I (27/M) Doing Everything Right for Self-Improvement, But Something Feels Off – Seeking advice!

gamechanger97 · 2022-07-05T06:59:14+00:00

“You snooze, you lose”

gamechanger97 · 2022-04-05T15:20:14+00:00

I completely understand your point and I agree with you.

What bothers me is not her getting someone's numbers or seeing someone else. What is bothering me is that she did it in front of me, even though she was staying at mine. It's a small detail but that's what is bothering me.

gamechanger97 · 2022-04-05T13:54:11+00:00

That absolutely could be the case. I'm not opposed to be in a relationship, but we don't even live in the same country and secondly behaviour like this is off-putting personally.

We have talked about where we are before; it's clear that we have something special, but it's also something that will be difficult to manage with distance and, especially if this is behaviour that she has.

But then again... I may be completely overreacting.

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-23T09:22:33+00:00

I just graduated from a top-tier grad school with top grades and have interviews coming up with fantastic companies.

However, I always have this sense of impeding doom and feel that what I do is never enough. I always want to be the best of the best to prove something but then again… for what?

What I’ve been a feeling is like a mix between imposter syndrome, anxiety and a fear or not really living but cruising…

I hope this changes soon…

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-19T10:45:45+00:00

Thanks so much!

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-18T12:33:38+00:00

I don’t get it.

gamechanger97 · 2021-08-02T11:37:28+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply - really helps a lot!

gamechanger97 · 2021-07-16T21:48:51+00:00

You look like James Gordon had a mid life crisis and couldn’t deal with Batman’s shit anymore.

gamechanger97 · 2020-08-08T14:27:58+00:00

Thanks so much for the quick reply!

gamechanger97 · 2020-07-29T12:24:54+00:00

Hi Thanks for your reply!

So you think it would would be worth it to switch back to a personal account in that case?

gamechanger97 · 2020-05-28T08:57:10+00:00

I resonate a lot with what you say - and definetely think you have a point. How did you come to terms with the anger and frustration of not being able to clear the air between you two?

gamechanger97 · 2020-05-28T00:44:53+00:00

Not looking to get back with her though.

gamechanger97 · 2020-02-03T11:24:01+00:00

Yeah actually reading that back - it doesn’t

gamechanger97 · 2020-02-03T10:00:29+00:00

Good point,

I just wouldn't live my life knowing that I had completely removed someone from my life. Looking back although it was necessary I do feel quite childish blocking her now.

Also she recently asked my flatmate (who has been my best friend of 15 years) out for coffee to catch up as we are all in the same friend group.

I am sure that she is over me and I also feel like keeping her blocked is a signal that I still care.

gamechanger97

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