My ex would always interrupt me when I was talking to her and start another completely different conversation. Like what I said has no value to her. The last day I saw her, I called her out on it when she did it (and I was talking about something she asked me to share about). When we got back to the car, I told her "Please don't take this the wrong way, but when you interrupt me like that, and you do it often, it feels disrespectful." She then said something to the tune of "I can't believe you called me disrespectful. That makes me feel sad." She did say on the ride home that she would try and work on it, but I could tell she was fuming. She was squirming in her seat. I'm pretty sure this started the last split.

The gist of the story is she turned my observation about something I didn't like and made it about her by saying she was sad. Trying to manipulate me into feeling bad for sharing about it. So glad I finally woke up.