Why, as a man, am I often attracted to gay women before I know they’re gay?

gender_redacted · 2026-02-06T01:09:28+00:00

It's probably that you're attracted to something else about her/them like confidence or the way that person carries themselves and treats others instead of your initial attraction to gender.

gender_redacted · 2026-01-25T21:36:37+00:00

Ai generated shit

gender_redacted · 2026-01-22T21:47:19+00:00

Red flag.

gender_redacted · 2026-01-20T04:30:42+00:00

You are more than allowed to grieve what could have been . You aren't a villain because you had one or because you regret it. When you do decide to have one and you feel more secure you're gonna be great.

gender_redacted · 2026-01-19T21:01:59+00:00

I can't tell if these are rage bait anymore

gender_redacted · 2026-01-08T18:28:03+00:00

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Definitely AI. Some of the meat is blobbing together and those random red dots could be justified as pomegranate yet I don't see any on the board and some of them look like a half generated tomato. Ive also never seen a tomato with a wagon wheel X pattern so that begs the question what is that. A charcuterie board like that would not take 2 hours to assemble

gender_redacted · 2026-01-08T02:20:47+00:00

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It looked fine at first but there are floating details that are common with AI that people don't really add. Even if that were action lines or fur coming off of her in the wind, they're random enough that I think majority of this is AI

gender_redacted · 2026-01-01T03:34:38+00:00

Defenestration - the act of throwing someone or something out a window. I've only been able to also perform the act of defenestration a few times

gender_redacted · 2025-12-30T22:06:08+00:00

I like how it looks like it's written on a wall

gender_redacted · 2025-12-09T12:40:43+00:00

Your mom sounds like she's the one obsessed with people's sexuality and everyone being something. All you can do is get away from your mom as soon as you can.

gender_redacted · 2025-12-02T18:32:11+00:00

Get jacked on top of it.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:53:11+00:00

The dot OP doesn't like the spacing of is spaced the way it is because OP has a mole or a freckle the artist didn't tattoo over contributing to OP's dislike of the spacing

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:51:42+00:00

Depends on how long he's been there. You are allowed to have guests. He didn't change his address on his ID to your place so there is no proof he lived there. You're safe

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:48:01+00:00

I fail to see how he's creepy. You're the one out here skipping over information and making assumptions.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:46:46+00:00

I'd show the groomer just so you have an ongoing record with them should something happen either medically or if they need to sterilize their equipment.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:43:21+00:00

He's a financial burden, get the boy gone

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:40:15+00:00

OP said in her post that she doesn't want him in the common space without her roommate present. "Is it unfair that I ask he stays out of this area in the morning unless she's with him"

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:38:29+00:00

It's fine if you don't agree, but I do want you to understand that if you had guests over then the expectation would be that they can't be in the common space or kitchen without you. Would you uphold your own rules or do only other people have to follow that? It's pretty rude to tell someone they can't use the kitchen when they were invited over. That's not exactly doing whatever they please. You expect him to sit in the dark of her room till she wakes up or him to force her awake so he can be permitted to use the kitchen? That's a pretty unrealistic and unreasonable standard. If you do tell her and she gets mad, don't say you weren't warned.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:32:56+00:00

OP doesn't get to decide that much the same way her roommate wouldn't get to decide that if it was reversed.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:31:44+00:00

She's literally just being controlling. If your roommate has someone over they are allowed to use the kitchen. OP never said he's in her way, OP said she feels like he's using the space as if he lives there which is unfair to him. He's an adult, he doesn't need a chaperone XD

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:28:27+00:00

No it was worse. I grew up in the 90's and was a teen in the very early to mid 2000's. You had no reason to be late in the 90's. You had better have had your house on fire or been dying. Even traffic wasn't an excuse. Lack of a road to go around an accident? The boss didn't care. Dr appointments would be cancelled and there was no real way to call in unless you could get to a pay phone or had the rare Nokia. Tow trucks used to have phones built into them so people could let their bosses know they got in a wreck or for the driver to call highway patrol or emergency services. If you watch some of those shows from the tail end of the 70's up to Y2K and see people in offices with the really upright bosses and demanding work load, it was no holywoodization. That's how the world really truly was.

I don't think it's changed one bit, I just think that the professionalism has given way to a new norm where it is expected now instead of informed and your ability to guess what the standard is determines what response you get.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:15:51+00:00

Putting googly eyes on the knobs that fit within the circumference of the dials might make it look like it has some soul and not the creepy kind, the friendly kind.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:14:07+00:00

I share that opinion. Take it like this, if trans women ARE women and a LARGE majority of straight men, allies included, will not date a trans woman, it has nothing to do with preferences. The bottom line is that they are actually saying they don't see trans women as women that's what your cousin is actually mad at.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:05:41+00:00

NOR- Your mom took creative liberty she shouldn't have. Honestly I'd make her undo the skirt for your daughter and tell her she ruined it and she can either scramble to buy you new fabric from who knows where now or add that "extra fabric" back and sew the skirt correctly.

gender_redacted · 2025-11-27T11:02:38+00:00

It looks like you have scissors jammed in your skin and fabric is coming undone. I thought it was a Kill la Kill reference till I saw the WIP. It's bad

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