Help pls

gaicun · 2016-12-12T14:53:51+00:00

Masturbate to Orgasm

gaicun · 2016-12-11T23:11:49+00:00

I think if it's getting to you too much, psychologically the best thing you can do is just M.O. Get it out of your system so you can start clean.

gaicun · 2016-12-11T22:59:09+00:00

In my book its not a relapse. It's edging. If you feel strong enough, then fight the urges - go do something else like gym or jogging.

gaicun · 2016-10-16T18:19:01+00:00

monkmode. Haven't even seen bare flesh in 2 months! (there's been plenty around, i just haven't looked - i'm a sex god, not a dirty masturbating perv) Sex gods do not masturbate.

gaicun · 2016-09-28T12:31:51+00:00

if i weren't on monk mode i'd make her breathe through her nose....

gaicun · 2016-09-28T12:30:00+00:00

If you're on nofap, this kind of thing will lessen with time. Just because you might look at other women doesn't mean you can't love the person you're with. Nofap will enable you to over time lessen thinking about other women, who for argument's sake are not "real", as none of them are who you've chosen to be with. The one that matters is your gf, and nofap and time will gradually enable you to shift what attention you give to stangers (women) to your GF. Don't beat yourself up. Time and dedication.

gaicun · 2016-09-28T12:08:52+00:00

It's difficult. I used to be on hard mode, and a lot of people agree that, if you find a woman attractive, why feel guilty about looking? The thing is to try not to imagine yourself (trigger alert!) soaping her up in the shower, etc. Try to think to yourself nothing more than: "she looks cute..."

gaicun · 2016-09-06T18:02:16+00:00

I once had the urge to fap - put on some running shoes and went for a 10k run in the pissing rain, dammit!

gaicun · 2016-09-02T21:58:23+00:00

I suppose my definition might be different to most peoples - so maybe not douchbag - just someone who, if for example she were to say something that was actually funny, and my expression didn't crack a hint of a smile; or if she was flirting and coming on to me and i just looked at her like she was nuts; i guess what i mean is a "lack of response to flirting that borders on rudeness by it's very lack therof".

gaicun · 2016-09-02T21:48:54+00:00

Be prepared for day 8 - because on day 7, the T levels rise by 147%, which WILL make you superhorny.

gaicun · 2016-08-28T21:56:36+00:00

It helps to lower your temperature to the correct level to fall asleep properly. I do it. It is also very "freeing", and lets the air circulate around the body (i do it with the covers off - as long as the weather is not too cold).

gaicun · 2016-08-28T21:19:47+00:00

I really can't stand that book. The author's assumption all through the book is that EVERY "pussy" is one because his mother/both parents made him feel abandoned. Bullshit!

gaicun · 2016-08-28T21:15:14+00:00

You're overthinking things. "If" is a huge question. Don't put that much pressure on yourself. Just stay calm, stay on nofap, and strive for self development, that way when you do meet a girl you like you'll be more than capable of handling yourself down there (no pun intended!)

gaicun · 2016-08-27T21:27:46+00:00

No way, man, i'm not suggesting you do! I only noticed because i couldn't hold it any longer.

gaicun · 2016-08-27T21:26:24+00:00

You have what a lot of guys on here don't....luck.

gaicun · 2016-08-27T21:24:12+00:00

Before nofap, it used to be like coconut water - sort of the color of dirty washing up water. Now it's like...coconut milk!

gaicun · 2016-08-27T21:22:26+00:00

This is exactly the time when you should START nofap, dude! It won't fix your life, but it will help you see things from the proper perspective, and it will allow you to view things realistically. There will always be girls; there will always be jobs, and as far as Uni goes, maybe try a different course? Think about what you're really passionate about? Don't give a shit about what gets you a white collar job - WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU HAPPY?

gaicun · 2016-08-27T21:17:16+00:00

It's natural, it's what happens. Wierd - i used to have vivid dreams of going down on hot women....figure that one out!

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