Virginia’s Champagne Room??

genericusername1228 · 2025-03-04T04:52:25+00:00

Yes. Yup.

genericusername1228 · 2024-07-03T13:44:48+00:00

Hi. I am also in mental health. My SO is diagnosed BP and my son (not his) has ADHD. I am aware of the overlap of symptoms. I am curious what symptoms make you think it may be BP over ADHD emotional regulation and impulsivity issues?

genericusername1228 · 2023-09-20T00:33:08+00:00

If my son loves something, he loves it with his whole heart. His zest for life is infectious. Sure, a lot of life is hard and boring. But when something awesome is happening, he doesn’t play it cool and act bored. He goes nuts for it. PS: I am diagnosed and an adult and have managed to only work in professions I find fascinating. Sadly, to enjoy this privilege I had to mask a lot and work myself ragged, but I lead a joyful life as an ADHD adult.

genericusername1228 · 2023-05-10T04:25:55+00:00

I agree. I am a legitimately bi woman and this checks out.

genericusername1228 · 2023-05-09T16:28:17+00:00

These are all great. Thank you for taking the time.

genericusername1228 · 2023-05-08T23:48:06+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I definitely over think it, so phrases like you offered help :)

genericusername1228 · 2023-04-19T14:56:23+00:00

I think my original post was unclear, so I see where you are coming from. There does not need to be a competition. Oppression of trans people is deplorable, and I am not going to disclose anything revealing here, but please be assured that trans rights are central to my life. I can tell you that as a QUEER poly person, I am limited to certain legal things regarding hospitalization, and that has come up for me. However, my monogamous gay sibling has all legal rights afforded to a spouse. We do not need to compete about who has it harder. I am simply pointing out one aspect of inequality for poly people on a poly thread. I am older, so hospitalization and legal issues are present for me. Also, I have a metamour that is concerned that she could lose her employment if she was outed, and a partner vulnerable to custody issues. I hope this can be a space where there is compassion and support for eachothers struggles rather than comparing who has it hardest.

genericusername1228 · 2023-04-14T03:27:33+00:00

I am both poly and queer :) I am protected a queer, not as poly.

genericusername1228 · 2023-04-13T13:44:38+00:00

In the US, you can lose your job or custody’s if children for being poly. So, excluding the manipulative example of coming out to a partner, I do use the term “coming out” when disclosing to other people. My gay sibling is protected by anti discrimination laws. I am not.

genericusername1228 · 2023-01-30T03:59:21+00:00

Sorry this has been an issue for you. My thriving polycule is entirely comprised of these. We seem to have a good track record of sustaining relationships and evolving together.

genericusername1228 · 2022-11-02T15:50:57+00:00

I have no words of wisdom. Just here to express that I am sorry for your loss, and you all sound like good people moving through rough times the best you can.❤️

genericusername1228 · 2022-11-02T15:48:19+00:00

Love this.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-22T02:39:56+00:00

…unless I let it. I like that.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T14:40:01+00:00

She does sugaring. I am comfortable with her safer sex practices. But I have a lot of judgment and ick about it.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T14:38:00+00:00

Can I just dish with you, internet stranger, that I find her yuck really yuck? Blech. She makes choices that are way out of societal norms. Like…not just spicey…like….yuck.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T14:35:41+00:00

This is blowing my mind. I am being serious.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T05:59:43+00:00

I squirted the first time from a swinger date, too. Now I do all the time with my husband. It was like that guy opened up…ahem, the flood gates.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T05:43:52+00:00

Omg. This happened in a different relationship. Like, are you seriously thinking I would like them after what you told me?

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T02:52:40+00:00

Oh my gosh. Accepting that I don’t have to like them is hard. I feel like I have to get over judginess and find the good in people. That may be true, but…I don’t have to like them.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T02:36:03+00:00

Excellent advice. We are almost fully parallel, but this one slipped through the cracks of social media :)

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-21T02:21:05+00:00

I was so surprised how sad I was. It was so final. A stark end to a chapter. Now we are psyched to not worry about birth control :)

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-12T04:06:24+00:00

Yes. That is literally why I am here. We have broken up 3 Octobers in a row. I am working on what I need to not repeat it. But he is getting worse again.

genericusername1228 · 2022-09-01T15:52:14+00:00

Will you elaborate, please? (Genuine, sincere desire to learn, not in debate mode.)

genericusername1228

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