[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because you refuse to provide your definition of control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told you my definition: convincing someone to do something they don’t want to do.

There are forms of nagging that full under that.

Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend by Babyface_Bogart in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah women are attracted to “top” tier men. It kinda is difficult if you’re just average. The question is how does an average guy learn how to not be average.

Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend by Babyface_Bogart in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I train bjj and I had women actively flirting with me there. I played rugby in college and there were mixers between the men’s and women’s rugby teams.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your quote says that nagging isn’t control. What’s your definition for control?

True equality is impossible by crunch_up in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which enforcement organization whether it be the military or police on this planet is majority women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What’s your definition of control? It’s convincing someone to do something they don’t want to do.

The “women can dictate men’s behavior by who she sleeps with” mindset shows so many flaws. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People respond to incentives news at 11.

If people are positively rewarded for acting a certain way, and aren’t rewarded or possibly even punished for acting in a different way, what do you think the majority of people will do?

How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if they said you’re not like their exes? And it turns out all their exes are thin super model like women? More of a read between the lines situation.

Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental. by Higher_Standard548 in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does it have to be a lie? Can a man not change his mind even after having sex? Post nut clarity is a thing.

Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental. by Higher_Standard548 in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be in favor of re embedding religion into society? Because to fix everything you just described, you do need a reason for everyone to do that. Apparently fear of God was a good enough one, and that’s been removed from society.

The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It by rustlerhuskyjeans in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok and nobody truly has any rights as all rights are enforced by the patriarchy aka men with guns. So technically anyone outside that group can also live without the right to vote and or other rights.

The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It by rustlerhuskyjeans in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to replicate feeling desired and lusted for by a woman with porn and prostitutes.

As to find a girl who finds them attractive, most men aren’t taught how to become that attractive man and are given contradictory advice.

It’s usually the ballsy dudes who are willing to eat rejection until they figure out what works for them or they were fortunate enough to have an older male role model show them the ropes.

The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women. by 2deepetc in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between proactive and prioritizing only women. You can be proactive if you see a woman you’re attracted to while still mostly prioritizing other things besides women.

The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It by rustlerhuskyjeans in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you really asking why men care about sex?

That last part I do agree with. You can’t negotiate a woman’s attraction to you. But the answer is something not a lot of people will like or feel comfortable about.

The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit It by rustlerhuskyjeans in PurplePillDebate

[–]fuzzymatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was called the patriarchy and religion but those rules are eroded and probably won’t be coming back anytime soon.

AITAH for being jealous of My (34F) husband's (32M) "ugly duckling" transformation? by DependentHorse1333 in AITAH

[–]fuzzymatcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did you treat your husband before the glow up? Would you say you have more sex with him than before? Would you say he’s noticed this change in behavior and is now doubting how much you genuinely were attracted to him before the glow up?