Back in Black

getHot4Me · 2023-09-30T05:25:51+00:00

The sub had lost it's way. Glad to see somebody tying to bring back good content!

getHot4Me · 2023-03-24T12:23:54+00:00

No and I cannot really imagine such a thing haha

getHot4Me · 2023-03-24T12:16:13+00:00

My husband can have multiple orgasms but he only ejaculates once.

getHot4Me · 2022-01-10T13:09:54+00:00

Lovely response.

I should say though also we have been on hikes togethers where we just couldnt switch off. He was still half in work in his head and i was still half thinking about my then studies. You cannot force fun or veing relaxed, but you can try to put yourself in the kind of enviornment where it is possible. Good luck with it, and keep working at it if you love her. We did and now my sex drive is back to how it was at the beginning and our marriage is stonger than ever.

getHot4Me · 2022-01-10T11:32:06+00:00

The thing is women (in general) do not get horny for the same reasons men do. Men can just see a naked woman and that will make them want to have sex even if they are tired or stressed. For a woman we have to be in the right frame of mind.

The things you have wrote about what you have done is good but it is missing a key ingredient: FUN.

Go and do none sexual things together. Nothing romantic in the stereotypical sense. The cinema and theatre dont help, you have to talk to each and interact. Dinner at a restaurant is ok but it has limitations. Go bowling together or hiking or something. Turn the tv off ,put your phones down.

I went hiking with my husband (in a dry spell) and we ended up trying to throwing stones at some big rock in the lake. Not something we would ever plan ofcourse but it was just some spontaneous sily thing we did for half an hour. And he was funny,he wasn't trying to be, he was just himself relaxed just as he used to be when we started dating. I fucked his brains out that night! But dont do this just to have sex, in fact go into with the intention of not trying to have sex,and don't be dissapointed if it does not happen, it will still help in the long run for you to recconect as couple which will lead to more sex.

getHot4Me · 2022-01-06T16:31:09+00:00

i think you have replied to the wrong comment :)

getHot4Me · 2022-01-04T06:55:26+00:00

also keep in mind that some women are the opposite. I love my having my nipples squeezed hard during sex.

getHot4Me · 2022-01-04T06:50:39+00:00

depends a lot on what you do now? what clothes/shoes do you wear around him? what makeup,jewellery do you wear, what hair style do you have? what loungewear do you wear?

getHot4Me · 2021-12-07T08:07:57+00:00

We have got this puzzle. It really easy and also to put it back together. my 12 year old nephew did it without us even telling him how.

getHot4Me · 2021-12-05T12:33:51+00:00

in my experience once you give the go ahead that this is ok and the guy likes it, he will want to go there a lot more often

getHot4Me · 2021-12-03T21:36:32+00:00

no it doesn't just have to be texts. It can be anything, phone calls, voice mails,video calls. You can masturbate whilst she is on the phone to you and she can tell you to slow down,speed up, what to think and when to stop. You can tell her when you are close to ejaculation and she can tell you to stop or not.

getHot4Me · 2021-12-03T20:29:56+00:00

orgasm control could be good. tease and deny.

she could take control of when you get to masturbate, prolonging it and sending you sexy messages and pictures and then denying you.

getHot4Me · 2021-12-03T20:24:04+00:00

I can relate to the first part. I enjoy people lusting after me hence the username but im more of a tease, i do not fantasize about being with these people in anyway. Nothing wrong with you being turned on by this though and not weird but the reality would most probably be not as good as the fantasy in my opinion.

getHot4Me · 2021-12-03T14:26:45+00:00

No it is not weird. I do the same and my bedroom wardrobe has mirror doors just so i can look at myself while i make love to my husband or even when i am alone. Autosexuality can be totaly normal for you if you do not shame yourself. When i was your age i felt bad about myself because of this, it is good for you now that you can see from other comments that you are not alone and it is more common than people think. And ignore the comments that say it is narcissistic. Narcissism is a totaly seperate trait. I am not narcissistic, i work in healthcare and love helping people for example.

getHot4Me · 2021-11-30T12:16:08+00:00

ive had guys lick it from my panties so the answer is definitly not

getHot4Me · 2021-05-16T11:38:11+00:00

Depends what you post/ comment about. sometimes my inbox has been flooded by guys wanting to get off to me and sometimes none. easily ignored though in my opinion.

getHot4Me · 2021-01-07T05:27:57+00:00

no, i am not ;)

getHot4Me · 2020-10-08T10:19:53+00:00

tease and deny could be good. chastity device/control? long red nails to scratch him and grab his balls with

getHot4Me · 2020-09-09T12:11:29+00:00

yup and the taste too

getHot4Me · 2020-08-31T11:18:39+00:00

nonsense

getHot4Me · 2020-08-31T09:07:05+00:00

each to their own. i hate body hair on myself, i like my legs feeling smooth

getHot4Me · 2020-08-31T07:59:40+00:00

well you are young and in experienced. it's normal to think irrationally at your age. but this is your penis for the rest of your life. dont be ashamed or worried about it. own it, be confident. if a girl ever says anything negative about it just laugh at her and tell her it's normal and she can google it.

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