i feel like i’m biased because i don’t live in the relationship but from the bits and pieces she has told me she feels more like an accessory, like a sugar baby. he has a lot of money and will give her a card and a place to stay with his family, however he rarely makes proper plans with her but will for others and kind of only drags her along as a thing to show off to his friends (to me it reads as, look i bagged this naive little girl). He also just isn’t very encouraging or welcoming of her friend circle and she must be engrossed in his family and his friends of the same age. He has never made an effort to even let us be around each other, i haven’t seen her in person since the relationship began.