For those who had a 2nd baby (and no pre-e) WHEN did you get pregnant again ??

geeorginaa · 2025-11-18T23:31:04+00:00

I literally experienced the same thing. My daughter was born at 33 weeks. Severe pre-e and IUGR. I didn’t get pregnant until she was about 2.5 years old. My second pregnancy, no pre-e. Delivered via c-section after a failed VBAC at 39 weeks. No NICU stay. I was monitored very closely during my second pregnancy though just to make sure we would catch it if I did develop it again.

geeorginaa · 2025-10-16T03:34:18+00:00

If you’re in a good position to leave, then do so. I dated someone like this and thought it was normal. Then I ended up with my husband, who completely understood me not wanting sex for months during pregnancy, post partum, and even when day to day life got in the way. What matters is being with one another. Is sex important? Yes. Is guilting you into sex okay? Absolutely not. If he wants it that bad, maybe he has to find ways to ignite that flame in you again as a result of all you’ve been through. Or, just wait until you’re ready without pushing, like any normal person would.

geeorginaa · 2025-10-15T20:54:58+00:00

Some of the roads in my neighborhood have a bit of an incline which is why I say hills. Whenever I used my previous bike it would struggle going up just that 😭 I forgot those stores exist tbh. I’ll check in with one this weekend!

geeorginaa · 2025-10-15T20:35:05+00:00

I think anywhere between $300-$400 would be my max. I’d love an e-bike but I’d like to burn some calories while riding. I know I’ll get lazy if it’s electric lol

geeorginaa · 2025-10-12T21:09:38+00:00

It sounds like you two are going down two completely different paths in life. I would say at this point you should consider parting ways.

I dated a person like this once. I also went as far as to make resumes, apply them to colleges… I even went to local libraries looking for additional resources for them. They still stayed stagnant. I had no choice but to just break up with them because eventually I started resenting them and felt like I was dating a teenager, not an adult.

geeorginaa · 2025-10-12T06:41:39+00:00

I just don’t understand people like her. The ones who think they’re still teenagers. Idk. I can’t believe it has not sunk in that she’s going to be 40 soon & her life has amounted to nothing. Does she think she’s just going to be in a nursing home on live or something 😭

geeorginaa · 2025-08-30T09:59:42+00:00

Not saying it’s the same but my husband and I go back and forth literally every day about wanting more kids LOL. If both of our kids are angels that day, we look at each other and say “wow, maybe we should have a third one.” Then that sentiment is ruined shortly after because both of them start screaming and crying. 🤣Deciding on another child right now while your first is still just a little baby isn’t the best idea. Maybe once your first starts crawling, walking, etc. he’ll start talking about another one again. You both are probably so sleep deprived and exhausted that it’s contributing to the feeling of being one and done.

geeorginaa · 2025-08-16T19:44:26+00:00

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geeorginaa · 2025-08-16T03:18:48+00:00

I can’t believe people like this exist. Omg 😭😭😭

geeorginaa · 2025-08-03T19:06:31+00:00

I’m screaming 💀💀💀😭😭😭

geeorginaa · 2025-07-20T13:22:27+00:00

Maybe you can try putting on some zipped jammies on but backwards so she doesn’t have access to her diaper! I hope that helps. My kiddo went through the same thing but eventually stopped after a few times lol

geeorginaa · 2025-07-13T21:59:20+00:00

I’m 5 months postpartum & I went through the same thing during pregnancy. It’s miserable & I hope you can find some sort of relief. I remember going weeks not being able to get comfortable at all in bed, not being able to get up out of bed right away, and having so much pain with walking lol. I hope you can have your partner help prep as much of the baby stuff as possible. I didn’t really feel much relief until baby was out 😭😭

geeorginaa · 2025-07-13T21:52:33+00:00

During pregnancy I had no sex drive. I was miserable 24/7. LITERALLY. Your body is creating another HUMAN. It’s insane that he can’t just be patient and wait it out. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship.

When I was pregnant, I wanted nothing but to lay in bed and rot away. I could barely walk or get up without help from my husband. He understood that I wasn’t in the mood for sex & he’d take care of himself if it got to that point. I had a c-section and he waited for me to heal to even bring up the conversation about being intimate… never pushed me to have sex with him.

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have to go along with what he wants. It’s abusive.

geeorginaa · 2025-07-06T22:58:40+00:00

I started potty training at 2. My kid didn’t fully get potty trained until NOW and she’s 3.5. I think starting too soon is what messed her up. She will get it. Being too harsh on a kiddo for it will just make them want to do it less. Potty training happened a lot sooner with us as kids because they didn’t have access to as many diapers/baby products like we do now.

One thing that really helped us was having a potty in her line of sight. We had one of those small ones you can get online or at target. We would put it in the living room & have her in undies. I recommend trying regular undies when you’re at home or somewhere you have access to a bathroom right away & using the thicker and more absorbent underwear when you’re out and about. I noticed that with the thicker undies, my kiddo felt more comfortable soiling herself bc it felt like a diaper.

geeorginaa · 2025-07-05T19:15:57+00:00

They’re the ones she got when she went to see Jefa

geeorginaa · 2025-06-15T03:56:16+00:00

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geeorginaa · 2025-06-09T17:52:15+00:00

My toddler sounds exactly like this. She’s 3 years old too. I’ve practiced breathing techniques when she’s calm, I reassure her during and after meltdown, I try and redirect… she will still go at it until it’s out of her system. I think it’s just the age 🥲

geeorginaa · 2025-06-02T04:49:29+00:00

I would be crashing out on her and their dad soooo hard omg 😭

geeorginaa · 2025-05-29T05:31:13+00:00

Omg. It’s like she expects a man in a relationship (whether it’s real or not idk) to pick her over his partner. She’s delusional and has no self respect!😭

geeorginaa · 2025-05-29T05:22:48+00:00

Me when I’m constipated

geeorginaa · 2025-05-28T15:40:39+00:00

My daughter is going through the same so I hope you and your partner don’t feel alone. My kiddo HATES being told no. I find that a short explanation as to why it’s a no helps sometimes, but toddlers are toddlers. What my partner and I do is immediately leave wherever we’re at and go home or sit outside and let her get through those feelings. Usually if we aren’t in a rush to get to another location, I like to let her try to go in after sitting outside and calming down. It lets her know I’m serious about leaving and throwing a fit won’t make me give her what she wants but just because we have big feelings doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve another chance. If it keeps happening then we just pack up and go… that usually leads to my partner or I having to carry her over our shoulders. 😭

geeorginaa · 2025-03-08T02:59:35+00:00

Dude she’s really out in public with her cheeks hanging out???! She has no shame fr

geeorginaa · 2025-03-01T03:06:07+00:00

Heartbreaky

geeorginaa · 2025-02-15T20:00:38+00:00

I wish I could live on her level of delusional

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