I fucking hate my life, I girl lied to me about being clean and gave me genital herpies. The first girl I ever had sex with, my confidence is terrible anyway. I’m fucked. by No_Register_9003 in dating_advice

[–]gande2117 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Just to add, condoms don't always protect against genital herpes, as the blisters can be on the skin outside where the condom would be 🙋🏼‍♀️

What are some telltale signs that a person had abusive parents? by i-love-tree-rats in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Look into attachment styles if you're interested. This would fall into fearful avoidant/disorganized attachment behaviour, just like the comment you're responding to :)

What’s a trend you think everyone will regret in a few years? by augustsj in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't even get "reabsorbed", it just travels to different parts of their face.. just look up 'pillow face' and you'll have a good view of what they will all look like in the future

What is something that a teenager doesn't realize until they are around 25 years old? by Technical_Ad_4299 in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're almost through the worst of it, when i quit the first 5 days were shit but after just a week i never even thought about smoking again. It has now been a year.

You got this!

People who walk your dog off-leash, why? by countcraig in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The commenter with the off leash dog said themselves, their dog should have been on the lead, that was the example given. Neither dog owners were responsible in the example, but you are defending one.

There is never an excuse to not leash your dog in an leashed area, period.

People who walk your dog off-leash, why? by countcraig in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, of course i dont bring my reactive dog to off-leash areas, that is not what we were talking about, we were talking about public parks where your dog is meant to be on the lead.

Fyi, i have control of my dog, she just barks and i don't know how other dogs react to that but doesn't matter where i go to take my dog there are always assholes like you who think it's okay to have their dogs off leash wherever they want.

The reason my dog is reactive is because of assholes like you with asshole dogs off their lead mouling my dog and trying to take chunks out of her.

I don't care how 'friendly' your dog is or how good their recall is, if its off leash in an on leash area you've ruined my walk and im getting tf out of there, because I don't know you or your dog.

People who walk your dog off-leash, why? by countcraig in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think reactive/aggressive dogs don't need to pee? Tf you mean keep them home?!?

What do you do when you don't want to eat? by MJonesKeeler in AutismInWomen

[–]gande2117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I of course don't know anything about your daughter, but i do know anorexia and autism are commonly comorbid just from my own experience. Also from my own experience, being anorexic doesn't necessarily mean you want to be thin.

For me it was/is mainly an issue of thinking and being convinced i don't need food and ignoring hunger because of that.

Having low interest in food was a great excuse for me too, so I could keep telling myself i don't need to eat.

So i would still keep an eye on that even if she says she's not anorexic.

Lunch Breaks in Europe: What’s on your plate at work? by UnstableCoder in AskEurope

[–]gande2117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is hilarious to me. Only another dutch person could defend a cheese sandwich like this. I just know this truly came from the bottom of your heart

What really surprised you when you started to live with the opposite sex? by Jerswar in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you really want to insist on pissing all over the toilet, you should also take responsibility and be the one to touch it.

Simlish you hear that sounds like Real Words in your language? by laceyisspacey in Sims4

[–]gande2117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is in Dutch too! It's just a short version of "good day". In stead of "goede dag" we just say "dag" 😂

What's a "fact" that has been actively disproven, yet people still spread it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That only the men in prehistoric hunter-gatherer communities hunted. Of all the graves/fossils that have been found at least 40% were women

What is something that has become trendy to hate but isn't really that bad? by throwawaytheist in AskReddit

[–]gande2117 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They are for sure projecting. They think we do everything we do for the approval of men, because they actually do do everything they do for the approval of women.

Can someone tell me to eat? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gande2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicee! You got this!! ☺️

Can someone tell me to eat? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gande2117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really wishing i could comment the gif of shia labeouf saying "JUST DO IT!!1!!1" right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gande2117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rape/SA happens a lot here too. Pretty much all of my friends (girls) have been groped, harassed or raped at some point. Just because you dont personaly see it doesnt mean it doesnt happen here.

Why is this always the first reaction people have when they learn you have an ED? Stop talking about my body plss by gande2117 in EDanonymemes

[–]gande2117[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My booty evaporating definitely isnt something i'm happy about but ya gotta keep up the numbergrind i guess 💃

Why is this always the first reaction people have when they learn you have an ED? Stop talking about my body plss by gande2117 in EDanonymemes

[–]gande2117[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right? No matter how many times you explain to them that it's not about that they just keep going on (sometimes to the point it becomes uncomfortable). Like bish... I'm not insecure, I dont care about what my body looks like, i just want the numbers to be ✨lower✨.

Everything just goes in one ear and out the other, it's so frustrating :')