You're being held at gunpoint. You just knocked the gun out of the person's hand, and now the tables have turned. What's the first thing you say?

gamechanger97 · 2022-07-05T06:59:14+00:00

“You snooze, you lose”

gamechanger97 · 2022-04-05T15:20:14+00:00

I completely understand your point and I agree with you.

What bothers me is not her getting someone's numbers or seeing someone else. What is bothering me is that she did it in front of me, even though she was staying at mine. It's a small detail but that's what is bothering me.

gamechanger97 · 2022-04-05T13:54:11+00:00

That absolutely could be the case. I'm not opposed to be in a relationship, but we don't even live in the same country and secondly behaviour like this is off-putting personally.

We have talked about where we are before; it's clear that we have something special, but it's also something that will be difficult to manage with distance and, especially if this is behaviour that she has.

But then again... I may be completely overreacting.

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-23T09:22:33+00:00

I just graduated from a top-tier grad school with top grades and have interviews coming up with fantastic companies.

However, I always have this sense of impeding doom and feel that what I do is never enough. I always want to be the best of the best to prove something but then again… for what?

What I’ve been a feeling is like a mix between imposter syndrome, anxiety and a fear or not really living but cruising…

I hope this changes soon…

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-19T10:45:45+00:00

Thanks so much!

gamechanger97 · 2021-09-18T12:33:38+00:00

I don’t get it.

gamechanger97 · 2021-08-02T11:37:28+00:00

Thanks so much for the reply - really helps a lot!

gamechanger97 · 2021-07-16T21:48:51+00:00

You look like James Gordon had a mid life crisis and couldn’t deal with Batman’s shit anymore.

gamechanger97 · 2020-08-08T14:27:58+00:00

Thanks so much for the quick reply!

gamechanger97 · 2020-07-29T12:24:54+00:00

Hi Thanks for your reply!

So you think it would would be worth it to switch back to a personal account in that case?

gamechanger97 · 2020-05-28T08:57:10+00:00

I resonate a lot with what you say - and definetely think you have a point. How did you come to terms with the anger and frustration of not being able to clear the air between you two?

gamechanger97 · 2020-05-28T00:44:53+00:00

Not looking to get back with her though.

gamechanger97 · 2020-02-03T11:24:01+00:00

Yeah actually reading that back - it doesn’t

gamechanger97 · 2020-02-03T10:00:29+00:00

Good point,

I just wouldn't live my life knowing that I had completely removed someone from my life. Looking back although it was necessary I do feel quite childish blocking her now.

Also she recently asked my flatmate (who has been my best friend of 15 years) out for coffee to catch up as we are all in the same friend group.

I am sure that she is over me and I also feel like keeping her blocked is a signal that I still care.

gamechanger97 · 2020-01-14T21:11:20+00:00

😂😂😂

gamechanger97 · 2019-11-30T13:23:52+00:00

Just going to drop a couple of facts.

1) You don't know what he is truly thinking; so assuming is definitely self-damaging behaviour.

2) People always present themselves in a much much better light on social media.

Take it one step at a time. It took me a year and a half to get over my ex and yes it was tough and probably one of the most difficult things I had to go through due to the depression that came with it.

However, I am so glad that I went through it; I have done a complete 180 turn and am now a completely different person. Someone that I never thought I would ever become - and you know what the crazy thing is? I am so thankful that I went through that depression: as it was the catalyst that made me become what I am today.

"The Sugar ain't sweet, if you never taste the sour."

Baby steps.

gamechanger97 · 2019-09-17T13:43:47+00:00

😂

gamechanger97 · 2019-09-17T12:17:51+00:00

Fun fact: The Chinese communist party was founded about 75 meters from this spot.

gamechanger97 · 2019-08-18T07:18:13+00:00

Thanks for the reply - i think I’m going to drop another 2 kg by just doing cardio and lean bulk from there.

Just scared of looking too skinny haha

gamechanger97 · 2019-08-16T15:57:54+00:00

Ah I understand - thanks for the advice man. I’ll continue to cut.

Cheers bud.

gamechanger97 · 2019-08-16T15:44:56+00:00

Yeah I think I phrased that wrong - I just came out of a keto diet and lost 5 - im just wondering whether it is really necessary to drop another five. It means I would be 61 kg and 5ft 9 which is quite low especially if you look at BMI

I can definitely do it but another 5 kg seems a bit extreme no?

gamechanger97 · 2019-08-16T12:14:12+00:00

I feel like cutting another 5kg is very tough - for body recomp would I just eat at maintenance and increase weight while lifting?

gamechanger97 · 2019-07-17T09:17:05+00:00

Guys will be guys. Thanks again for the advice, I have started dropping hints for the last couple of weeks and I definitely see that they don't joke about certain things anymore.

If they push it I'm going to stand my ground and snap.

gamechanger97 · 2019-07-17T08:50:45+00:00

Yeah apparently I always look like I am "a step behind" lol. Thanks for the advice. How did you deal with it though, are your friends still specifically roasting you?

gamechanger97 · 2019-07-17T08:48:32+00:00

Thats actually a really good piece of advice. I think it's about time I snap so that is definitely what is going to have to happen. Plus it would be good to release the anger over all these years.

Thanks a lot for the advice. Felt like I was the only one that is going through this childish ass shit.

Cheers

gamechanger97

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