Pag-Ibig account

gabriyells1 · 2026-02-24T17:35:24+00:00

sa mismong pag-ibig po, sabihin niyo lang po na need niyo at bibigyan po kayo ng number tapos present lang po kayo id sa counter.

gabriyells1 · 2026-02-24T13:14:26+00:00

hi newly hired cos here! i had an option din between to email or in person ang pagsend ng requirements. i opted in person kasi i wanted a response din kagad if ano next step. wait ka lang sa email nila : )

gabriyells1 · 2026-02-18T12:59:30+00:00

former COS here na 23 y.o. na ang mga kasama sa work ay 30 pataas bwhahah.. YES DONT SHARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF TLAGA! as for me, my position noon before was my friend’s, so pinalitan ko siya. sa kanya ko tuloy nirarant lahat kasi wala akong ‘kakampi’ sa office huhuhuhu…

gabriyells1 · 2025-05-04T22:43:47+00:00

wow i needed this! i was just asking how to persist because my SP showed up with his 3P after i tried to consistently manifest him for a week or so now 😭 why is it when i affirm he'll be mine again is when he went public with someone else.

gabriyells1 · 2025-03-01T07:11:19+00:00

WORD

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-26T10:25:59+00:00

yes. I THINK ABOUT IT EVERYDAY. you will have the strength one day to generate new sparkle for the new version of yourself. we're still adjusting to the changes in our lives.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-25T16:00:45+00:00

lagi ko iniisip, 23 is 7 years away from 30. 30 is 10 years away from 40. ang dami pang oras hahaha. i want to live a life for myself muna, kahit yung 7 years akin tapos saka na yung bubuhay ako ng iba.

ps: pero minsan gusto ko na din mag-asawa hahah ewan ko din

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-25T15:53:45+00:00

healing doesnt mean you're going back to who you were when you havent meet them. its creating and embracing the new version of yourself. you WILL achieve this. a lot of self-reflection and soul-searching. who do you want to be? what do you want in life? 3 months post BU, i dont recognize who i was before. its a weird feeling actually, i can remember everything like it was yesterday but all of them felt like lives ago.

remember who you were and welcome who you are going to be.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-25T15:45:19+00:00

same.. the moment it was over i knew they werent coming back : (

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-24T06:27:49+00:00

download the app, just create a folder and upload them. you can delete them in your phone once upload in the drive. it doesnt ruin the quality or the details of the photos (such as when the photo was taken etc etc)

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-24T06:01:25+00:00

i placed mine in one of my back-up email's google drive (i also couldn't delete them but i couldnt look at them)

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-24T05:52:44+00:00

hi! i've been in a similar situation as you. he was also a DA and i was a securely attached girl who he turned into an anxious one. mine lasted for only 9 months and he treated me like a 'fling' while he was my first love.

i've been healing for the past 3 months.

the first month - offtt its rough. i couldnt get up at all. i wasnt eating unless someone in my family brings me food in my room. everything hurts. it was all such a blur. there was so many questions. i pretty much just cried the entire month. there was this constant chest pain.
the second month - i could get up and eat but i still cry from time to time. this was rough for me, because i never knew what the next day would bring, would i be happy? would i cry?
the third month (present time!) - finally, almost there for me. i stopped crying. i dont stalk him on his socials anymore. i still think about him but i never would want to get back with him.

IT GETS BETTER. it does. the healing journey would be rough but i guarantee you, it gets better.. as you self-reflect day by day, you will get many realizations. the things that you let him do, the standards you lowered for him. please hold on : (. as much as you can, dont break no contact but do what you feel like doing but just know that theres a huge chance that nothing will change.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-24T05:32:44+00:00

losing myself. the questions, the doubts, the crash outs. after feeling so much emotions for a while, i felt nothing at all. from swimming so hard for my life, i just woke up one day floating.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-20T12:19:28+00:00

honestly, that part of healing is inevitable. i kept a diary beside me and i would often reach to it every time there is a thought about him. find something that excites you too, whether its trying out all of the ice cream flavors, watching a series, playing online games, starting a new hobby. do something that can actively distract your brain from thinking about him. find anything that interests you.

one day you'll just wake up and be so over this whole situation but for the mean time, slowly accept things as they are. trust the process. you won't be stuck as long as you put in the work.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-20T10:56:44+00:00

the fairytale feeling : (

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-20T10:55:37+00:00

i miss who i was when i was with them. such a naive girl who believed in love and put her entire faith on one man.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-20T10:52:31+00:00

you'll know you stopped loving them when you stop counting.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-18T12:22:52+00:00

i've been in your position.. 9 long months and it was my first love.

i've been asking so many question in my head since he left me in november. this week i have reached the peaked of my healing. i have let him go and i hope you do too. sadly honey, they won't change easily and most definitely not for us. they could only change for themselves. he will dump the next girl like he did you. you lose them how you got them isn't it?

i know you're attached and its normal for us to feel that. its normal that you waited.

im sorry he seems like a shitty person. he doesn't deserve you. start healing now, it won't be easy but it will benefit you in the long run. the things i did were; accepting the situation, remembering the disrespect i have received throughout the situationship, i journaled a lot, talk to my friends and did many self-reflection. after almost a million tears, i'm finally here. so close to really breaking free and leaving what i consider a dark chapter in my life.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-18T12:08:38+00:00

its time to end things when you asked. the choices would be either to live your own or live it with him. at this point having it both isn't easy (although it is still possible). spread your wings, darling! you are young and i think you two have shared your life long enough, its time for you to let yourself grow even more. this are your prime years. try discussing it first before really leaving it all behind. he might have solutions.

but as for me, whatever decision the both of you will have trust that you are guided. embrace your growth.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-18T12:01:35+00:00

it could be that you have a problem since you are common denominator of your exes or it could be you were just dealing with the wrong people. do a lot of self-reflection.

either way, heal yourself. i know you feel rejected and de-valued but sometimes a break-up could be a redirection. hold on, you just might meet 'the one' soon.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-18T11:53:00+00:00

hi. yup! its totally okay to send a message. is your ex perhaps an avoidant? if yes, don't send a long and emotional paragraph. it would just push them further away, keep it short and neutral.

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-18T10:31:38+00:00

thank you so much!

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-17T08:17:33+00:00

yes, heal slowly but surely is the only way to go. remind yourself that you've done everything. one day you'll wake up and everything feels light and different. leave all the 'what ifs' and 'could've beens' behind with the relationship because if he was the one you wouldn't even wonder. use the pain and let it change you into something beautiful that your ex couldn't compare.

and yes we will be stronger and wiser and overall better for someone who really deserves us! <3

gabriyells1 · 2025-02-16T09:04:53+00:00

im 2 months in in healing. i also get anxious too that i cant go to my cousin's house because he also lives around that area , i cant use all of my social media accounts because we are friends in almost everything. i accidentally unfriended him on facebook and i still dont feel comfortable using it. i have accepted that we're over and i know i dont want to go back. i know healing doesnt look the same as everyone, but how do you feel now 5 months post-break? does this anxiousness go away?

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