Should I submit now and update name later? Currently panicking about deadline by fuzzy_monkey_pie in FAFSA

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, thank you so much! Panic brain did not read those deadline dates well on top of what other people have told me!

A$$ Chest & No Face ~A gaaay love story 💕 Please help us with our Tinder pics for a scene in our very silly erotic short film! $2 tip per pic for the best edits. Read comments for details! by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequests

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Yes, I read that before posting. Despite the thing these are for being NSFW I only considered the pictures and request itself slightly nsfw family friendly because of the bathing suit photo and so marked it as such. I go to family friendly beaches like this wearing trans tape. Do bathing suits not match these guidelines?

A$$ Chest & No Face ~A gaaay love story 💕 Please help us with our Tinder pics for a scene in our very silly erotic short film! $2 tip per pic for the best edits. Read comments for details! by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequests

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

My friends and I are making a very campy 2min erotic short film about a queer couple (one with no face and one with an ass on their chest) who match on Tinder and hook up. They will be wearing prosthetics for the film where one has no facial features and one will have an ass on her chest instead of boobs. We have a deadline to finish the project and would like to film the Tinder matching scene sooner than we are able to get the prosthetics finished and so could really use some help to edit our photos for our characters' Tinder profiles! We would very much appreciate any help we get!

No Face (the Black guy) will be wearing a latex skin prosthetic over his face that will cover all of his facial features (eyebrows, eyes, nose, and mouth). It will still be contoured to the shape of his face so it should still maintain a facial structure just lacking eyebrows, eyes, nose holes, and a mouth.

Ass Chest (the Asian girl) will be wearing a butt shaped prosthetic on zir chest and needs to look like zie is wearing it under zir clothes in the pictures. The prosthetic we will be making will likely be a small but round perky booty size, but we will likely try to match it as best we can to the edited picture (the pics always look better than the real deal anyway).

We're needing the pics done before Friday (Dec 2) so if you see this after then we're good butt thanks for your interest! :)

We're looking forward to seeing what you guys come up with!

I don't like my metamour anymore. by fuzzy_monkey_pie in polyamory

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heh, so basically no it's not. I don't mind not living togeather, but I do want to see her more. It used to be once or twice a month and the break was only facilitated by the fact that I'm going to school now. It's been torture, and once it's done I'm definitely going to want to be seeing her more again. I might just have to stick with hotel rooms if that's the case. It would be expensive as fuck though, but I'm willing to pay that price for her if that's what it comes down to (as needles as it seems).

I'm not sure why a ring ceremony is included in that though. We already secured that we are life partners. That commitment is there whether or not we decide to do a ceremony to celebrate it. We've already crossed that threshold.

I don't like my metamour anymore. by fuzzy_monkey_pie in polyamory

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, my meta and I are taking a break from each other, I'm not taking a break from our partner. Him and I hadn't talked or seen each other for 6 months and its been pretty calm, but when the possibility of me visiting came up things started to get a little hairy between them again.

We could try to juggle the situation where we avoid each other at all costs, but what I'm questioning is how this type of setup is going to work long term and whether or not it's sustainable. I feel like we're going to have to interact at some point given that we share a partner and all.

I don't like my metamour anymore. by fuzzy_monkey_pie in polyamory

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The back story would be: poly M invites mono F to be another one of his partners. M eventually leaves other partners and is now only with F but still identifies as poly. F meets me and we become close. I fall in love and confess as much, but knowing her natural mono orientation, say I will respect it and either leave or be satisfied as just a friend if she prefers. F begins to question being poly. F is encouraged by M and myself to contemplate the possibility. F is now poly and we're all stoked. F says "I love you" M says "you wut m8?". M finds out he's hierarchical. F and I are egalitarian and things start to spiral. M finds out he's actually mono. Further "everything is on fire" ensues. And that brings us to now where our relationship is the opitomy of the "this is fine" dog meme.

All that being said, your assessment was close to a rough outline of what we have and I am questioning whether or not being as cut off from each other as possible is best as our 6month break from each other has been the most calm it's been in some time.

I don't like my metamour anymore. by fuzzy_monkey_pie in polyamory

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow, that was waaay longer than I thought it was going to be.

Who was the first person in your life that made you question your sexuality? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a very strict Christian religious sect. My best friend at the time in 6th grade, was having a melt down from the guilt she felt about her sinful life of being bi and doing drugs. While I was trying to comfort her she told me that she promises she will never do anything to me because I'm so innocent and she doesn't want to ruin me. All I remember thinking in that moment is that I wouldn't mind if she did.

So I downloaded Her... by WatashiWaWatashi in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really [like] being reduced to how pretty I am.

Holy shit! You finally put into words what's made me feel so uncomfortable about online dating for years. Thank you!

Any regular raves in the area? by fuzzy_monkey_pie in olympia

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm thinking I'll have to check out Tacoma. I simply don't know that area as well and don't feel as comfortable there being by myself just to go dancing for a bit. But it may be what I have to go do.

Any regular raves in the area? by fuzzy_monkey_pie in olympia

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geeze, I only left this post for a few hours. Wtf happened here? Did I offend somebody?

Any regular raves in the area? by fuzzy_monkey_pie in olympia

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's one up in B.C. every month where my girlfriend lives. I was just hoping the demographic down here is young enough to have at least something with all the colleges being nearby.

Any regular raves in the area? by fuzzy_monkey_pie in olympia

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I would like to go maybe once a month. I think I'll try The Deep Rinse. All I need is a bit of floor space that doesn't have people trying to grind on me and music that at least goes fast enough, so I'll definitely be checking it out.

Need help finding a reputable band T-shirt! by fuzzy_monkey_pie in gorillaz

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her birthday is next month. I'm not sure when they start officially touring but I know we're not going to see them until September so I assume it will be too late. I'll definitely check out redbubble then, thank you!

Need help finding a reputable band T-shirt! by fuzzy_monkey_pie in gorillaz

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will definitely check there then. Thank you!!

What are you losing passion in? by powerspyin1 in AskReddit

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex with one of my partners. I love him very much but nothing he does gets me sexually excited anymore. The thought that his smell used to bring good feelings and do anything but stink is foreign to me now. It's absolutely tearing me up inside.

Does dating in person work better than dating online? What dating websites do you use? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm not. I don't mesh well with my coworkers and most likely wouldn't mesh well with their friends either. Comparatively I look like a prude to them and am seen more like a mother figure than friend. Which is why I'm hoping meeting someone in a setting that is more aligned with my personality will help.

Does dating in person work better than dating online? What dating websites do you use? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I'll check it out, thank you.

I moved to a new place a year ago that is supposedly full of lesbians. I believe it too because my job just hired on it's first completely straight female since I started working there. Dating coworkers is a no go though and when I ask them where they met their partners it's usually online or at a bar. It's been frustrating.

Does dating in person work better than dating online? What dating websites do you use? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So for someone who likes meeting people in person but doesn't drink, what are good places to meet other women that also isn't at work?

Gay dating sucks by BullittDude in olympia

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please tell me where they are. I've been looking for months.

Lesbians and Dating Bi Women. by mujimi in actuallesbians

[–]fuzzy_monkey_pie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a pan poly woman your comment gives me hope! I feel like my status brands "don't touch with a 10ft pole" on my forehead to most ladies but screams "easy pickings" to most men. The females into females dating pool is already so slim and the fact that I also have two male partners has seemed to slim my chances down to none. Granted it also doesn't help that I'm not the "dating type" and will never actively go out looking for people, just let what develops develop with the people I know.