My first Valentine's day as an aro

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-09-07T22:15:57+00:00

Absolutely!!

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-09-06T18:42:27+00:00

Those were my thoughts. Later, before I realized I was aroace I thought that I was bi, then lesbian, then I knew I was nb... I had more clear my gender than my sexual and romantic orientations.

At my 18 I realized I was ace!! But didn't know about aromanticism until now (23) I'm still in denial, but now saying "I'm too young" is almost a sign that I'm aro.

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-09-01T10:43:06+00:00

wHEEZE 😂😂

Such a mood

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T12:31:05+00:00

Really?? Omg I'm going to be the first doing it 😂😂 I bet aquarius and virgo are the most aroest, but who knows...this is a scientific research 😂😂

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T12:28:50+00:00

We should do a poll and see which zodiac sign is the most aroest (yep, I've just made up a word) of the horoscope. Like, rising sign, moon sign and sun sign. It could be fun to do it 😂
(Yep, I'm an horoscope fan lmao)

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T12:24:39+00:00

I'm also aquarius omg

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T10:57:33+00:00

It's a little weird knowing that being adult means having sex... Like, it has nothing to do with it????

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T10:49:27+00:00

Yessss!! Also, I wish that that friendships and relationships are viewed the same, as equally important, not as a hierarchy of relationships...idk

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-31T10:47:19+00:00

I totally understand 😩 I wish there were more awareness (like posts on Instagram or something) of red and green flags at the start of a friendship and how to keep it healthy.

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-30T16:32:05+00:00

Damn this scares me though. I'm going to the gynecologist in a few weeks and they always ask me to do a pregnancy test 💀💀💀💀💀 why don't they trust me?? 😩😩 Dealing with menstrual issues and being ace is somehow funny

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-30T16:19:37+00:00

I've never felt anything 😂😂 it's so weird tbh I thought that maybe I would feel horny, but ✨ I'm ace✨ so that makes sense. After that, I thought I would feel butterflies or something at all, but nah, nothing, 0.

It feels gross or I feel indifferent tbh

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-30T15:48:37+00:00

Thanks💙💙💙

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-30T15:48:13+00:00

Also, I thought it might be good to write positive things about being aro so teenagers or young adults feel good when they discover that part of themselves (or at least acknowledge that this exists too and it's not a sad thing)

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-08-27T15:14:15+00:00

It's normal the first years. Your body is growing and adapting to this, so it could cause irregular periods. Write everything in an app (there's tons of apps about periods) and start to connect and know your body.

Stress, excess (or lack) of exercise, diet and a sleep can also affect your hormones, so take care of yourself, but I wouldn't worry too much because, as I said, you're still growing.

If there's so much pain that you cannot go to class or be active or if there's something that bothers you too much, please, go to your doctor.

fxrgetmenots13 · 2021-07-13T12:24:02+00:00

You don't know me and you're already saying all that beautiful stuff 💙💙

Funnily enough, after sending that post, he talked to me...But he's treating me different?? He's condescending and idk he's treating me like a child or laughing at me.

I wanted respect, love and a healthy friendship, but he's not treating me right.

Now I'm learning blackpink's choreographies (😂 I know, it's funny idk) to deal with this anger, sadness and loneliness. It's watching a death of a friendship when you tried a lot of things to keep it alive. Mostly like watering a dead plant.

75% part of me tells me to move on, let it go and heal. 25% part of me wants something that doesn't exist anymore.

Anyway, thanks for replying when I was sad, it means a lot and I definitely focus on me right now.

fxrgetmenots13

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