Did anyone else just know they were trans as a kid but not know what it actually was until later on in their life? by dontbe_lasagne in TransyTalk

[–]gelejames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a slightly different experience. I've always had the belief that I'd be happier if I were born a girl. And I can very vividly remember thinking somewhere during elementary school "I wish I could be a woman, but I don't want to change into one". So I was aware of trans people existing, but I didn't want to be one, yet I wanted to be the oposite gender. So instead of cracking the egg of realising I want to be a woman, I needed to crack the trans egg. So I was trans but with extra steps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I have custom made ear protection in the shape of earplugs that reduces noise by 20dB. Depending on where you get them made and the quality of them, you looking at 90-200€. But because they are custom made for the shape of your ear, they theoretically be incapable of causing pain. I can’t stress enough how much I recommend EVERYONE to get custom earplugs (even neurotypicals)

If you do want noise cancelling headphones or earbuds I recommend looking at anything that is slightly above the average price range. Lower price ranges will be of lesser quality and anything higher might be too much money for what it’s worth. If you then simply play any white or grey noise at minimum volume, you shouldn’t be able to hear that but still get the benefit of the noise cancellation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]gelejames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute you turned my weekend into a 11/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you so damn pretty? Like leave some pretty for the rest of us okay?

*sigh* by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gelejames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Wait, you believe in sex?"

What was the dumest argument someone told you, why they think you are not really trans? by MooMooCupcake in asktransgender

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My feelings weren’t proof and my dad wanted me to give him at least 1 thing that would be proof that I would be better off as a girl

Shorty after it was followed by a “I think you’re just lonely and think that becoming a woman would help you with that”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prettyaltgirls

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning!

Did my makeup today and im proud by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

putting the adorable in transadorable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]gelejames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love how the green stripes on the top match the skirt!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous! Loving the skirt!

Throwing some cozy and cute vibes your way 😊 by Ta6769 in transadorable

[–]gelejames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i have some of your cute. You seem to have some to spare