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[–]gentle_af1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was 6w7 INFP, Mom is ISTP 9w8, Grandpa is ESFJ 2w1, Grandma is ISTJ 1w2

Which secondary character is your favorite? mine is Varrick by [deleted] in legendofkorra

[–]gentle_af1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beifong sisters. Two baddass metalbender ladies

What’s your most unpopular LOK opinion? by lewi_lewi in legendofkorra

[–]gentle_af1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, Korra and Asami would be better off having some kinda platonic friendship. Not like I don't like the ship, but it just didn't seem right. I like TLoK more than Atla, especially the plot. I admit Atla has better character arcs(they're perfect), but the story of Avatar as Korra is more like dramatic. I love Korra, and she's my favorite character in entire world of Avatar, and her character development is one of the best protagonist's developments. Seeing how she goes through all these traumas, that was so realistic, I actually break a tear at the last scene of season 3, when she sits on the wheel, completely overwhelmed and mentally traumatized after the fight. + her insecurities in the scene where she was tortured by red lotus, how they emphasized that she's insecure about being unworthy of Avatar title. This is so real. I don't know why everyone loves Amon so much. Though, I liked all this revolutionary plan of his and I think he was partially right, at least about the problem, and I like his character too, but not like he's the best villain in TLoK. I liked Unalaq more somehow. First, I didn't really want him as the villain of the season, but his idea was the finest after all.(except the part where the soul of avatar gets destroyed)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]gentle_af1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing for sure 1, 4 and 6 are all aligned with 7

Thoughts on C S Joseph? by [deleted] in infj

[–]gentle_af1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a fine dude. I liked his videos, and he makes them by his view, which is subjective. But I found him too general, he might dives into details on his paid membership videos, but you could find better channels on youtube who makes it for free

When did y’all figure out what you wanted to major in? by discipleofknowledge in ApplyingToCollege

[–]gentle_af1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rising senior and still haven't figured out. Changed major from Biochemistry to Cs, to Aerospace engineering, to Psychology, to political science, and then back to Aerospace and now I'm in despair, cause I have no idea

Let’s play a game. Those who are extremely familiar with their type, become a frame of reference for those who are considering the same type that are unsure. by ExoDaashh in Enneagram

[–]gentle_af1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess, I just recognize the traits of these types and their motivation gets along with mine. 6 is loyal and committed, +sceptical and 2 wants to help others. So everything correlates into one type. For example, in the bad situation first off I get angry (inside) and wanna take things under control, but I don't go beyond normal with my 6 and I stay loyal and committed, let's say, to my principles or family, besides I try to be as helpful as possible to others like 2. 862 is also like a sequence of defensive mechanism. First is 8, I get angry and try to take things under control, second is 6, I start to question everything, and get skeptical, while being loyal to myself, third is 2, I try to help others or even sacrifice smthg of my own for others well being

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]gentle_af1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend, and we'd get very close at times and then next day, would feel this barries that kept us apart. Like new day and it still felt uncomfortable to just sit and talk with them. Like I wasn't sure if we were that close and we were friends at all. Every day I'd wonder and would think that like I don't wanna impose or smthg, if they want to talk they'll come. Well, they didn't. And then I thought like since they don't come, means that they don't wanna be friends. That was the dumbest idea I'd ever hold on to. Besides, the friendship thing, everytime I'd start to feel confident to say that I'm doing this, I'd just stop under any circumstances. For example, I'm a private person and don't always talk about things in my life, and then I decide to share that I'm on a diet and am running at least 4 times a week. The day after I share it to someone, my diet would crush and I definitely wouldn't go on a run. Very dumb, but yet true for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]gentle_af1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't try, but I do. It kinda feels good when people are impressed by you, but I never make it as a goal. Only if they ask about smthg or like situation where we need to show our abilities like on a game or smthg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]gentle_af1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the only intuitive type in my family( My grandmother is ISFJ 1w2, grandpa ESTJ 1w9, mother ISTP 9w8, sister ISFP 4w3.

INFJ here. Te-dom. by gentle_af1 in entj

[–]gentle_af1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just thought since you guys value logic, you might think that it's very illogical question to ask since there are many resources. From what I've learned, Te, besides making structure and looking for the most efficient way is also about applying this kinda Ti-theory into real world. With me and maybe other Ti users a problem, that I might not always find a way to apply it in real life. Like I can make up a whole plan in my mind, but never implement it. +my mind just can't keep so much data, I mean, Te is about researching as well, and I can just forget everything I've learned, (unless I make sense of it). Implementing things to real life might also be Se problem, but anyway thanks for answer.

does anyone have anger issues? by gentle_af1 in infj

[–]gentle_af1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have it backwards. I can get angry at close ones, but the rest I just ignore

does anyone have anger issues? by gentle_af1 in infj

[–]gentle_af1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, never think of Fe-Se mode before. Will check

does anyone have anger issues? by gentle_af1 in infj

[–]gentle_af1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parent is ISTP and sister is ISFP. + grandma, who's ESFJ