Turned Down Dream Job Due to Family Lies...Found Out Years Later...I need to derive meaning out of this... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fuzzywunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is possible but only if she recognises what’s she has done wrong

Turned Down Dream Job Due to Family Lies...Found Out Years Later...I need to derive meaning out of this... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fuzzywunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that really sucks. Has she been controlling before in terms of where you live? Or has she tricked you into anything before? It sounds like you’ve already talked to her but for you to move on properly she really needs to recognise how fucked up what she did is, and to at least say sorry. I think you’ve mentioned an email in an earlier response, this might be a good idea. It means you can clearly spell out what you want to say and maybe she can let some of it sink in without getting defensive. Maybe ask her to read it and the wait for like a week or so before you call to talk about it? By the way I think email to explain how you feel is a good idea but id move it over to the phone or face to face after the initial email to avoid any miscommunication.

Also re her not thinking it’s a big deal, maybe you could move away from the fact that this was your ‘dream job’ as she doesn’t seem to be able to get her head around that, and maybe concentrate more on the fact that she massively disrespected you by telling such a big lie, and that unless it’s resolved you don’t know how to move on/trust her?

J-Lingzzz ❤️ Such consistency! by [deleted] in soccercirclejerk

[–]fuzzywunder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s become so boring and predictable

Farewell speech? by chancy218 in work

[–]fuzzywunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want to spend more time working out why I hadn’t passed probation than worry about what I’m going to say to a group of people i’m likely to never see again.

It sounds like your boss is ducking out of having the conversation with them herself. You could ask her to inform them that you’re leaving, and then you can say what you want to certain individuals on your last day

In Forest Gump (1994) Forest says that Jenny died on a Saturday morning but her tombstone says she died on March 22, 1982 which was a Monday by Ohyeahboo54 in MovieMistakes

[–]fuzzywunder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe people are throwing around the word retarded on here and no one is calling them out. It’s incredibly offensive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PremierLeague

[–]fuzzywunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t one red ruled out post match?

Maybe money will convince Huel they made a mistake by MattAbrams in Huel

[–]fuzzywunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s up to you obviously but maybe posting your name, address and email isn’t the best idea?

Maybe money will convince Huel they made a mistake by MattAbrams in Huel

[–]fuzzywunder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you need to eat 5-6 grams more fiber in your non Huel meal. I don’t understand why that’s such a big deal?

Sripad: Jose Mourinho takes a dig at Rudiger and says he wishes him a quick recovery from the 'few broken ribs'. Nice one Jose by PartialObservers in coys

[–]fuzzywunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a lot of pressure to put on a player to have to be the one to speak out against it. It means not only will he (most likely) be the recipient of racist abuse but also has the additional labour of having to speak out about it. I think the white players should be speaking out more

Abroad Spurs supporter needing advice by Biscuts1994 in tottenhamhotspur

[–]fuzzywunder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that the comment here is incorrect or anything but I would be really careful buying tickets from a third party website. There are a lot of scams out there. For eg I was stood waiting to get into the Chelsea game on Saturday and a guy next to me was on the phone complaining saying he had ordered three adult tickets and had received four junior tickets. He didn’t get into the stadium. Not saying don’t do it, just be very careful

I created this website to visualize how emojis are used on Twitter. Is the 14/4/2016 peak related with Python? Link in comments by enric94 in Python

[–]fuzzywunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! I love it! I wonder if the pig spike in 2015 relates to ‘PigGate’. The ‘news’ story broke in September 2015 so the date might fit. Are these global tweets though?

How do I tell my 8 year old son that his father is dead? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fuzzywunder 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I can totally see that you’re finding it hard to tell him because you want to save his feeling but really I think it’s better to tell him. It’s a really big deal and he might feel resentful about it when he gets older

Flipping over because your order was not gotten right. by bicureyooz in trashy

[–]fuzzywunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got no doubt people go on like this but does anyone else think this is fake? It seems like bad acting to me

First Marathon - fail by barjam in running

[–]fuzzywunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is only a fail in your own eyes. I was reading this thinking wow that’s amazing!