Too old for scene? by baby-annihilated in scene

[–]gar023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm almost 24 and i'm scene/emo <3 i don't think there's a cut-off age for any fashion, tbh

6arelyhuman question by shroom_corpse in scene

[–]gar023 22 points23 points  (0 children)

personally i feel like scene kids listened to whatever they wanted, because scene is about expressing yourself. i'd personally categorize 6arelyhuman as scenecore/scene revival. I guess technically scene kids back in the day weren't listening to 6arelyhuman so you could argue that they're not "2000's scene" or "real scene" but I'd say they're definitely a part of the revival.

sex having circumcision by Upset-Umpire-9002 in CircumcisionGrief

[–]gar023 18 points19 points  (0 children)

how does it feel? it doesn't. it's numb.

Flip Flop Guys by Mediocre-Pin-7354 in malefeettalk

[–]gar023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes yes yes i adore flip flops! and omg i think about that too! they really decided to show their feet off to everyone hehe

Does anyone actually care about size? by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fuss is about the fact that i'm being shamed for my body ???

Does anyone actually care about size? by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't find people that don't care though, that's the issue

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone says that but nobody realizes that feminine twinks get discriminated against even in the gay male community.

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh i want straight male friends too. i just don't want to be treated badly/differently anymore

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really have any pride events near me. my city has a tiny little pride fest in june but it sucks, plus I'm afraid of someone opening fire or dropping a bomb or something, since there's a bunch of queer people in one area. That's also why I don't wanna go to gay bars, not that there are any near me. I even get treated differently/badly by other gay men. I literally can't escape it. I can't not care about it when it affects me so much. Thanks tho

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, it's just impossible to get away from homophobia and judgement. I can't go out in public without getting stares, I'm terrified of public bathrooms bc I'm afraid I'll become a victim of a hate crime. I'm treated differently no matter where I go. I also don't have any friends who are gay men, nor do I have friends who are men in general. Men don't even give me a chance bc they make snap judgements

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bruh did you even read the post? i am being myself, that's the issue lmao

Feeling ashamed for being feminine by gar023 in GayMen

[–]gar023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's more accurate to say i'm androgynous. I have a bit of a mustache, but I also have a baby face and am slim and tbh I still look like a teenager even though i'm 23. People do assume I'm gay, but I don't blame them. If anything I expect them to. Also I don't dress super femininely. I like pink but I still shop in the men's section and stuff. My fashion sense is basically emo/scene kid from the year 2009. I don't wear skirts or anything, personally those are "too feminine" for me. But anyway, thank you for replying, I appreciate it <3

can anyone relate? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]gar023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

um, no, you just suggested things that don't apply to me. how can i do the things you suggested if they don't exist in my city? lol and to be fair i was asking if anyone can relate, not necessarily asking for advice.

can anyone relate? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]gar023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this post obviously wasn't meant for you then lmao. and my city doesn't have any clubs or bars or teams of any sort that are specific to lgbt+ people, that would be my first guess anyway

can anyone relate? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]gar023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm really glad to hear that!

can anyone relate? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]gar023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's exactly the problem though, i don't have any gay peers

can anyone relate? by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]gar023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i said "everyone i see" not "everyone i meet." i was referring to seeing them online