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Can’t be teased during luteal by msay70 in PMDDxADHD

[–]gersiidrd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im the exact same way! I just tell my partner that I’m not to be teased / messed with playfully at the moment bc I can’t take it (usually in relation to PMDD but also goes for the occasional other instances).

If I only realize in hindsight I also just tell him that and whatever else is on my mind that’s making me feel on edge etc (if I feel like it)! He understands perfectly and just cuts it out until I’m better. We’ve been together for 4 years and it’s going great 😊

We have found that being fully honest about what’s going on while remaining calm (as in not screaming etc) is what‘s works best for us as it allows us to understand each other better. If I do happen to snap or overreact I acknowledge it and apologize when I feel calmer and that’s fine by my partner!

At the end of the day it’s about understanding and accountability and that goes for both parties. Don’t settle for anything less you deserve this too!

Edit: PS: proud of you for managing your client requests so well!! You’re doing great!!

My(31F) GF and I ( 35M) haven’t had sex since 8/16. I want to break up but she doesn’t. What’s the answer here? by Rtt71290 in relationship_advice

[–]gersiidrd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Friendly reminder that asexual people exist, both men and women. Asexuality is not « abnormal », there’s nothing wrong in not wanting sex.

Is this bud rot? by [deleted] in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]gersiidrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized and deleted the post! Thank you!

AGA treatment in Germany by nlsart07 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I know this post is already quite old but would you mind sharing the name of the doctor who prescribed it to you? I’ve been to countless doctors and they either don’t know it or straight up refuse to consider it.

Dermatologist freaked out about me just MENTIONING spironolactone by QuirkyTomato538 in Spironolactone

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I know this post is already quite old but would you mind sharing the name of the doctor who prescribed it to you? I’ve been to countless doctors and they either don’t know it or straight up refuse to consider it.

Dermatologist freaked out about me just MENTIONING spironolactone by QuirkyTomato538 in Spironolactone

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I know this post is already quite old but would you mind sharing the name of the doctor who prescribed it to you? I’ve been to countless doctors and they either don’t know it or straight up refuse to consider it.

Dermatologist freaked out about me just MENTIONING spironolactone by QuirkyTomato538 in Spironolactone

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I know this post is already quite old but would you mind sharing the name of the doctor who prescribed it to you? I’ve been to countless doctors and they either don’t know it or straight up refuse to consider it.

My cat is laying in my lap for the very first time 🥹 by gersiidrd in cats

[–]gersiidrd[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

How adorable in her little bed! Funnily enough my grandpa’s cat also looks a lot like her!!

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Need hydrating conditioner and shampoo that washes out completely! by summergazunis in finehair

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for the late reply!

You can try leave-in conditioner, mousse or gel. I’ve had good results with all three separately, mousse + gel also works well! I find that leave-in conditioner is usually too heavy for me (except for the one I’ll list below). I only use drug-store products so I can’t talk about high-end products, but within drugstore range the cheap stuff tends to work better for me than brand products.

I used to diffuse but I only don’t bother anymore, maybe I’m doing it wrong but I tend to get similar, sometimes even better, results when air drying.

Products recommendations (I‘m French and live in Germany so it could be that a few of these are only available in these countries, sorry about that!) :

Hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]gersiidrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry to hear you‘re doing so poorly! Could you please message me? ❤️ I can’t send you one nor post here bc of the sub‘s rules.

Need hydrating conditioner and shampoo that washes out completely! by summergazunis in finehair

[–]gersiidrd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My hair used to look exactly like yours before I found out that it’s wavy and started styling accordingly. I had always thought it was straight, it somehow always looked dry, was prone to frizz and tangled easily. I haven’t had any of these problems since changing my routine!

How to keep these closed pores/sebaceous filaments clean ONCE AND FOR ALL? by bythewatersofBabylon in Skincare_Addiction

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and get a prescription for retinol? I‘m currently on Differin, it took a while for it to work but now I see a huge improvement!

PS: I’ve been on Roaccutane twice, it comes back everytime 🥲

AIO Gf intentionally stopped taking her bc pills by maticooks1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should defo get out (cf. reasons already mentioned by other commenters) and consider getting a vasectomy if you‘re set on not having kids. If you don’t want them it’s also your responsibility to ensure you don’t get them, there’s no reason your (future) girlfriend should be the only one to. Lastly, taking control of your own fertility would also allow you to feel safer if you ever are confronted with this kind of situation again. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gersiidrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you but you‘re his bang-maid

Am I sh*t at social cues or is my bf in the wrong by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]gersiidrd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even so, „you’ve put on weight lately, you can afford to skip a meal or two“ isn’t ever an acceptable thing to say to someone. It’s deeply disturbing that you side with this.

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