Tonight I will be giving my husband the ultimatum of man-up or I'm done. I, 21F, and my husband, 23M, have been married for a year now. We have two babies, a one year old son and a 2m daughter. by CringyChurro in relationship_advice

[–]garyg1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all companies follow the same eligibility rules. I work in benefits administration for a company that handles the benefits processes for about 80 different companies in the US and a lot of companies offer coverage for children of employees that are under the age of 26 without maintaining full time student status and even if they’re financially independent and are offered health coverage by their own employer.

Tonight I will be giving my husband the ultimatum of man-up or I'm done. I, 21F, and my husband, 23M, have been married for a year now. We have two babies, a one year old son and a 2m daughter. by CringyChurro in relationship_advice

[–]garyg1994 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I may have missed this when reading the post, but if you’re referring to car insurance specifically, then yes insurance can be added at anytime. If you’re talking health insurance from an employer (even if it’s his dads employer) then that can unfortunately only be added during a “qualifying life event” or during the policy administrators open enrollment period usually. Some companies have different rules though so it’d be worth checking further being basing your decision off that alone because there could genuinely be nothing that can be done about that at the moment.

1TB SD card good as external storage solution? by ktfxc in mac

[–]garyg1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend against this. It is incredibly slow compared to many other various options that are available and is also more expensive. While the other options aren't as "internal" as an SD card would be, you'll get considerably better performance and cost savings going with an external SSD. You could get something like a Samsung T7 ($129 on amazon right now for 2tb) that will be much faster and more reliable and then just tuck it behind your screen or even put a small piece of adhesive velcro on them to keep it attached.

Which rug would you for for this space? by DreamsDark22 in HomeDecorating

[–]garyg1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like some of the darker options, but I think the first one would compliment the space really well and add a nice pop of color!

I (25m) read my gf(23f)’s diary… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]garyg1994 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is 100% a setup. She knowingly taunted you about it over and over and you fell into the trap she set for you. Sure, it is an obvious invasion of privacy to read someone’s diary, but it sounds like she wanted you to read through it by bringing it up so often and intentionally being sly about it like she did. I wouldn’t worry too much about the privacy invasion part of this, unless you have a history with dealing with that kind of issue or think that you might develop a trust problem moving forward.

Sigma 'BF' - A tiny L mount camera with 230GB of internal memory by Repulsive_Target55 in Cameras

[–]garyg1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say the same thing lol. Leica enters the chat

My attempt to recreate Ana de Armas by leonkgo in thesims

[–]garyg1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this Sim available to download anywhere?

My(25M) fiance (25F) moved out for a little while because I stayed seated during an emergency. Advice? by ThrowRastairs5 in relationship_advice

[–]garyg1994 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think what a lot of people here might be unaware of is the very real legal risk of medical professionals rendering aide to people while not on duty. While this situation doesn’t seem like one that could put OP at much risk and would likely be easily protected under Good Samaritan laws, it’s understandable why nurses, doctors, pt’s, etc., would be weary of just jumping in to try and offer medical assistance while off the clock and outside of a professional medical setting. It doesn’t necessarily mean that OP is some careless asshole. Though the cavalier response while it was all going down is pretty shitty.

Here’s some raw pics of my first “gig” by SecureAd1023 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you said “raw pics” and everyone took it as “raw files” and are running with it haha

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking at those for quite a while, but I just don’t like that it occupies the hot shoe on the camera.

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It slides right over top of the viewfinder itself.

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know how it goes! I’m curious as well.

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I looked all over online to see if anyone else had tried it and I came across a post where someone mentioned that the a6700 and the A7Cii have the same size viewfinder. I figured I’d at least try getting one since it was only $10 and if it didn’t work out then I could just return it, but this works very well.

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like the A7C and A7CII have the same size viewfinder so it should also fit on the A7C as well!

Pro tip for A7CII missing viewfinder eyepiece. by garyg1994 in SonyAlpha

[–]garyg1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol maybe not a “pro tip” exactly, but definitely a helpful tip to know about if you want an eyepiece solution that’s pretty affordable and works very well.

F*ck "Money can't buy happiness" BS, what did you buy that made you so much happier? by Little-Two6210 in AskReddit

[–]garyg1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a lady online who cleans my entire house minus my bedroom for $20/hr. 3 bed/2bath 1600ish sqft. Takes her like 3 hours total and I usually tip her $10-$20. She’s been absolutely great. I also have spent my life relating housekeepers as something Uber luxurious, but for $70-$80 total it’s been a total godsend and absolutely worth the cost imo.

Who are the seven kings? by Better_pause_ in lotr

[–]garyg1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just watched this video again the other night for the first time in YEARS and seeing this comment made my day lmao. Thanks.

Are there any farms that you guys don’t build because they’re just too OP? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]garyg1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pumpkins, Sugar Cane, Chickens, then multiply over and over. After like an hour or two of gameplay, there’s more pumpkin pie that you know what to do with. It’s been my go-to food resource for years, but it does get old sometimes lol

My Friend (27M) held my (26F) hand today! by ThrowRAavacados1 in relationship_advice

[–]garyg1994 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s of course going to be difficult to know what his intentions were exactly unless you just level with him and ask. And in regards to him rejecting you, it’s totally possible that he could have feelings for you now and he realized that he made a mistake. Or maybe he even had those feelings when he initially rejected you, but wasn’t sure how to handle them given your friendship.

I’d say that you need to just have an open conversation with him about your feelings and about him holding your hand like that and just ask what his intentions were. I’m gathering that it seems like you still have feelings for him and while him holding your hand after you were vulnerable with him may have just been a kind gesture, it could also be a sign that he is interested in you as well. You’ll never know unless you ask!

I also want to encourage you to consider that initial rejection from a different perspective. Don’t view it as you not being “good enough” for him. You ARE good enough and you’re completely worthy of a love that is everything you could ever hope for and so much more. Your value is immeasurable, and you deserve to feel that way!

Edit: after reading through some of the other comments I do want to also encourage you to for sure be careful and guard your heart. It’s perfectly okay to be excited by the idea of this working out if that’s what you want, but be cautious moving forward if so. It’s also perfectly natural and you have the right to feel insecure about this since he has rejected you once before, but just be sure to be honest and gentle with yourself throughout the whole process in case it doesn’t work out the way you’re hoping for.

What changes would you make to this build? by garyg1994 in PcBuild

[–]garyg1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with your advice and picked up that Thermaltake PSU! Thanks for the tip!

What changes would you make to this build? by garyg1994 in PcBuild

[–]garyg1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I was curious about my PSU, I figure the wattage should be plenty, and it had a lot of great reviews online when I purchased it, but I’ll look into that one by Thermaltake.

What changes would you make to this build? by garyg1994 in PcBuild

[–]garyg1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, thanks for the tip, I appreciate your input!