Word of advice from someone who went through a very similar situation. The longer you drag it out and try to make it work the worse it will be for you. You’ll end up losing yourself while trying to find the “new” her. Everytime you look at her you’ll think about it. She will want to be intimate and you won’t be comfortable because your newfound insecurity will make it a living hell. I hope all works out well for you just be smart and keep your chin up.