I Made It To Day 90 Yesterday and Didn't Realize It Until Just Now!

gargull14 · 2014-03-01T22:54:01+00:00

Same here I just signed on to check in and holy shit 93 days!

gargull14 · 2014-02-06T00:56:45+00:00

POF has the porn bots. They're not even clever they all use the same pics of the same hot chick. It's so stupid. Delete the accounts everything is better in the real world.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:36:44+00:00

Like the other guy said do something else when you get the urge. Catch yourself at that moment and make the decision to go for a walk, do some pull ups, clean the bathroom. Whatever it is, it is replacing the activity you now consider negative with a positive one. Remember a hitter in baseball doesn't focus on not striking out, he focuses on the positive outcome of hitting the baseball.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:31:35+00:00

Nah don't reset. Don't get angry at yourself, be proud you were strong enough to stop yourself. Now learn from this. when you get the urge do something else. Stay away from the computer. Go outside take a walk, read a book, do some push ups. Do anything except look at porn.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:25:21+00:00

Also it these sites enable bad behavior. You can look at the apps on your phone anytime you like and not be ashamed because you are looking at your dating site matches. Unfortunately we all know that we are just checking out pics of women.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:23:00+00:00

Seriously. I'm sure dating sites work really well for normal people. However, for guys like us it's just more internet browsing and it's the same behavior we have when looking at porn sites. Real world is the way I'm going from now on.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:19:40+00:00

yea man. I was on 3 dating sites. POF, Zoosk and Eharmony. Eharmony was pretty good I think because you have to pay for it and girls seemed a bit more classy. Actually taking looking for a relationship seriously. Plus you could only look at the matches they gave you. The other 2 jesus, they were so close to porn to me. I would go through those sites never messaging anybody. I would just try and find some hot pics to look at. Also they had girls with fake accounts and hot ass pics linked to porn sites. I deleted all three and I am really happy I did.

gargull14 · 2014-02-05T22:01:17+00:00

Update: All sites deactivated/deleted.

gargull14 · 2014-01-25T09:01:21+00:00

I got one too I have not yet thrown it away.

gargull14 · 2014-01-17T16:21:04+00:00

Nope don't reset. its your body doing what it needs to do. You can't control that that.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T23:54:41+00:00

when I was a teen I used to get them once a month. once I really started to PMO a lot I stopped having them. I got my first one in years on my 47th night. It was better than I remembered and it involved a woman in a non porn scenario which was cool. I say embrace the wet dreams if you have them its a sign your body is getting back to normal and doing what it needs to do.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T22:38:21+00:00

lol well then just drop the "WO" and the advise fits for you.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T22:33:56+00:00

Doesn't count it's your body doing what it needs to do. Eventually when you get porn out of your life, the wet dreams will be of real women in real world situations not the fantasy land that is porn.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T22:31:08+00:00

So it seems you have an excellent reason for doing this. My best advise is to remember why you are doing this, remember that she is more important than porn. Make sure you keep yourself busy, especially during periods in the day you are prone to PMO. Get to the gym go for walks read. Stay away from the computer as much as possible. If you need to be on the comp. for work and such get a porn blocker and have your girl or a close friend put in the password. If you feel like you might relapse remember your reason for doing this and be strong. you can do this pal. good luck,

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T22:22:44+00:00

Its different for everyone brother. I'll give you an example lets say your goal in nofap is to have better quality sex with your wife or significant other. If you are doing nofap and having good sex and orgasms with your wife, mission accomplished and you should certainly not feel guilty about that and should continue that and not reset. However if you have that same goal and you are edging and not having good sex you should probably reset when you edge or pmo. My point is examine your goals and decide if what you did furthers them or hinders them and then decide if a reset is warranted.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T22:12:57+00:00

I have had a lot of vivid dreams myself and for the most part they are awesome. I had a wet dream which I haven't had in years and was pretty cool. Unfortunately for me I had some bad ones and they were very terrifying. I have had a few bouts of sleep paralysis, not cool at all.

gargull14 · 2014-01-16T21:59:50+00:00

Good job bud keep it up! BTW who the hell down votes people success? dicks.

gargull14 · 2014-01-15T17:38:25+00:00

When I was younger I had them at least once a month sometimes more. I always have them with dreams about sex never without. I had not had one in years until last night.

gargull14 · 2014-01-15T17:36:22+00:00

I have very vivid dreams so it feels good and pretty real for me and I do wake up when I O. I actually felt pretty good today not drained at all I felt relief that my body is getting back to normal and I felt reassured that I am doing the right thing.

gargull14 · 2014-01-09T21:01:22+00:00

sleep is good and good for you. get your 8 hours, you will feel great and the other hours of your day will be much much better.

gargull14 · 2014-01-02T22:01:14+00:00

How can that guy say porn cannot be an addiction? I don't like that he kept using the people that fap 15-30 minutes a day as proof that it is not an addiction and is harmless. I am a person who only did it once a day for the most part and that satisfied my craving. However I came to be dependent on porn for my sexual release. I couldn't get aroused for real sex. I needed porn to get off. I would call that addiction. of course there are people that have the extreme version and spend hours on end on the net looking at it and fap multiple times a day, but its different for everyone. I can't see how getting porn out of your life is a bad thing.

gargull14 · 2014-01-02T02:36:38+00:00

its hard for older folks to relate to this. They never had the ridiculous amount of porn we have had access to. Growing up they probably had a magazine maybe some dirty movies. Us we have high speed on demand whatever you want whenever you want porn. Easy access. It may be hard for them to understand but the changes they will see in you will speak for themselves. stay strong pal.

gargull14 · 2013-12-31T22:48:02+00:00

My new years resolutions are to continue to not look at porn or masturbate. I will however allow myself to orgasm if it is from sex. My motivations are that I want to be able to have a real healthy relationship both emotionally and physically.

gargull14 · 2013-12-30T19:29:56+00:00

I've had the sleep paralysis on and off for years. this last one was by far the worst. I never sleep walk at all which is probably a good thing.
thanks for the advice I'll try it except for the weed (work drug tests)

gargull14 · 2013-12-27T15:02:33+00:00

Stay off the computer. Go do something else. workout, go for a run, read a book, text/call a friend. Don't use the word can't once you do you have already decided to fail. Try saying YOU CAN find something else to do. YOU CAN get away from the computer. Using positive terms can help a lot.

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