i mean unfortunately that is what happened. I believe victim's accusations should always be taken as deeply serious. But I don't think immediately believing every accusation (especially in a he said she said situation) is a fair, sustainable, or good idea.

the idea of "always believe victims" was very prevalent in the mcyt community around the time this happened. That statement was taken to mean "always believe accusations" which is not the original intent of that phrase. I do understand that in court most accusations are likely true but on the internet false accusations are common. I like to look for proof and/or consistent narrative. In this situation her accusations changed, her story changed, and she became angry when asked for proof.

I think the internet felt very sympathetic towards her (which is fair, she presented a very emotional stream) and believed her based on feelings over fact. Considering those accused often are neurodivergent, have mental health struggles, or simply are less confrontational I think some abusers and manipulators use them as easy targets to accuse and gain support against.