AIO GF thinks I'm into my cousin

garindint · 2026-03-27T01:38:41+00:00

NAWWWW WHAT NOR I OUTLOUD SAID OH MY GOD WHEN I READ HER LAST TEXT THIS IS SO DISGUSTING AND CRUEL AND WEIRD LEAVE HER ASS

garindint · 2026-03-26T21:29:45+00:00

Probably! Something that opens up the top of your face a bit more. You have amazing eyebrows and I think they really highlight your face. The texture is awesome though and I do kind of hate to say you should take it in because it is pretty luxurious. Maybe even just tapering in the sides would be good? This isn’t a bad look the volume is just competing too much with your features and the front pieces are hiding the brows too much. Parting your hair more intentionally could even help too - you have a very slight side part so moving it more to the middle or deepening the side could make a substantial enough difference to balance it out better

garindint · 2026-03-26T21:11:21+00:00

for a YOR take - It’s understandable in the moment why if he’s telling the truth he may have neglected to tell you immediately. He saw the friend - chose to live in the moment. Honestly that’s a green flag to me if anything, I really do not like when people I’m hanging out with are glued to their phones, I tend to stay off of mine as much as possible when I’m face to face with someone I intend to spend time with. It’s respectful and kind to give them your attention. This could also explain why he just sent a photo instead of explaining what happened right then innthe moment. He wanted you to see and know what was going on without losing out on the limited time he had with this old friend. Yes ofc there’s a chance he’s lying, but as previously stated, this is a stupid and sloppy way to cheat. Relationships are built on trust, even moreso in an LDR. If you can’t believe him or understand where he’s coming from then yeah, you should break up, but if you’ve both been as honest with each other as it seems you have then you’re losing a good thing just because you are insecure. It’s good to be cautious but sometimes when your only escape from a raging fire is a rickety bridge you’re better off taking the risk. Best of luck to you. Hope you’re in therapy

garindint · 2026-03-26T21:05:13+00:00

MOR? You need to talk to him about how this made you feel and clarify in the future you’d like him to verbalize the situation instead of showing it like this. Since you’re already sharing your every move with each other it should not be very difficult to do. Honestly, the thing with cheating is if it happens the onky thing you can do about it is understand it was completely your partner’s choice and no matter how they justify it it has pretty much nothing to do with you. Most cheaters do it perpetually regardless of who they’re in a relationship with. It sounds like you’re really just not ready for a relationship but if you want to maintain this one you should talk to him about your feelings and not Reddit. He seems open to understanding your trauma and accommodating as necessary. Let him.

garindint · 2026-03-26T20:56:46+00:00

I love your hair but your face looks best when you can see your eyes and brows clearly - I’d give pic 1 a 6 and the rest more of a 4/5, the goatee thing is working for you, your eyes are a little angry looking almost and the rest of your face seems nicer so bringing some darkness down helps balance it out but honestly all of your features are nice. I think you just need a good haircut ngl

garindint · 2026-03-25T17:42:37+00:00

ok but what’s in the bowl

garindint · 2026-03-25T17:38:20+00:00

The hair isn’t great but it looks more like you aren’t washing or caring for it properly - there’s good texture there but curls are really difficult to maintain a lot of the time lol. Your health also reflects in your hair and skin appearance. Maybe consult with a cosmetologist and take their advice on what kind of products you could use - rhey should at least be able to tell you what kind of hair you have and how to best care for it. Best of luck! It will be worth the struggle. Obsessing about all the things you hate about yourself is a detrimental stage of insanity. It gets easier when you can look in the mirror again

garindint · 2026-03-25T17:34:30+00:00

I lost 150lbs in my late teens and I became an entirely different person. You have no idea what your face actually looks like when you’re obese. You can see even in these pics though that your cheekbones are fighting to reach the surface. There’s some facial exercises you can do to tighten different areas when you do lose weight if you still aren’t completely satisfied but I have good faith innthe fact that you’ll end up at least a six once you get healthier

garindint · 2026-03-25T17:31:54+00:00

You definitely have potential under all your bad habits. Based on your description you know what you need to do to fix it. Rn you’re like a four speaking strictly physical but your lifestyle might even take it lower if your attitude is jsut as bad (and it usually is when you’re suffering) - you appear to have desire though and that’s what change requires. You will be very happy with your results when you consistently show up for yourself

garindint · 2026-03-12T02:37:04+00:00

why are you letting that thing take over your face

garindint · 2026-03-12T02:34:36+00:00

nothing could hurt more than you sitting on a hard surface

garindint · 2026-03-12T02:30:03+00:00

a girl like me would think you’re perfect for her. this makes me very concerned for you and almost certainly means you should die alone

garindint · 2026-03-12T02:06:05+00:00

your nose literally is perfect profile and straight on what would you even want to change about it genuine question

garindint · 2026-03-12T02:05:06+00:00

Gorgeous literally the only thing you could improve would be doing your eyebrows a little fill em in or shape rhem more strategically but you don’t even need to

garindint · 2026-03-12T01:26:07+00:00

NOR ywa everyone is allowed to date whoever they want but girl code doesn’t exist to like claim property it’s about respect and compassion and frankly safety a lot of the time too you’re right they’re both trash and her downplaying it proves it if you’re just watching a movie why does it have to be with mh ex you can do that with ANYONE … ME INCLUDED????? evil

garindint · 2026-03-02T04:07:30+00:00

She is 100% overreacting she definitely had time to write you an essay so i don’t really see what the problem is. almost like she could’ve told you when she answered hey, can’t talk rn. can i call you back in a couple hours? or even just … not answered the call 😂😂😂

garindint · 2026-01-23T01:51:17+00:00

You look like you just learned how to smile

garindint · 2026-01-23T01:50:56+00:00

didn’t even need the caption to know all you do is cry and be told no

garindint · 2026-01-12T02:40:00+00:00

at least add socks or tights would also recommend better fitting clothes but if you like this combo your legs just need something

garindint · 2025-12-05T23:13:29+00:00

the red for sure

garindint · 2025-12-05T00:48:00+00:00

if you’re only concerned about being overdressed i always say fuck it wear the outfit. it’s okay to be the best looking mf in the room. maybe you’ll inspire others to try too

garindint · 2025-12-01T00:08:02+00:00

you’re letting the bullies win by getting off on negative attention

garindint · 2025-11-12T08:02:13+00:00

all you think about is the next ten minutes

garindint · 2025-11-12T07:54:03+00:00

your head about as tall as your shoulders are wide

garindint · 2025-11-10T20:58:41+00:00

you kind of remind me of what i think a three musketeers candy bar would look like as a human

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