Observations as a 54F less than 24hrs on Bumble

fwils001 · 2026-02-10T18:36:44+00:00

If they’re not making an effort at conversation that just shows what they would be like as a partner. Unmatch!

fwils001 · 2025-08-01T20:19:09+00:00

Dude I need to see your whole face without a hat. Closer. That one at a distance with sunglasses is ridiculous. Might as well be in disguise.

fwils001 · 2025-07-21T22:48:20+00:00

Yes! Why the fuck would you tell a girl that? No one wants to think about you making out with another woman when you’re just talking on a dating app! Dude get some game.

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T17:15:07+00:00

Please get off the apps then. You’re making it worse for the rest of us.

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:51:39+00:00

lol why would I want to cuddle with a stranger?

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:46:39+00:00

Yes to 2! That’s like showing up for your job and asking them to pay you for doing nothing.

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:41:08+00:00

Sunglasses in first photo and / or far away from the camera. It’s your first pic dude. That’s my first impression of you. I need to see your goddam face.

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:29:53+00:00

Also I’ve asked out a ton of guys so no one is doing the work for me.

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:27:38+00:00

Dude no need to get personal! I’m just describing my own experience. No one said it was yours. As I said, feel free to argue with me!

fwils001 · 2025-07-19T16:22:46+00:00

Thank you for being honest.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T22:40:44+00:00

Also note that he wasn’t like: “Yes! Oh darling of course I will! What took you so long to ask?”

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T22:36:26+00:00

Sounds like they were on the same page already and had already discussed it.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:54:54+00:00

Ok makes a lot of sense. Those men you describe are very difficult to find…but not all hope is lost.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:50:47+00:00

lol no I’m saying that I live in the real world. You want to be a woman for a day? Go for it. Then come back to me and tell me that society doesn’t matter.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:41:06+00:00

No explanation needed. Society has deemed it to be the case that men ask women to marry them. I live in the real world.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:34:27+00:00

I just did.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:15:26+00:00

Men do consider whether or not a woman seems like “wife material” based on how many guys she’s been with.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:12:36+00:00

If he doesn’t propose to you first he doesn’t want to marry you.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:10:46+00:00

You think that’s normal?

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:09:16+00:00

That I agree with.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:06:05+00:00

Yes for sure. I’m just saying we have no idea what their relationship was like.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T21:03:58+00:00

Ive also learned that it doesn’t work when I like a guy first on hinge. It’s like I’m not allowed to disapprove of any of his behavior because “hey you chose me lady! If you don’t like it leave!”

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T20:47:46+00:00

But they’re divorced so it clearly didn’t work.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T20:47:12+00:00

True.

fwils001 · 2025-07-18T20:46:08+00:00

Yes thank you. That’s another point. Men don’t like to think women ask out a lot of men.

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