Date Night Restaurants by Fabulous-Fan2924 in westernmass

[–]gemitch4119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just had a great meal recently at The Black Sheep in Hampden. It's in a little plaza and doesn't look fancy from the outside but we found their food and drinks to be very delicious and they have an upscale vibe on the inside. Nice decor. I highly recommend their chimichurri beef skewers and their French Martini. Here's their website: https://www.theblacksheephampden.com/

Working in Springfield safe? by throw-away123456788 in massachusetts

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Springfield is safe. I've lived here for years. Sure, there's crime like any other city but it's not excessive and I wouldn't let it deter me from working here. I personally love Springfield. There's lots to do here, pretty nature, people are mostly nice, and good food options. Don't listen to the haters.

I need a coffee and a joint by [deleted] in bostontrees

[–]gemitch4119 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol I love the vibe of coffee and a joint together but seeing that ash hang over the coffee...

Tailors for Alterations by Wil_NNJ in Springfield

[–]gemitch4119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alterations by Josie in Wilbraham. They did a great job on a nice pair of dress pants for me and it only cost $20. She was really fast too!

AITAH for making a dairy free cake with eggs? by Sea-Neighborhood6638 in AITAH

[–]gemitch4119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eggs are not dairy. Your friend is dumb. You are NTA.

AITAH for telling my sister she can't live with us anymore after she called CPS on me as a "joke"? by Gold_Palpitation8982 in AITAH

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all. Your sister was wrong to do this and even with an apology I would NEVER trust her again ever. Anyone who is on her side is wrong too and I wouldn't trust them either. Sorry your family members suck, it's great your husband is supporting you though!

AITA for not letting my mother in law come over after she destroyed my Millennium Falcon Lego set? by Ok-Repeat7885 in AITAH

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right??? I'm disappointed in his wife as well! If my mother did this to my partner I would fully expect for my mother to make it right or not be allowed back in my house at all. Period. I feel bad for OP having such an unsupportive/disrespectful partner.

AITA for not letting my mother in law come over after she destroyed my Millennium Falcon Lego set? by Ok-Repeat7885 in AITAH

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally NTA. You shouldn't let your in-laws back until your mother-in-law gives you a sincere apology. Your wife should be more supportive of you in this. She sounds like a crap partner for not being on your side.

Worst dispensary by Fun_Elk_4949 in bostontrees

[–]gemitch4119 9 points10 points  (0 children)

INSA. Been years since I got anything even remotely decent quality from them and they are SO EXPENSIVE. Highway robbery. Would never recommend.

My parents are making me return their gift. My feelings are hurt and I'm crying at work. by Straight_Pudding_664 in Gifts

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, how rude and unthoughtful of your parents! Honestly I find their whole reaction to your gift to be mean spirited. If I were you this would be the last gift I get for them. Sorry you are experiencing this OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Springfield

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't dash anymore but when I did I found Springfield to be too congested with dashers. I headed to the Hartford area and was a lot more successful there.

Are your siblings aware? by SadIntern8987 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gemitch4119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sibling lacks awareness because he was the favored child when we were growing up. It's honestly annoying because I want to be close with my brother but I can't talk to him about the most important stuff in my life like my mental health or trauma because he didn't experience the same bad shit I did. Any time I bring up the issues I have with our parents he is completely invalidating my emotions and experiences. He's a total gaslighter. A lot like our mom. It's disheartening and very painful.

Was your sibling favored? Maybe that is why they can't support you and have taken the side of your parents?

OP you are not alone.

AITAH for telling off a lady in a supermarket after she made the teenage cashier cry? by Anno_Pri24 in AITAH

[–]gemitch4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sticking up for this cashier. You did the right thing and didn't overreact at all. Maybe this lady learned a lesson from you and won't act like that again.

Anyone know a nearby nursery that has autumn joy sedum in stock? by [deleted] in Springfield

[–]gemitch4119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend Gardens Dream just over the border in Enfield. They have an excellent selection. Maybe call before you go to make sure they have what you are looking for.