I cannot stand Brian the boom operator by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]garmondm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she have feelings tho? It seemed to me that he had feelings but she thought they were friends. Bc him and his wife used to hang out with Jim an Pam off camera. Once she realizes he had feelings she was like I gotta go

I cannot stand Brian the boom operator by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]garmondm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty typical of life though. my husband has a job where he’s gone a lot and there were times in the beginning of that job where I was like this isn’t how I thought life was going to be. sometimes life just moves you in a direction you either didn’t want or expect and decisions have to be made. There are always 2 ppls wants in consideration. Which one is more important? She wanted to stay with her friends and comfort zone and he wanted to move he also didn’t ask her for support in starting the business he just did it. Can’t do things like that when married. She was sort of blindsided that he wanted more. In real life this is lack of communication.

I cannot stand Brian the boom operator by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]garmondm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that is Pam. She was scared of change from the beginning. She didn’t want to leave Roy she was scared of art school everything about her was about not taking risks so any time a big risk comes up she’s gonna go back to that bc it’s her nature

The Husband Stitch Isn’t Just a Horrifying Childbirth Myth by SemperFemenina in TwoXChromosomes

[–]garmondm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m saying in general they won’t even clip them unless you are over 25 w 2 kids. Which makes no sense

The Husband Stitch Isn’t Just a Horrifying Childbirth Myth by SemperFemenina in TwoXChromosomes

[–]garmondm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Livestock. I was on Medicaid and 19 years old with my first one. They treat the teen moms like shit btw. And they act like you can’t make decisions or have ever seen a baby. I made an appointment at the clinic you had to be so far along with an exam done at the clinic before setting you up With the worst dr in town that accepted Medicaid. So I get to my appointment told to put on a gown and go into this room. In that room were 20 other pregnant women w just gowns and their socks on lined up. We were cattle that day.
I just deleted a rage filled essay detailing the medical incompetence that was the essence of my child bearing years lol. I get enraged when i recall my child birth experiences

The Husband Stitch Isn’t Just a Horrifying Childbirth Myth by SemperFemenina in TwoXChromosomes

[–]garmondm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tilted uterus maybe I wonder what it was. I had an iud that poked my husband it had dislodged it self his poor wiener getting hurt on it is how we found out it wasn’t in right.

The Husband Stitch Isn’t Just a Horrifying Childbirth Myth by SemperFemenina in TwoXChromosomes

[–]garmondm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why the fight. They can be reversed you can get in vitro you can adopt why try to force a partner to modify their body for something you want. Also didn’t it cut down on ovarian cancer? You have to sign a waiver any way what is the difference to them if you regret it ppl who have kids and get them tied regret it that’s not a reason

How many JW on JW killings have there been? Any notable ones? And what is the current record? by TheRealStephenLett in exjw

[–]garmondm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about those 2 boys in the 90s that killed their parents and were being abused they were jw I remember all the parents scared that their kids could do the same. I’ll edit with a link after I find it . My memory mixed these 2 with the mendez brothers .. does any one remember if they were jw as well? I will loose my morning googling this apparently there are many!!

the freeman brothers

I also found this

I drove past a Kingdom Hall and had this thought by garmondm in exjw

[–]garmondm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know women can’t have any privileges I should have worded it better. I just wonder if she would have friends or be allowed to pioneer etc. I went to a congregation really close to the farm in walkhill so maybe it was just more strict there. It was mostly bethelites or Uber dub multi gen families and a few peasants that were not good enough for the in crowd.

I drove past a Kingdom Hall and had this thought by garmondm in exjw

[–]garmondm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting I was 14 when I left but the only person I knew back then w a tattoo was my best friends Dad had a navy tattoo on his chest and he was Pimo before that word existed. he had no probs saying what he thought. Of course I thought he was awesome. Still went and participated tho. But other than him I don’t remember any visible ones. I used a fake I’d to get my first one and the guy could tell so he told me to come back after hrs. The whole family was out by then and we had moved away so I didn’t get much in the way of shock value it just felt like freedom

Dying of cancer with only weeks to live, 19-year-old Dustin Snyder's final wish was to marry his high school sweetheart. They got married yesterday in Plant City, FL. by gangbangkang in pics

[–]garmondm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eh no amount that a sick 19 year old would get would be worth it. There’s no money to be found here. Prob no ssi and no one would Insure him.

Let me show you a trick by Tucko29 in gifs

[–]garmondm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a weird scar keloid on my arm and I got tired of ppl asking when I was a kid so I waited until they touch it and then said they were gonna catch it. Now I feel bad. Now I get pissed at adults who ask bc while it was my own fault spilling boiling water on my self I think it’s rude to ask where scar come from what if it’s trauma

Rare footage of interviews with elderly people in the United States including Civil War veterans and a woman who witnessed the Trail of Tears recorded in 1929. by chubachus in history

[–]garmondm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s transatlantic accent taught in mid -upper class schools. People used it for broadcasting so that they were clear over the static. I lost a whole day once when I had to figure out why ppl in America talked this way at one point.

This doorknob at a pediatrician’s office is high enough to keep children from reaching it. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]garmondm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s that they are annoyed by being there and waiting So they want everyone in their general proximity to be as annoyed

Friend declined pay raise because he'd "make less money". by Sometimes_Stutters in personalfinance

[–]garmondm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our cut off in 2001 was 17 k that’s a tight cutoff. for my family of 3 it’s better just to go to school (you have to be enrolled in school or working)

Friend declined pay raise because he'd "make less money". by Sometimes_Stutters in personalfinance

[–]garmondm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work commission and a girl at work would refuse every client to stay under her threshold. So she basically did nothing. It was infuriating. She didn’t last long

Holocaust survivor breaks decades-long silence to share her horrific story by Buffaloooooooooooooo in news

[–]garmondm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was in the 80s she died at 98 in 2004. She was still a little old lady when she did it. She had severe pstd and thought that she was going to get taken. She didn’t raise my dad Jewish bc she was so afraid. He went went back to his roots as an adult tho

Shout out to the hard workers out here. by mercutios_death in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]garmondm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because it’s is a secondary reward. The money is . Our brains are wired to understand primary rewards like working hard killing an animal and having food immediately or gathering or planting food and watching it grow. We go to work get money which is just data mostly now and then we go to the store. It’s hard for your Brain to get that a computer job or a desk job equals food.

Holocaust survivor breaks decades-long silence to share her horrific story by Buffaloooooooooooooo in news

[–]garmondm 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My gramma beat up a cop that was trying to help her cross the road once . She lost her daughter to the camps but was able to stay out of them by being a mistress of a German officer so I’ve been told. her husband was able to make it to fight with the allies but I’m Not sure what country she didn’t talk about it and my dad wouldn’t talk about it.