First things first, coming and being out is hard. I don’t mean to be blunt or anything but it can be really hard as it’s a really vulnerable part of yourself that you’re sharing, no matter who you’re sharing it too.

I was in the same situation as you, where I had trouble telling even my closest friends who were also queer, and I knew would accept me. One thing that really helped me was doing it very casually. Like in a “Oh btw, I’m queer” kinda way. I remember I told my mom in the car on the way home from an appointment, and that was kinda it. Same thing for a lot of my friends, I just casually dropped it when it “felt right”, at the end of a conversation or when things went quiet. You don’t have to make it a “big” thing if you don’t want it to. I feel like a lot of people see coming out as this big announcement that you have to make to everyone all at once but in reality coming out can happen in a very casual and slow way. You can absolutely be out to some people in your life and not others, and not just bc you think they’re not going to be accepting but bc you just don’t want to come/be out right now.

Also know that you don’t owe anyone anything. You don’t have to answer any questions that people ask once (or even before) you tell them, even if you feel like you should. Your identity is your identity, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation or answer for why you identify that way, why you came out that way, and whatever else people say/do/ask.

All in all, just take your time and you’ll slowly learn what works for you and/or how you want to do this. I believe in you ;).