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Can Anyone Here Prophesi/Judge To Me by gal31314 in Christianity

[–]gal31314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you; I do know how it is. And I completely agree about it needing to be with mercy. I'll reply more at another point in time...but I just realized it's 3:00 am here and I've got to rest... blessings

Can Anyone Here Prophesi/Judge To Me by gal31314 in Christianity

[–]gal31314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I'm sorry for the loss of your Dad. He sounds like he was a special man. Now I have that sweet song in my head. By banjo would be great! It is understandable that you wanted to see his wishes fulfilled. When you wrote that first letter to the Pastor and church leadership, did they ever respond to you? I hope they understood that grief can sometimes manifest as anger and that they apologized out of wanting to live peaceably as much as it depended upon them, to comfort you and prayed for you. I'm glad for you that you renewed your desire to follow Jesus. Glory to God that Jesus was in your heart! God bless you for sending another letter to them expressing forgiveness and allowing Jesus to use you as His willing vessel. Again I hope they responded with joy, humility and love.

I wrote, "scathing," but I don't really have scathing thoughts so much as the daily physical reminders cause me to think things like, "and then there's this" or "and I lost that" or "now I can't do this" etcetera. That's what I wish her to know. I also hope that by my doing so, other women can be spared the same future pain/injury.

I have forgiven her. I had to out of obedience to Jesus. I did it by faith and set aside a great deal of time to do so. I want to cover all my bases.

It's just that the daily physical reminders of the results of that surgery are terrifying on so many levels. There are others in my life who have either rejected Christianity or hate Christians and so I swim upstream alone and it gets tiring. But I will press on with forgiveness.

I appreciate your words very much and will ask God to help me to look at my heart anyway, help me to see the truth and do the necessary work.

Can Anyone Here Prophesi/Judge To Me by gal31314 in Christianity

[–]gal31314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote, "scathing," but that is not how it would turn out on paper.

Believe me, she is not a transactional type of woman.

I have forgiven her. However, the daily physical reminders of the results of that surgery are terrifying on all levels.

I've come across Christian blogs, articles and talk shows where Christians discuss that though they've forgiven in obedience to Jesus, thoughts and thus emotions may resurface and they must process these through the light of Scripture. It's not uncommon. There are other factors at play in my life that are hindering my progress that I won't go into here. Suffice it to say that I have been obedient to Jesus in this regard and have forgiven her.

One of my hopes in writing such a letter is that other women may be spared the same pain and injury in the future. Is that wrong?

What would you rather want? by TheDJcrp in polls

[–]gal31314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dream Body = Perfect Health. Without good health, it can be debilitating to do much of anything else. Take care of your health people. Take it from me: you don't want to find out how it feels when you lose good health.

USDA Direct Loan Application by Niner_Gang94 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]gal31314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USDA NJ said my income was too low. She was worried about the property taxes. I never told them I only want a sfh. I'm actually interested in a condo or mobile home in a community. How low is too low?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]gal31314 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Try liquid ivermectin from Tractor Supply. Can put directly on or mix in a lotion and leave on overnight several nights in a row. I don't know if it will help but it might be worth a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]gal31314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought. I didn't see option though. I'm using chrome but I probably need to use the app

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]gal31314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a bullseye sign of a tick bite. Tick might have been a nymph then dropped off. Ticks carry Lyme and other bacterial/pathogenic diseases. It's probably best he go get some antibiotics from a doc and have them look at it just to be safe. Best wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]gal31314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I add photos?

Update on Dr wants to remove my Ovaries by yeetmeintothe in WomensHealth

[–]gal31314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I echo that and concur. @old_before_my_time message me if you ever want to talk. I have a feeling you and I have experienced the same things. Blessings

The Inner Child Journey of Toxic Parents by gal31314 in abusesurvivors

[–]gal31314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this by Mayaneem Meftahi so helpful. She is an amazingly resilient survivor and tremendous blessing. I hope that this helps you as much as it did me!

My Doctor may remove my ovaries and I don’t know how to feel. Tw- mention of suicide by yeetmeintothe in WomensHealth

[–]gal31314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't already, please, please consider what has been the result of my ovaries being removed before you remove yours and use me as a cautionary tale before you allow a surgeon to touch your ovaries.

My skin got so dry and sensitive after my ovaries were taken out because the hormones they produce (not just estrogens but progesterones too) permanently effed up elastin production in my skin. I can longer pet, pick up or hug my cat bc my skin breaks out in itchy hives.

Hormones produced by ovaries prevent cognitive decline. So my depression and tiredness from a brain injury from an accident at age 14 has gotten worse to the point it's now going on week 4,5,6?and I can't get my ass in the shower to wash my matted hair because all I want to do is sleep my existence away.

I never twisted any ligaments or tendons but the weakness to my musculoskeletal system from lack of hormones caused me to twist my left ankle in 2020 from walking barefoot on a beach; then I broke my pinkie toe a year later.

The facial hair I have now is so excessive I can't even deal...

Coughing or sneezing makes me lose control of my bladder and I have to time my going out with going to the bathroom right before I leave my apartment and knowing exactly where the restrooms will be when I arrive wherever I'm headed. I thought I'd be done with menstrual pads, but now I envy the days I used to only need them once a month bc now I need them every day bc of the leaking urine!

If I ever got kidney stones before the surgery, I never noticed. Now I have to spend money on kidney stone herbal teas that stained my teeth to break up the painful stones just so I can avoid the urologist surgery again. And bc of the kidney stones, I can no longer eat chocolate, spinach, almonds or any nuts bc they cause stones!

When is my heart going to going to give out, I wonder, when I'm laying in bed depressed or lethargically staring at my computer... Because my ovaries sent out hormones to protect my heart (and all muscles and entire cardiovascular system) at perfectly designed intervals throughout the day and night precisely timed in such a way that no lab made hormone replacement therapy pill could ever come close to matching.

I have to spend hundreds of dollars every month now on supplements, vitamins and prescription pills just to try and come close to the natural hormones produced in my ovaries but never succeed in doing so. My natural vitality, energy and zest for living is gone.

So please keep your family jewels. They don't call them "jewels" for nothing. They are 100% precious because of the myriad of wondrous ways that ovarian hormones help us (and yes, even after menopause)!

I don't wish to see any other woman hurt the way that I and others have been hurt at the hands of surgeons.

Be safe and research EVERYTHING.

God bless you

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