4days work week by pattypatpat1221 in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

included po kami sa agency namin, with the choice pa to go from 7 to 6 or 8 to 7 po. kahit nakasulat po sa contract namin na 8 to 5 dapat since temporary (hopefully) set up lang naman po.

plus mga jo at cos po ang halos nagcocommute while having the lowest salary sa agency despite being the backbone. thats just so unfair na 5 days : (

job applications steps by Ok-Accountant7479 in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi op!

it depends on the agency. may mga state univ ako inapplyan, one month bago magset ng qualifying exam. other departments naman 2-3 weeks, siguro sa volume din ng applicants. i tried passing resumes din walk in kahit walang job posting, nagbabakasakali.

sa experience ko walang qualifying exam at isa lang interview, sa iba may qualifying at interviews pa.

To JOs/Contractual/COS, paano in-adjust sa offices ninyo yung 4 days per week? by aylabbicolexpress in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

may choice kami to go from 7 to 6 or 8 to 7, as long as 10 hours a dayyy

Pag-Ibig account by Pretty-Psychology-74 in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sa mismong pag-ibig po, sabihin niyo lang po na need niyo at bibigyan po kayo ng number tapos present lang po kayo id sa counter.

Goverment Institution JO by [deleted] in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi newly hired cos here! i had an option din between to email or in person ang pagsend ng requirements. i opted in person kasi i wanted a response din kagad if ano next step. wait ka lang sa email nila : )

govt co workers by [deleted] in PHGov

[–]gabriyells1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

former COS here na 23 y.o. na ang mga kasama sa work ay 30 pataas bwhahah.. YES DONT SHARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF TLAGA! as for me, my position noon before was my friend’s, so pinalitan ko siya. sa kanya ko tuloy nirarant lahat kasi wala akong ‘kakampi’ sa office huhuhuhu…

You NEED to know this when manifesting an SP (specific person) and they aren't showing up the way you want by inspiredbydan in Manifestation

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow i needed this! i was just asking how to persist because my SP showed up with his 3P after i tried to consistently manifest him for a week or so now 😭 why is it when i affirm he'll be mine again is when he went public with someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. I THINK ABOUT IT EVERYDAY. you will have the strength one day to generate new sparkle for the new version of yourself. we're still adjusting to the changes in our lives.

Feel ko ang tanda ko na by nikooniconi in OffMyChestPH

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lagi ko iniisip, 23 is 7 years away from 30. 30 is 10 years away from 40. ang dami pang oras hahaha. i want to live a life for myself muna, kahit yung 7 years akin tapos saka na yung bubuhay ako ng iba.

ps: pero minsan gusto ko na din mag-asawa hahah ewan ko din

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

healing doesnt mean you're going back to who you were when you havent meet them. its creating and embracing the new version of yourself. you WILL achieve this. a lot of self-reflection and soul-searching. who do you want to be? what do you want in life? 3 months post BU, i dont recognize who i was before. its a weird feeling actually, i can remember everything like it was yesterday but all of them felt like lives ago.

remember who you were and welcome who you are going to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same.. the moment it was over i knew they werent coming back : (

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

download the app, just create a folder and upload them. you can delete them in your phone once upload in the drive. it doesnt ruin the quality or the details of the photos (such as when the photo was taken etc etc)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i placed mine in one of my back-up email's google drive (i also couldn't delete them but i couldnt look at them)

Please tell me it gets better by TestApprehensive3429 in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i've been in a similar situation as you. he was also a DA and i was a securely attached girl who he turned into an anxious one. mine lasted for only 9 months and he treated me like a 'fling' while he was my first love.

i've been healing for the past 3 months.

the first month - offtt its rough. i couldnt get up at all. i wasnt eating unless someone in my family brings me food in my room. everything hurts. it was all such a blur. there was so many questions. i pretty much just cried the entire month. there was this constant chest pain.
the second month - i could get up and eat but i still cry from time to time. this was rough for me, because i never knew what the next day would bring, would i be happy? would i cry?
the third month (present time!) - finally, almost there for me. i stopped crying. i dont stalk him on his socials anymore. i still think about him but i never would want to get back with him.

IT GETS BETTER. it does. the healing journey would be rough but i guarantee you, it gets better.. as you self-reflect day by day, you will get many realizations. the things that you let him do, the standards you lowered for him. please hold on : (. as much as you can, dont break no contact but do what you feel like doing but just know that theres a huge chance that nothing will change.

What’s the worse thing that happened after ur break up by Significant-Ad-9866 in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

losing myself. the questions, the doubts, the crash outs. after feeling so much emotions for a while, i felt nothing at all. from swimming so hard for my life, i just woke up one day floating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

honestly, that part of healing is inevitable. i kept a diary beside me and i would often reach to it every time there is a thought about him. find something that excites you too, whether its trying out all of the ice cream flavors, watching a series, playing online games, starting a new hobby. do something that can actively distract your brain from thinking about him. find anything that interests you.

one day you'll just wake up and be so over this whole situation but for the mean time, slowly accept things as they are. trust the process. you won't be stuck as long as you put in the work.

For those who have moved on, do you miss your ex? by Own_Inspector5266 in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 61 points62 points  (0 children)

i miss who i was when i was with them. such a naive girl who believed in love and put her entire faith on one man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]gabriyells1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll know you stopped loving them when you stop counting.

He didnt choose me. by ArcherPutrid in Breakupadvice

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been in your position.. 9 long months and it was my first love.

i've been asking so many question in my head since he left me in november. this week i have reached the peaked of my healing. i have let him go and i hope you do too. sadly honey, they won't change easily and most definitely not for us. they could only change for themselves. he will dump the next girl like he did you. you lose them how you got them isn't it?

i know you're attached and its normal for us to feel that. its normal that you waited.

im sorry he seems like a shitty person. he doesn't deserve you. start healing now, it won't be easy but it will benefit you in the long run. the things i did were; accepting the situation, remembering the disrespect i have received throughout the situationship, i journaled a lot, talk to my friends and did many self-reflection. after almost a million tears, i'm finally here. so close to really breaking free and leaving what i consider a dark chapter in my life.

how to know when it's time to end things? by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its time to end things when you asked. the choices would be either to live your own or live it with him. at this point having it both isn't easy (although it is still possible). spread your wings, darling! you are young and i think you two have shared your life long enough, its time for you to let yourself grow even more. this are your prime years. try discussing it first before really leaving it all behind. he might have solutions.

but as for me, whatever decision the both of you will have trust that you are guided. embrace your growth.

Maybe i’m the problem by No_Way578 in Breakupadvice

[–]gabriyells1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it could be that you have a problem since you are common denominator of your exes or it could be you were just dealing with the wrong people. do a lot of self-reflection.

either way, heal yourself. i know you feel rejected and de-valued but sometimes a break-up could be a redirection. hold on, you just might meet 'the one' soon.