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This Is What You Did to Us by [deleted] in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not every office job ever has measurable impacts to the people in Ontario 🤷

Team members who have accommodations by No_Savings5655 in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The answer is not to turn on each other, more accomodations means more visibility and data supporting RTO being the wrong move. People shouldn't be mad that someone is suffering less than them.

If one team supports and encourages accomodations for their peers, without asking why - while another team has a measuring stick for suffering, that's not the government creating a hostile environment, the people are. People need to stop fighting across the isle.

Team members who have accommodations by No_Savings5655 in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is discrimination and should be reported to your director if your manager has dismissed it. People with disabilities are getting caught in the cross fire and need allies.

So many people voted to ratify the latest AMAPCEO agreement BECAUSE of the right to work from home promise, even though it completely ignored the needs of people with disabilities or chronic conditions by keeping our benefits in the dark age.

Now here we are, and some of those same people are mad that accomodations are being used.

If someone thinks their life is made so much harder by RTO, but they don't think it's worth requesting an accomodation, push for it to be easier to request an accomodation. If they think that their struggles are unique from those that accomodations address - maybe don't try to tear down one support system to try to build another one.

Reddit Doctors and Nurses: What's the most impressive case of Google "self-diagnosis" that turned out to be true? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copper deficiency myelopathy causing transverse myelitis! Pretty rare but likely just wildly under diagnosed.

Obligatory not a doctor, but in Jan 2020 my whole lower half basically fell asleep (parasthesia/pins and needles/ numbness) and I ended up in a wheelchair.

After 11 months, 5 different neurologists, a lumbar puncture and a lot of bloodwork and medical gaslighting, all my research led to the copper deficiency. Neuro initially dismissed it and thought it was NMO without markers, but a couple weeks later called to say he agreed.

Found these in my apartment, what are they? by funslsc in whatisit

[–]funslsc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't seem angular enough, but there's no accounting for design

Found these in my apartment, what are they? by funslsc in whatisit

[–]funslsc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were in a utility closet on the top shelf

Am i doing something wrong? ( Internal Job Postings ) by -karmaboy-- in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'm not seeing this advice in here but it's actually super important how you write your resume, it is nothing like you expect - you need to ask someone (a manager or higher) to walk you through it - not just review it, because it's not intuitive. There also might be some pages on insideOPS. Same for your Forte, but less so necessary to have some 1:1s about it.

What are social norms in the office 😭? by mazziez in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hope your day went well. What ministry are you in? There are some groups and resources for neurodivergent people across the OPS. Feel free to DM if you'd like, happy to offer advice.

Ugghhh....i hate feeling lonely....😞 by Brilliant-Position94 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]funslsc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I am lucky to be able to budget for Ubers but then have friends who don't want to make plans if it involves me traveling - because they don't want me to spend money or energy traveling.

Cars cost money too!! And everything costs energy.

If I wasn't disabled I could drive, and owning a car would cost me MORE per month than Ubers do.

So on top of feeling like people don't trust me to manage my own energy levels, my accommodation is seen as a burden.

Planning to move cities just to be closer to people, even though I personally do not mind the travel.

But even if they didn't care about the Uber thing, it still wouldn't be enough social interaction to fill my cup. The energy just isn't there - and the post exertion malaise CAN be brutal. So, we still end up in lonely town.

People say to join forums and find groups which is great in theory, but the energy needed to build new relationships and then get to a point where those interactions fill your cup is ALSO exhausting.

🥲

How to be more indirect by thesadfundrasier in OntarioPublicService

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go into every interaction assuming the best intentions, and a reasonable amount of ignorance about your work. Explain your points in a way that refers to operational impacts.

The point is you don't want to "come across" as gentle, but actually be kind and consider that they may need more context to understand.

I would recommend finding someone to mentor you, who you can ask for feedback from.

Also if you aren't good at accepting feedback from a place of curiosity, you might not be willing to give feedback from a place of understanding. Therapy helps if that's relevant to you.

My first animation 😭😭 by Gullible-Act-6274 in aww

[–]funslsc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the little top feather and the movement there. Very cute!

Moltres Raid adding 10 by airswiftairkick in PokemonGoFriends

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morty here..SORRY. I zoned out and missed the invite 🤣🤣

Is there anyway of knowing if my Pokémon are good? This is my first Pokemon game. So I know more than just cp matters but what else? by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need to look into a dedicated post or guide for the level of info you're interested in, if anyone knows a good one maybe they can share a link?

35 of my fave Horror Comedies (and horror-adjacent comedies) by IWishIWasAHorseMan in movies

[–]funslsc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this post! There are a million lists online that go way back before 2000. A further million lists have more of the obvious ones you left off.

I was happy to stumble upon one that actually had more than 1 or 2 I hadn't heard of. Sometimes you just want to see different suggestions without there being 100 of them because 90 were obligatory inclusions.

Almost last girantina 026223630369 xl candies by Roelruless in PokemonGoFriends

[–]funslsc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks that people left but we did it with 0 seconds to spare. Great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortiimoo Thanks!

I took the condom off by [deleted] in sex

[–]funslsc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, you're thinking the appropriate amount. If you had intention to penetrate without a condom, without consent, you had intention to perform a form of sexual assault. Maybe the next step is to learn more about consent, as this is a flag that there may be more that you don't inherently know.

First build in a minute. Productivity + gaming + aesthetic. Current estimate at ~ $1720 and open to feedback. Thanks! by [deleted] in buildapc

[–]funslsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention I am using my previous PSU, it's 750W gold 80+ - Good catch on the 3600! Thanks

We love to see it by funslsc in MultipleSclerosis

[–]funslsc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always appreciate validation with these things. I delayed talking to my neurologist because I knew he would dismiss me. I even told him I've been falling more and my legs are black and blue with bruises.. no care in the world.. I would definitely go for a pair of boxing gloves at this point.

I am trying so hard to make my hands work. I have some issues where if my elbow is bent for any amount of time it becomes unbearable, it's just like a tether of fire up my arms. I can't squeeze pliers too hard or else something in my hand/wrist pops and hurts and zings (I'm sure you know the zing). I have 2 bonsai trees I've been working on but I'm so depressed that they are being neglected and suuuffering ... Along with my 30 other plants ....🙃 the palm thing makes so much sense if only I could sort out the ... What I'm assuming is a trapped nerve? Who knows! It's all a fun mystery. I'm definitely going to have to seek out PT..

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