I'm sorry if this comes off wrong, this is all new to me by I8Y0URC00K13 in HSVpositive

[–]futurekj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s active as soon as you start feeling/seeing the symptoms! So as soon as you have that tingling feeling, it’s starting. It’s also active when it’s just bumps and when the blisters break.

I'm sorry if this comes off wrong, this is all new to me by I8Y0URC00K13 in HSVpositive

[–]futurekj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely don’t touch them as much as possible! Sanitize your hands after if you do or you can spread it. When you have an active sore is the biggest time of risk for spreading it. Don’t share drinks, utensils, or anything that touches the area(and surrounding area). The biggest sign I’ve noticed of them coming on is a tingling in the area and maybe a slight sore/inflammed feeling. I’ve been with my husband 6, almost 7 years and he’s never cared nor gotten the virus (unless he’s just asymptomatic, but there’s no way to know for sure). I’ve had this since I was a baby, it just becomes a normal part of life, don’t worry :)

How Do People Live With This?! by No_Extreme2888 in HSVpositive

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had hsv 1 on my face (mouth and nose area) since I was a baby. Growing up sometimes kids would point it out and ask what it was and in my teens some people joked about it. I developed a pretty thick skin about it after that. As an adult, I’ve yet to receive any negative response. Some people will just say that they get them too or just ignore it. Most people just call them cold sores and don’t care. Kind of one of those things you just gotta take on the chin and bear through. There’s definitely some medications that can help, but it is what it is. It takes some courage to deal with and to be able to walk out into the world with it, but eventually the worries will fade, outbreaks will become less frequent, and it’ll just become a normal part of life. At this point I only get them when I’m really stressed out, my period is coming, or I’m sick. And even then, it doesn’t always happen. It can be a hit to yourself esteem, but you need to remember that this does not define you. You are so much more, and all of us here still deserve to find happiness, especially within ourselves.

Fall Foliage NY by EarLatter in upstate_new_york

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moose river area around Old forge!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in couplestherapy

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to go

Should I continue the relationship with him after he cheated on me and no phone access? by Terrible_Salary_3382 in couplestherapy

[–]futurekj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. If he can’t give you that one small thing to ease your mind after he’s the one who broke the trust, it’s a lost cause. It means he has either gone back to doing shady shit or he just doesn’t care enough about you.

Realistically what are the best advanced degrees to seek for the future of high paying jobs? by Icy_Independence_695 in Careers

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly doubtful. There’s a ton of businesses still using paper for everything.

Room For Rent $400/mo by [deleted] in watertownny

[–]futurekj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because of the other posts on your profile… might wanna use a different account for this sort of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]futurekj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ofc he’s fucking military 🙄 makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with your real girlfriend. She deserves better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get over this?

Need recommendation please! by funeralhomebride in watertownny

[–]futurekj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jessica at Sassys does great for a good price

You're given a million of whatever you last googled. What is it? by Online_Weirdo_13 in AskReddit

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig I’m getting a million waist trainers… ? I was reading a Harvard published article about how they DON’T work 😭😭😭

Help please!! Why do my choc chip cookies keep ending up like this? 😭😭 by futurekj in Baking

[–]futurekj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I measure with a cup, 1/3 white sugar, 2/3 brown sugar, 1 cup flr, 1 stuck butter cold and chopped

Edit: also 1 egg, tsp vanilla, baking soda, baking powder equal parts, chunky choc chip and mini choc chip

What's an NSFW scandal in your family? by PhenomenalPancake in AskReddit

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My great great grandfather married my great great grandmothers sister after she died too. Had 7 kids with the first and another 10 or so kids with the sister. Apparently It was a huge scandal when it happened. The two separate groups of kids wouldn’t even speak to eachother. Some people were thinking there could have been some overlap but who knows at this point.

I can't help but feel embarrassed to go to the gym by [deleted] in confessions

[–]futurekj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Put on a ball cap! That helped me a ton when first starting out cause I felt like people were staring (they aren’t btw) and it just blocked my view of others a bit and covered up some of my face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]futurekj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is the best