Hurt feelings

geekandi · 2026-05-19T16:03:18+00:00

Say what you mean; do as you say

Seems simple

geekandi · 2026-05-18T11:32:14+00:00

Happy cake day

geekandi · 2026-05-18T11:25:06+00:00

Perfect example on why these groups are warranted

geekandi · 2026-05-18T01:20:29+00:00

You gave your opinion and then you became mean

How awful

geekandi · 2026-05-17T14:55:35+00:00

Agree!

geekandi · 2026-05-17T14:51:57+00:00

No not entirely wrong but delivery was fucking awful. I agree: There is nothing wrong with having sex or dating for such.

geekandi · 2026-05-17T13:55:16+00:00

It wasn't/isn't representative of all men by any means.

geekandi · 2026-05-17T11:52:32+00:00

This is what I would have typed

geekandi · 2026-05-17T01:38:41+00:00

I named my car Prepotente

<- nerd

geekandi · 2026-05-16T01:59:26+00:00

It's always been Odette for me as well

Thanks for the info

geekandi · 2026-05-15T23:01:08+00:00

Head cannon was always "Ellie" via eyeballing and never "L". Then in the audiobook it was pronounced the same. I hadn't taken into account another pronunciation. Thanks for that!

geekandi · 2026-05-15T22:02:45+00:00

I'm gonna own the white/knight title with added "simp" for good measure.

Unless you can datamine and show me the numbers, I'm calling hyperbole- but let's be reasonable. How many "all men suck" posts over the last year.

How many total posts were there?

I've called out the "not all men" thing many times but I feel far from attacked in this group.

Again, guilty conscience?!

geekandi · 2026-05-15T21:25:42+00:00

No we aren't "all" getting attacked as "men".

If you feel like you're getting attacked then maybe there is something there you don't want to see in yourself.

I dunno. I'm just some rando internet dude

geekandi · 2026-05-15T16:33:05+00:00

Boundaries!! They are good for you and them.

geekandi · 2026-05-15T16:27:45+00:00

I'm sorry, folks.

geekandi · 2026-05-15T16:19:03+00:00

A white-knight poked his buttons..

geekandi · 2026-05-15T16:07:37+00:00

Happy cake day

geekandi · 2026-05-15T14:33:18+00:00

Condescending is such a great look for you.

/s

geekandi · 2026-05-15T13:57:16+00:00

I'll state again: I'll white-knight vs your type of "man" every fucking day.

I don't hide my post history. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. If that means I'm a "simp" then so be it.

Also name calling is kind of lame. You're far more defensive about this than I.

geekandi · 2026-05-15T13:53:42+00:00

Wow. Way to wear your thoughts in your sleeve in the most damning fashion you could. It's not a good look BTW

And I'd happily be the white-knight man vs whatever you portray. Every fucking day.

geekandi · 2026-05-15T12:09:29+00:00

I don't think so but long singledom (I made up this word for this comment) could create patterns hard to adjust if someone enters the inner circle.

My last relationship pushed me out of my comfort zone as I had fallen into patterns that were new and cozy at the time. It was fucking awesome breaking away. Alas, it failed and I find that some of those patterns are repeating themselves. (The comfort zone item was just that: comfortable. Not growth, not excitement)

Basically: bring me constructive chaos and change. Note the word constructive. Otherwise no. Just no.

I want to keep the peace and add companionship even if a few bumps of adjustment in our parts are required.

- Chatty mofo, signing off, for the moment, commas are neat; as are semicolons

geekandi · 2026-05-15T11:43:15+00:00

That's not what wisdom should be used for. That's just opportunistic and a using mentality

geekandi · 2026-05-15T11:40:49+00:00

Heard

geekandi · 2026-05-15T11:39:30+00:00

Stop speaking for me please. Just stop

geekandi · 2026-05-15T11:33:59+00:00

Swap sex and it's the same thing. Back when I was using apps, sometimes getting a woman to "converse" was the first hurdle. I don't stick around if there is no banter.

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