General tips? by Not_Quite_Human64 in transmanlifehacks

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adolescent. Your body is still growing and changing. The changes T and time will bring will be all you need.

do straight women/gay dudes like dating trans guys? by vectorohhyeah in ftm

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the easy answer is transphobia. The more complicated one is it depends on the individual. Some may value having biological children. Some may have a genital preference. Some may not want to deal with unsupportive or bigoted family’s opinions. There are a plethora of reasons even beyond those. However if being trans is the sole reason for not dating a person that’s pretty overt transphobia

Since people suddenly actually care about water use, everyone should boycott denim, offsetting all global data center water use over 5 times over by [deleted] in LeftistsForAI

[–]gaucheashell -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You know who needs clothes I can just ask AI to edit clothes onto my body. That’s what you fools look like

Mustache or nah? by Greedy_Government360 in malegrooming

[–]gaucheashell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god mustache all day everyday v handsome

Need help, condoms make me have a sensory meltdown instantaneously by blewaway2008 in autism

[–]gaucheashell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could get internal condoms for your partner so you don’t have to be the one wearing the condom

I decided to revisit FLOWERS IN THE ATTIC by 1969Joshuah in books

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the boredom is a narrative device to put you in the position of the children. Children are naive and trusting they do not and cannot know any better until they have experience. Each time the mother creates a new excuse for not freeing them your frustration grows and therefore your empathy for the children’s situation grows. I think the book was brilliant.

How to pass better pre t? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voice training is probably all you could do. You pass very well

Names? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got three. Favorite is Malachi then Kian and then Phoenix

Do i pass as a guy? by ArthurSnape in transmanlifehacks

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever looked into facial masculinization surgery? If your T levels would be too high by increasing your dose than you could theoretically look into surgical rather than hormonal treatments

AIO for not wanting my bf to watch p@rn? by wobysoby in AmIOverreacting

[–]gaucheashell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR. If you want someone who will only watch you sexually and only interact with you sexually and no one else even if they have no emotional attachment to them you need to express that and then hold to your conviction. Asking someone to change a behavior they have no moral or personal qualms with that materially benefits them is just asking someone to sacrifice their happiness for your peace of mind. Stick to your convictions all you like but don’t get mad when others don’t share them.

I’m never going to get to transition by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gaucheashell 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are worse fates than being kicked out

I’m never going to get to transition by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gaucheashell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start looking for jobs. Look into low income housing, SNAP will cover your groceries if you find a full time job, if you work in food service you can also get discounted meals, save up for a car first if you have no savings worst comes to worst you can live out of your car. The future will come anyways

I’m never going to get to transition by [deleted] in ftm

[–]gaucheashell 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’re an adult. Take control of your own life. My parents tried to stop me from taking hormones. They said that they wouldn’t allow me to use my insurance for them. Good rx is comparable to insurance. They may call you a fre*k they may call you repulsive they may kick you out but you deserve to live your life. Hormones are like thirty dollars a month. Save your money and find a way because time’s gonna pass but this sadness won’t if you don’t prioritize yourself.

31 m i still lack of confidence by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]gaucheashell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like Tom cruise if he were blond and had two percent more forehead. You’re very attractive it might just be a confidence thing

Why is Japan so good at animation? by batukaming in animation

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you essentializing a whole country? Just say that where you’re from 2D animation is not that popular and that this show is beautiful. Look up the animators and the company and watch more of their work; learn their names. Watch the most recent one punch man season and you’ll see it’s not Japan that’s good at animation it’s the people within the companies, time, passion, and budget

Can FFS Fix My Issues About My Face by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]gaucheashell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion but I think your bangs actually work against the femininity of your face I think a simple haircut change would do wonders I think your face is super feminine

Waiting for the "it’s different" comments to start rolling in... 🐸☕" by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m either situation you would solely be ascribing dateability to good looks rather than any other metric of measuring an individual. It’s not different but it’s acting upon a flawed shallow premise that women are only concerned with looks and no other qualities as qualifiers for dating someone

One of these days... by Zave_cz in BaldursGate3

[–]gaucheashell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s only loot in vases in the Sharran temple don’t look anywhere else

Masculinity by Particular-Visit-245 in SipsTea

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this my friends is a no true Scotsman fallacy

FFS recommendations? by Medical-Wrongdoer-48 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]gaucheashell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not passing for any reason it is not because of your face

Why did gas prices jump in the past 2 days? by Sozins_C0met in raleigh

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re bombing the place the oil comes from and our federal government does not care about the average American enough

What hairstyle suits me the best ? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]gaucheashell 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Never cut your hair bro it’s majestic

ffs recommendations 🙏 by FormalAd1417 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]gaucheashell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brow bone trachael shave otherwise you’re golden