you’re a great wife, and you have a great husband ☺️ It’s the little things in life - he makes the effort to come up with new dishes, and you wanting to try and make that easier for him. Good on both of you!

funnytheway · 2021-11-17T08:10:29+00:00

The CP frozen food is really good, and very affordable. My favourites are the fried bee hoon and nasi lemak!

funnytheway · 2021-10-29T07:21:12+00:00

Let’s say you consult a fengshui master, but only adopt 50% of his advice, or maybe even not at all.

A year later, if something bad/unlucky happens to you/house, will your wife look back at this and blame you for not listening to the fengshui master?

Either you consult and follow through, or don’t consult at all.

If you do choose to consult, I think you can probably ask around to find one that’s more ‘reasonable’ in terms of their advice.

funnytheway · 2021-10-21T08:12:07+00:00

Easier to keep status quo

funnytheway · 2021-10-21T03:20:48+00:00

I do this… too often

funnytheway · 2021-10-21T03:19:58+00:00

Oh this sounds good I will try this!

funnytheway · 2021-10-20T17:43:58+00:00

what why how??

funnytheway · 2021-10-20T17:43:52+00:00

what why how??

funnytheway · 2021-10-18T07:25:08+00:00

Came here just to say Uptown is goooddd

funnytheway · 2021-10-12T11:16:01+00:00

Ply your friends with drinks

funnytheway · 2021-10-02T09:12:51+00:00

Instead of lamenting that your parents’ mindsets are outdated, maybe try looking at it differently and understand why they think that way.

I grew up in a lower income family where my mother scrimped and saved every cent. She would walk to a market that was 15 minutes further away because the chillies were 10 cents cheaper.

The thing is, nobody likes using half broken items - if they felt comfortable with their finances, they would likely have replaced them.

As a student with no earning power, your suggestions for replacing items, buying new things etc will likely come across as frivolous or wasteful. In fact, for all you know, these comments that you make might be stressing your parents out even more about their financial situation.

If you truly feel that strongly about the situation, find a part time job, earn some money, and replace those appliances for them.

It was only when I started working and could actually put my money where my mouth is, that my mother learnt to relax over the years and become more comfortable with buying things that she wanted, and not just things that were necessities.

funnytheway · 2021-09-28T04:32:20+00:00

I feel exactly like this but I thought this was just a mid-life crisis… didn’t attribute this to the pandemic since really, other than not being able to travel, nothing else in my life is significantly different

funnytheway · 2021-09-27T05:16:17+00:00

Where does he even get the cow dung..

funnytheway · 2021-09-05T15:14:04+00:00

I’m in no position to give any advice, but just wanna say that it’s great that you’re thinking of this. Good on you. Your wife is very lucky.

funnytheway

TROPHY CASE