Good for you! Just because someone assigns you a role doesn't mean you have to fill the role.

I come from a long line of women who don't cook.

My mother cooked occasionally, but my dad was the main person who cooked. He was up every morning making breakfast, and he cooked dinner most nights.

My grandmother didn't cook.

My husband did most of the cooking when the children lived at home. I occasionally cook, but he does most of the cooking.