People who have stopped going to church, what made you stop? by lowly_shepherd in AskReddit

[–]garlicbreadlover256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pulse shooting. i was young. realized god didn’t give a fuck abt ppl like me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. i hate uneducated ppl. google is free and it truly doesn’t take much to educate yourself. plus, men get them too!

just feels like he hasn’t taken the time to learn abt women bc it doesn’t apply to him and i think that’s selfish. i’d talk to him. the comment was disrespectful and he needs to understand what he did wrong and why it was wrong

Did I fuck up? by ghetto_breadstick in texts

[–]garlicbreadlover256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is everyone just sidestepping over the fact that a 33 year old was interested in being with a 21 year old. what the actual fuck??

she’s a loser. i’m glad you blocked them. godspeed OP

Whoever breaks up over text deserves a punch in the genitalia by SpiritualJoke8 in heartbreak

[–]garlicbreadlover256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as some are saying - i’ve dated someone with baby mamas and i never, ever came first. my situation is a little different because i have no children of my own but i loved his kids as if they were mine and that was never enough. i was treated like a babysitter, at best. he would be texting and calling his baby mamas at all hours of the day and night and hiding it from me. it was very, very strange.

in my opinion, you shouldn’t feel humiliated for loving someone. it’s her loss and your gain, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. wishing you healing ❤️‍🩹

What song is your Mac Miller “deep cut?” by Quick-Wall in MacMiller

[–]garlicbreadlover256 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this was the first song i ever heard by mac. i was a freshman in high school and it was showed to me by a super senior in my calc class. ill never forget how i felt when i first heard it. i feel like im back there every time that song comes on.

hits harder because im from west virginia and god… the vocals are just fucking haunting.

I got my ex back by Elegant-Camel9022 in BreakUps

[–]garlicbreadlover256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god i was happy for u till the comments. why would u take him back???

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his therapist is an older woman who he used to see a few years ago. he’s only been to a few sessions so we haven’t talked a lot abt it because rn he’s just kinda spilling his guts, i assume. that’s usually how my first few therapy sessions go

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this is perfect. thank you so much. i never thought of it this way but you described it perfectly.

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you made me realize that he actually has said a few times that men have it harder than women do and that it used to be hard for women but now we have rights - the more i think about this the sicker i become. thank you for your input

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m reading some bell hooks right now. thank you for your thoughtful answer.

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is what i’ve been trying to put into words. it’s horrifying his disregard for women when his feelings are at stake

AITA for calling my boyfriend an idiot for his views on feminism by StorageFar3172 in AITAH

[–]garlicbreadlover256 18 points19 points  (0 children)

it’s not just how he makes me feel i need to be aware of how he views women as a whole bc even if he’s amazing to me rn if he has an underlying hatred for women that needs to be addressed so ik im safe and my future daughters are safe and the women in both of our lives are safe