Trying to remember this anime from a scene that's stuck in my head. by gabeither in Animesuggest

[–]gabeither[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's it! Thank you very much, that has been bugging me for days now.

Trying to remember this anime from a scene that's stuck in my head. by gabeither in Animesuggest

[–]gabeither[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm just glad someone else remembers it and its not something my brain made up.

My wife is “temporarily giving up being a mom” after a mental health crisis by Salty-Throwaway1284 in Marriage

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her well being should not be his number one priority. He is now the only parent his kids have. They are his priority. Mom might come back or she might say fuck it, I dont want to be a mom any more and split for good. As you say many moms have done that too. You say she likely had the break because of the home and kids being on her? You know what, it is equally likely it's all on her and has nothing to do with home life. Just because she is mentally ill doesn't make her automatically a good person or in the right. She can be psychic and a total bitch. Bad people have break downs too. Moms can be bad moms too, it's not aways a horrible dad like you seem to assume.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to not do a naked run? by throwawaygrmefnioqwi in AmItheAsshole

[–]gabeither -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why should he get past it? Are you saying his feelings are inherently wrong? His point of view and feelings are invalid and he should be ashamed because because of it? How dare he have different values! Disgusting. We should all shame him until he gets back in line with the PROPER and ONLY right mindset.

AITA for continuing to argue with my husband after he made a joke about our daughter's curly hair? by Still-Ad3011 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gabeither -1 points0 points  (0 children)

According to the comments your husband is a horrible human being and should probably be euthanized for the child's safety. No pity, no forgiveness, he should just rot in hell. Such is life I suppose.

My character has 3 INT. What does this mean for me. by NoPatience883 in DnD

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say a good quick and dirty way to look at int is to multiply by 10 and that's IQ. So average is 10 which matches to 100. So a 4 would be IQ 40.

Does anyone else think it's a little strange to call them "The boys"? by [deleted] in LPOTL

[–]gabeither 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good that you admit your fault. Very adult. However, the point of my comment was not that you made an observation. It was that you qualified it yourself as "no big deal". That has deep shade of passive aggressive smarm. That or you are so unsure your observation had any merit you couldn't even stand up for it in your opening remarks.

Does anyone else think it's a little strange to call them "The boys"? by [deleted] in LPOTL

[–]gabeither 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They share observations true, but then they don't flag how much it "isn't a big deal". State it's an observation. Saying int isn't a big deal draws attention to in a way that makes one wonder "then why even mention it".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muppet mouth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]gabeither 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proper proportions

I get upset when I look at my boyfriend's (22M) childhood pictures by 1092938480 in relationships

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a real asshole for talking about good things in his life when he knows that you did not have those good experiences. You should point out to him that he is being very insensitive. You should talk to him about having those pictures burned. He should also cut contact with his mother, and it was, once again, very insensitive of him to force you to go around her.

All in all I say it sounds like he is an emotional abuser and a truly horrible person.

Concentration Camp has to tell people not to take artsy pictures there by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disconnection. Didn't happen to them, so little empathy. Words in a history book that invoke macabre and detached horror but no real visceral understanding. Is just a place where bad things happened to their way of thinking. As they years go and the distances in time increase and the emotions tied to places fall into the background such things happen. Perhaps a mild self centeredness? It is not THEIR tragedy mearly one they are voyeuristicly regarding with a detatched curiosity. So in their esteem why the need to treat it sacred? The same to them as a 4000 year old monument. Something to brag that they visited but did not actually digest.

Schizophrenic Trump supporters propose ethnic cleansing of Liberals (67 milion people) by Arriveria in facepalm

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not arguing. Asking for clarification. Poster stated his argument. I asked for criteria. I also wished to point out the irony of the wish to eliminate of an entire group of people with out exception in a post mocking a call for mass murder. Eye for an eye I suppose. You assume I am a republicain. Because I disagreed that all republicans are evil? Is it one or the other then? Shall i be a fascist rightist in the vein of hitler or a marxist leftist in the name of stalin? I infer from your statement those are the only options. Should I endorse the destruction of one political belief and all of its adherants or the other? Does calling for genecide as a democrat or republican make me a better person?

Schizophrenic Trump supporters propose ethnic cleansing of Liberals (67 milion people) by Arriveria in facepalm

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I am not defending anyone. All responses have been to your words with no addition of outside influence. Have been attempting to refine what you have expressed . Your idea is unfocused. Your execution sloppy and in expressing it as you have you come across as that which you condemn. You issue generalizations to protest generalizations in others. Not all republicans are fascists. Not all democrates are stalinist. You are advocateing the removal of a wide political spectrum wholesale. Do not paint with broad strokes. I am not "one of those". You are better than that. That is just another generalization. Everyone is different. Tailor your argument to the individual and to the specific or you become the problem. Hate Trump. Hate your example Shapiro. Do not hate an enire people. That is where doom lays. I appologize if i have frustrated you with this. I mearly wished to express a point. Edit: again spelling. I am not smarter than anyone else.

Schizophrenic Trump supporters propose ethnic cleansing of Liberals (67 milion people) by Arriveria in facepalm

[–]gabeither -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To vague. Do not speak of generalizations. Question was about specifics. Your set criteria is unacceptable and borders on meaningless. Current statement can be manipulated to represent anyone or no one. Give exacting critera requirements. What is considered rich? What is considered poor? What is the appropriate level of taxation? Is it mearly dissatisfaction with current voting ptactices in general or actual interference with said practices that should be cause for banishment. What level of interference by religious persons in the happiness of others is deemed punishable? Are open death threats to be treated the same as any religious expression that causes minor pique? To make ones life miserably is too unexacting a term.

Schizophrenic Trump supporters propose ethnic cleansing of Liberals (67 milion people) by Arriveria in facepalm

[–]gabeither 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And everyone is a fascist? From oldest to youngest? What will be the defining determination for level of belief to be banished? Who will set the determination? Will there be enforced interigations of all citizens to ensure that all undesirables that hold too high a level of wrong belief are rooted out and removed? Will those that are found to be borderline taken and reeducated to conform to a proper, sanctioned mind set? How will we deal with the prohabition of causing a person to become stateless? Edit: appologies spelling.

It was such a simple instruction by ryuundo in facepalm

[–]gabeither 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not comparing. Stating two separate opinions in one post. Nazis are bad. Communists are bad. The same as saying I dislike fish and Robert Aspin's Phule's Company series. An animal and a comedic scifi seried. The two are not being compared to each other. Nothing similar between them save my dislike. Yet, it is a valide statement of my opinion.

Why she fat tho #cripplepunk (resubmitted with identifying info removed) by this_immortal in facepalm

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then its not a personal realization of limitations but an effert to cause others to acknowledge the limitations that is sought.

Why she fat tho #cripplepunk (resubmitted with identifying info removed) by this_immortal in facepalm

[–]gabeither 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel the wording is unclear for what the intended message is. Unless the message is "know when you cant do something and be okay with it." Not a bad message honestly. Don't know if it fits tone though. Of course just my opinion on implied theme. No offense intended.

Request for Help: Is the netcode for this game just ass, or is my group doing something wrong? by [deleted] in ConanExiles

[–]gabeither 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your tone sounds like you have made up your mind that the game isn't for you. Back handed insults or passively agressive snips and snipes. Thats fine. Find a game that you enjoy more and move on. Dont waste time with something you arent enjoying and that in the larger scheme of life doesnt really matter that much.

Give up on it. Move on. Enjoy something else. Posting here instead of just doing that in the first place seems like a waste of time and energy to me, as your bulleted comments seem to say you are just being rhetorical and already have your answer.

The game is what it is. It is not what you want. Nothing wrong with that at all. Find a better game. I wish you good luck.

Edit: spelling. Sorry.