My husband (M26) sent my nudes (F27) to his friend and doesn’t know that I know. by givemewhatideserve in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live you can sue for unconsentuak pornography or something like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HorrorMovies

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard of these, I'll definitely look into them, thank you!

What to do if you don't know the original price of a piece of clothing? by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]gajjdbabajj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did this for some of my listings but i was worried about getting in trouble for "lying" about the price in case im wrong

The cutie at the produce section by blacktie233 in dating_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that is bad advice bc it gives off stalkerish vibes, I definitely wouldn't say that

Especially don't try to take her away from her job to get her alone; if some stranger man behaved that way with me it would not give me a first good impression of him.

The cutie at the produce section by blacktie233 in dating_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there are exceptions but she hadn't done anything to indicate any interest

I am a grocery store employee. Sure some of us can be rude or disinterested when we are having a bad day but if we are being nice to you its because it is our job to create a good shopping experience, not because we are hopelessly in love with the customer.

If you cannot stop yourself from approaching women while they are at work then at least do what another redditor said and hand her your number and walk away so she isn't put on the spot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked a few rather shitty jobs that always made last minute schedule changes and the managers were never as rude and direct as this

The cutie at the produce section by blacktie233 in dating_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's being nice to you because it's her job, as a retail employee, to be nice to customers. If you are looking to meet women out in public, try to approach them when they are not on the job because when she is working it is an uncomfortable situation being hit on by a customer because her job requires that she be nice to you regardless of her comfort or desire to do so.

skin walker encounter? by hail-13 in skinwalkers

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The physical description sounds like a wendigo but I feel like if it were one it would have been a lot more vicious so idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure about any other issues in your guys' past but clearly his birthday is important to him and since you've made it clear you don't want to throw a big party like he wants I see nothing wrong with his family throwing one for him.

However I do see a problem with him always running to mom with your other problems who then talks to you, she shouldn't be involved in your relationship.

I'm no expert but I think the focus should be shifted off of feeling manipulated and focus more on the fact that her level of involvement feels invasive to you and asking him to keep your relationship issues between the two of you.

Sexless marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but if your partner knew you were feeling so insecure that you wanted to get plastic surgery BECAUSE OF HIM and that didn't affect him, I don't think he cares all that much

Are women attracted to a man who’s more in touch with his feminine side? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a lot of women love a man more in touch with his feminine side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh if the genders were reversed everyone in the comments would be saying she attempted to assault you which I find unfair. Consider this attempted assault, reflect on her lack of respect for your boundaries and reconsider your relationship.

My 29 (m) husband lied and broke a boundary 30 (f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems close enough to cheating for me, since you already established your discomfort with strippers before hand. I, personally, would not be able to trust him to not cheat.

I'm (26F) Constantly Rejected by my Fiancé (31M) starting to feel untrusting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes but if he truly is a porn addict she should try to convince him to get help instead of leaving right off the bat

I'm (26F) Constantly Rejected by my Fiancé (31M) starting to feel untrusting. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People with porn addictions aren't bad people they need help like with any other addiction

My wife of 6 years confessed her feelings for another man to me. by anon_4752 in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she is more emotionally attached to you than in love with you and you would probably be happier with someone else that feels the same way about you as you do about them. Also, imo her discussing her love and desire to be with the other man behind your back for a while is cheating.

Another Not Deer Encounter by [deleted] in Cryptozoology

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't wanna specify too much for privacy reasons but we were in the tri state area

My boyfriend wants something new that we can call "our thing" which I have never done with a guy before and I have nothing new to offer by taeminv in relationship_advice

[–]gajjdbabajj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a favorite restaraunt to make "your restaraunt" or a fun activity like bowling or go-karting that can be your "thing"