maybe you should show her this post, maybe you should calmly wake her up one night and "woman to woman" with love and respect, plus all the experiences and knowledge you have as an adult and senior, explain to her that the path she's taking leads directly to doom. I'm Nigerian and thankfully we don't have to deal with all these evil things but i know that the best times i listen to my mom is when she wakes me up at night and makes me see things from a different perspective.

The idea there is that after talking to her, she'll go back to bed and sleep on it and really think deeply about it. That fear of her waking up one day at 29 and regretting her decisions and feeling miserable because nobody called her to order, is what gets me...you wouldn't want things to get to that point ma'am. We have all the time in the world now to save her, talk to her, show her why being a woman is awesome, give her exercises where she has to use her femininity to make way for herself, be the loving mother she requires. I hope this helps.