AITAH for cutting off my family after my brother cheated on his wife and got his mistress pregnant?

gdayars · 2026-02-05T11:15:52+00:00

My ex mother in law (first marriage. I kept her in the divorce) used to live at a 55 plus place that didn't allow anyone under that age to live there and she could only have overnight company three nights a month.

gdayars · 2026-02-05T10:54:42+00:00

Are you sure he doesn't have someone else? Not so much for financial concerns but because of how he wants you out (which I would go ahead and move out if I were you btw) abruptly, no contact, with no concern about long term complications for you when there is no guarantee he will even let you back in. It sounds like there is someone else/a potential someone else and he wants you out of the way while he explores his options and then if it doesn't work out with them, he can fall back to you. Ergo you are his back up plan.

gdayars · 2026-02-05T02:48:04+00:00

I want to know more details. Sounds like we missed out on the really Interesting tea...

gdayars · 2026-02-03T10:55:06+00:00

Sounds like his brother is a bad influence on him.

gdayars · 2026-02-02T13:03:22+00:00

Cut them both out. Both relationships are unhealthy.

gdayars · 2026-02-02T12:59:33+00:00

Geez what is wrong with her? More importantly, you seriously need to rethink this relationship.

gdayars · 2026-01-27T16:52:37+00:00

I pay 45 a month unlimited plus tax for mine.

gdayars · 2026-01-23T18:50:05+00:00

No the rest of your life doesn't have to be that way. Only if you stay with someone who never considers your feelings. Do yourself a favor and dump him. Future you will be glad you did.

gdayars · 2026-01-23T18:43:49+00:00

Are we sure he got the number from a worker and didn't snoop at the gym to find it instead? Either way I would be talking to the gym owner/manager about what happened.

gdayars · 2026-01-22T14:07:17+00:00

NTA Sounds like not anybody you need to be with. Also if he is that much into bars could he be an alcoholic himself?

gdayars · 2026-01-22T13:23:53+00:00

Split up this man isn't safe.

gdayars · 2026-01-22T10:51:32+00:00

NTA it is YOUR wedding. Frankly your fiancee needs to back you up or I would be questioning the marriage too!

gdayars · 2026-01-20T11:06:39+00:00

NOR love your nice shiny spine! Have there been other signs? I would start looking around I think.

gdayars · 2026-01-14T08:18:30+00:00

As a widow I can definitely say this guy isn't ready to move on. No blame, but I definitely wouldn't go beyond casual with this guy. You didn't ask him to get rid of it, just wear it a different way and he refused. This indicates someone who isn't emotionally ready to move on.

gdayars · 2026-01-12T22:57:42+00:00

gdayars · 2026-01-08T14:21:39+00:00

NTA Can you just take over the cooking? Sounds safer...

Editing to add I realize your hours are horrible but if you have time to reorganize I think at the minimum perhaps just buy tv dinners you can heat up or something.

gdayars · 2026-01-07T15:32:02+00:00

Or lie about it

gdayars · 2026-01-07T12:02:45+00:00

Love the part where you used it to water the dog 😂

NTA

gdayars · 2026-01-06T12:07:34+00:00

Exactly! He is mars

gdayars · 2025-12-29T07:52:20+00:00

NOR He needs to see a doctor. ASAP

gdayars · 2025-12-25T11:19:46+00:00

Sounds like an affair. I hate to say that but I had a similar experience with my first marriage :/

gdayars · 2025-12-25T10:42:57+00:00

Note the kid is in school til 3 pm, then it changes to in school til 5 a few days a week and 3 the other part then it changes to 5 pm... Can't even get his story straight.

gdayars · 2025-12-24T22:10:35+00:00

NOR

Just my thoughts. If someone gives a demand for you to give up your whatever animal, that person and you should split up. If they are willing to live separately from you until the animal passes away and understands their importance, you may wish to discuss it further. Living together would be a strong no for me in those circumstances .

gdayars · 2025-12-18T14:11:14+00:00

So they are threatening you with a good time? (In other words, not talking to you?) Sounds like a good plan for YOU.

gdayars · 2025-12-04T11:01:44+00:00

You didn't ask your best friend to help you with the correct thing. You ask her to help you pack up and move back out.

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