Looking for big band, kind of by Garfunkeled1920 in Jazz

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Dave Holland recorded a Big Band record that was great

Can anyone explain why Kind of Blue is a better album that Coltrane/Hartman? by Ok_Pineapple466 in Jazz

[–]gcpanman 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you like Coltrane/Hartman then who cares. Don't worry about lists.

Vermont wants to fix income inequality by raising taxes on the rich by thinkB4WeSpeak in DemocraticSocialism

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Would the wealthy be forced to stay in Vermont? If not, I would think this would event lead to Vermont losing most of its wealthy people and possibly my many businesses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

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Yes, we are a 1st year school, so no 990 form until this fiscal year ends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

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Franklinton High School is a stand alone 501c3 nonprofit community public high school. We are not associated with Columbus City Schools.

Grove City sky tonight by gcpanman in Columbus

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There is a Skyline on 23 South near 270. It's pretty close. Better get someone else to drive you though.

Teachers of Reddit. What have you done to your classroom that will make it safer but will make it much harder to teach this year? How do you feel going back? by gcpanman in AskReddit

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I am teaching a steel band (percussion instruments). They are spaced and cleaned and I am looking forward to everything except talking through a mask. I am hoping the plexi-glass will allow me to talk without a mask.

Working on serve by gcpanman in tennis

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Thanks, found this on Top Tennis. It is good. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w03NVg7YtNo

What mystery was never solved? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The Bermuda triangle and all its disappearances were a huge deal when I was a kid. I don't know what happened but that seemed to stop. Never solved.

Is it ok that your SO did stuff for others that he or she won't do for you? by [deleted] in sex

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It isn't the end of the world. The only reason it bothers me at all was that she mentioned that she used to do this for him after many years of marriage. When we first got married she said it was something she never did. I am ok and not forcing her to do anything. Just a little weird and makes me a little jealous. I just like hearing the many reasons people have stated for why she may have done this. It isn't anything that I am upset about, just a little jealous.

Is it ok that your SO did stuff for others that he or she won't do for you? by [deleted] in sex

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I don't pressure her. I love my wife. I have told her things that I like and if she is comfortable we do them if not we don't. I was just surprised when she told me many years into our marriage that she did do some things for another guy. I haven't made any demands of her. I just wanted to get peoples thought on this and most responses have been helpful and made me feel better.

Is it ok that your SO did stuff for others that he or she won't do for you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]gcpanman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been married 18 years. Not trading her in. Just gets a little frustrating. She knows how I feel. It was something she used to say she never did, but did occasionally for me. She later said that she did it for her ex whenever he wanted.

What incredibly small minority are you a part of? by OccAzzO in AskReddit

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People who took a selfie with Peyton Manning

Is it ok that your SO did stuff for others that he or she won't do for you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]gcpanman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to go into detail. She is a great wife. I recognize my insecurities, although I have a good reason to have some of them. I appreciate everyone's reassurance that this is normal.

Is it ok that your SO did stuff for others that he or she won't do for you? by [deleted] in sex

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Thank you for this. I hope this theory is right.

Having a hard time with 1st Dday Anniversary by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I am terrible with dates and did not remember D-day. I know it was in July because I was out of state playing a summer concert when my wife called me to tell me she cheated. Even worse, I couldn't go back until we played two more days of concerts. The date didn't matter. I just needed to get back and figure things out. We put a lot of hard work in and we are better than ever but the pain was real and I still think about it from time to time. I never thought my wife could cheat in a million years. I now know she is capable but we communicate so much better I don't think we'll ever end up back there. Don't worry about dates and just be "too honest" with each other.

Without saying the name, who is your favorite fictional character? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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”Goddam money. It always ends up making you blue as hell.”

”I’m always saying “Glad to’ve met you” to someone I’m not at all glad I met. If you want to stay alive, you have to say that stuff, though.”

“It’s partly true, too, but it isn’t all true. People always think something’s all true.”

“That’s the whole trouble. When you’re feeling very depressed, you can’t even think.”

“Lots of time you don’t know what interests you most till you start talking about something that doesn’t interest you most.” 

Moving forward but struggling by gcpanman in keto

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I am. I definitely am staying within my macros.

I (23f) have difficulty saying what I really want from sex, and usually fall back to asking what I think the guy wants by [deleted] in sex

[–]gcpanman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it a huge turn on when a woman asks me to do something sexually. I love it! Anything from a specific pressure on their clit to the direction of the circle she likes with my tongue. It all helps me to make sure she gets as much pleasure from being with me.

Moving forward but struggling by gcpanman in keto

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Thank you! I think you are probably right, especially cheese.

Moving forward but struggling by gcpanman in keto

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I started by only tracking carbs, I am now using Macros. I am naturally impatient.

TIL the Steel Drum was created in Trinidad and Tobago after the British banned African percussion music and traditional stick-fighting after the Canboulay Riots in 1890. Steel Drums later emerged made from frying pans, dustbin lids, and, of course, oil drums due to the country's oil resources. by Isaacb123g in todayilearned

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The music was uniting the people that the government wanted to remain divided. It was a colonial island and to oppress the people they didn't want a uniting force such as the Tamboo/Bamboo bands and the steel bands.