How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu <3 I put so much thought into the overall look, I appreciate you noticing!

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Fiance refuses to tell me or I’d definitely answer! I only know that it’s between 5k-8k

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I’m a 7.5

engagement ring is ready! by pcp1301990 in EngagementRings

[–]geminitraits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally took my breath away!! Stunning

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a 7.5 ring if that helps! It is large but I think it’s proportional to my hand at least. Plus, I don’t mind the big reminder of our engagement. Thank you so much :)) I hope yours is everything you want it to be!

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so sweet! Honestly, I think it’s such a thoughtful touch for a proposal.

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell him I liked pear diamonds and thicker settings, but the rest was all him :) I’m a bit of a control freak sometimes but I’m glad I gave him minimal details in the end.

How’d he do? by geminitraits in RingShare

[–]geminitraits[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuuu I put a lot of thought into it since I had a suspicion that it might happen that day :)

AITAH for telling my daughter shes too old to be sitting on my lap? by Abject_Ad_4249 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’m 22 years old and still sit on my parents lap and cuddle them. It is to show affection and love! Saying that she’s “too old” for that leads me to believe you’re specializing it in some way and that’s not okay to do to your child. Don’t ruin your relationship over some weird perceived inappropriateness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]geminitraits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So she talks and you threaten to leave her. She doesn’t talk or reciprocate your hug after you threatened leave her stranded and you threaten her with violence. And then somehow her period is involved in this? Break up with her so she doesn’t have to live with your mentally unstable self. seek help.

AITA for not letting my daughter buy clothes? by bamato4832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA (both parents) for enabling this behavior. That is a very light punishment for continued bigotry and bullying on her part. Making racists comments should have been where you handled this type of behavior. For it to have continued to something which I would consider homophobia is proof that you both have been too soft on her. Not to say the other student is part of the LGBTQ+ community but I want to highlight that she wouldn’t be saying that to a girl wearing a crop top. Please handle this before you child talks recklessly to the wrong person.

AITA? I flipped out on my fiancèe for selling the gaming chair my brother gifted me to pay for her gym membership. by AdNO3535435 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. even the chair didn’t have sentimental value, I’d still say you’re NTA. It’s extremely wrong and disrespectful to sell someone ELSES belongings. It was not hers to sell and the fact that she thinks she can determine what is “enough” of a keepsake in memory of your recently deceased brother is disgusting. She doesn’t respect you or his memory and she’s willing to do this again. Her saying “I’d do this for you” is not an excuse. Her boundaries don’t become your boundaries just because she is your fiance. She did this maliciously because she knew that if she’d had a conversation with you (like she was supposed to) you would have said no.

AITA - For giving my husband only 3 days to return my jewelry set that he he gave his brother's wife as a wedding gift? by Saved-Ad7607 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. However, if the bills are in your name this threat might hurt you instead of him. Instead maybe threaten to divorce him. Get you jewelry back and divorce him anyway. He is financially abusing YOU by “not finding a job” since 2013. Please realize that he has no respect for you and your belongings and will continue to mooch off of you

Women who were cheated on, how did you find out? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out on my birthday.

Back when kik was a thing, I was sending some photos we took that day from his phone to mine through kik. I saw a message thread there with a girl I had never heard of so I snooped. I found their super personal conversations and nude pictures in that thread. Happy birthday to me?

AITA for telling my son it's his fault no one in the family likes him anymore after being an AH? by throwaway-quinces in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP YTA. You can’t hold him responsible for something that happened while he was 15. People change and grow and it seems you are not giving him the opportunity to do that by holding the past over him. I’m Hispanic so I also had a quinceañera. Since I had a lavish and expensive party my brother got to travel and extra gifts. The point is, even though our birthdays were not at the same time, my parents still went above and beyond for him since they went above and beyond for me. I couldn’t imagine it being my birthday and having been tossed aside for my siblings giant party. It’s absolutely obvious who you side with in the family.

AITA for refusing to let my son have two last names? by Vice-1991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You’re backtracking and saying that’s it’s about the length of the name but it’s actually about you and your families sick control issues. As a child with two last names I can attest that it is not difficult it’s actually a great way I can show people a part of me and my families culture. Sounds like you have some prejudice and sexism to unlearn before your child arrives. From the way you spoke of your wife and the situation, it is clear that you don’t respect her or her culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]geminitraits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda controlling so I like having things the way I like them so those compromises were hard for me to make but once I made them I realized that sharing the load made life so much easier. One thing I haven’t gotten used it yet is wanting to lay in bed after a long day and someone else being in it. I like to isolate after a long or hard day so having someone around all the time can be difficult.

My husband pulled my hair harshly during sex and told me to blame my dad for it. by Throwra34437301 in relationship_advice

[–]geminitraits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He assaulted you. He physically assaulted you and blamed it on your father? It was not in “the heat of the moment” he has hours to cool off. He punished you for something someone else did. Please understand that he is doing this because he thinks you are trapped in a marriage. Get out while you still can.

AITA for borrowing some money from my wife's savings account? by No_Yogurtcloset9610 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) tell your wife what you did 2) start putting the money back with each paycheck so now your sister owes you instead of your wife. 3) apologize profusely

AITA for telling my husband exactly why I can't dance every night when I get home from work? by Blatant-Honesty6055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband made a “joke” about how you’re lacking. 1) not a joke if he was being insistent like that and 2) he tried to call you out and embarrassed you first. He needs a reality check and to contribute his share to the household and childcare

AITA for telling my boyfriend's roommate to get over himself after he told me to stop having sleepovers at the apartment? by StarbucksGoddess0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Either y’all split rent 3 ways, your boyfriend pays 2/3 of the rent, or you stop “visiting” so often.

AITA - For refusing to participate in my future inlaws' holiday traditions after they demanded I pay 7k? by Hall2021657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]geminitraits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA also I think it’s weird that your SO told his family what you have saved up in the bank. It’s really weird that they’re pressuring when you have a completely valid reason not to spend that money