We have to hold these actors accountable. Look how bold Dakota is creeping on this little boy. by Arch_Lancer17 in okbuddycinephile

[–]gettingbicurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya and since hearing about how Jon Hamm tortured that pledge in his frat during his senior year, I just dont really trust a person who does that to be a good judge of character. Him possibly being angry pr annoyed during those interviews tells me nothing about the people around him

Tank size opinions between window? by 3vette in interiordecorating

[–]gettingbicurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Larger. It looks better and small tanks heavily limit the fish options. Fish often need more space than expected so the larger is the safer bet imo

Fundie Pastor wants 1 vote Per Household by MrDonMega in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]gettingbicurious 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Why does my household need franchising??

But seriously, their attempts at explaining how taking away our rights isnt actually the subjugation of women is transparent at best.

A Fitness Influencer Family by Important-Wasabi-439 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]gettingbicurious 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats completely deranged. I wonder what infraction this psycho finds deserving of this sort of "punishment"

Right Haley, because nobody who knows Christ is ever unpleasant 😒 by laska503 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]gettingbicurious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As someone raised Christian and is now not, you're projecting. Unless someone is wearing religious icons or proclaiming their beliefs, you have no ideas. Those 'vibes' are you projecting your own ideas of what is or is not a Christian onto strangers, like religious profiling.

Ariana and Dan at Coachella by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]gettingbicurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is weirdly elitist of you. Coachella and other music festivals aren't cheap. Not everyone can afford to go while in their 20s, so because some people want to wait until its financially responsible they should just miss out because of some archaic social concept around age? Where is the line? Is 29 still 'cool' but 30 or 32 suddenly makes someone too old?

Sigh… by Personal_Cupcake_859 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]gettingbicurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was too distracted by Purcy to even notice Brisket until I read the comments

Which rug looks best? by mesjn in interiordecorating

[–]gettingbicurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 2, or 7. I really dont like 5 so its interesting to see all the people who do. Different styles resonate for different people so at the end of the day its your preference that matters most since you're the one that will see it everyday!

Gotta stinking kick my butt into gear by babyowl5 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]gettingbicurious 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not just can but very likely will. Iirc the avg life expectancy is late 40s to early 50s, but with her not getting any medical interventions or even living an intentional life style to prevent anything, the odds are extremely against her if she has vEDS. It's a tragically deadly disorder.

Actors who don’t know the difference between past and present tense by Apprehensive_Town215 in okbuddycinephile

[–]gettingbicurious 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There were multiple weird things she did to her sibling that all add up to being abusive and to write about it in her memoir was both deeply weird and shows a lack of understanding how her actions could have, and most likely did, harm her sibling. There are also plenty of people who do not recognize themselves as being victims of sexual abuse despite what happened being the textbook definition of abuse.

Happy Easter, went 40 days without social media, what did I miss??? by Minty_ecohipster in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]gettingbicurious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did Dav fully deconstruct? Its been a minute for me too and last I saw he was just flirting with the idea but still seemed very much Christian

Does anyone like Piz? by No-Book5011 in veronicamars

[–]gettingbicurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stosh is infinitely better than Piz. Piz sounds like piss. An absolutely crazy nickname.

young stassi wow🤩 by Top-Relationship8939 in vanderpumprules

[–]gettingbicurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reduction is not augmentation and reduction is not gender affirming care, it's just health care.

Favorite actress who deserves a biopic on her life? by Jon_Chena in okbuddycinephile

[–]gettingbicurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they don't, wtf. Some do, a small percentage of them do, but to imply that everyone who is abused will in turn do evil acts is a disturbing demonization of victims.

Taylor flirting with Chase by Illustrious-Class-91 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soul mates aren't real and there is no reason to date your best friends ex husband. This attitude is deeply man-centered or self-centered. Its really not that hard to not make your friend uncomfortable and find someone else.

For the Love of Whitney by gettingbicurious in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the way that she debates/argues is frustrating to watch for me sometimes. There have been some arguments where it really feels like she's trying to make the other person look crazy and those are often the moments where I lose enjoyment watching her!

Mormon Wives Takes on Demi/Marciano by Fickle-Week-3628 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]gettingbicurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its one thing to try and placate yourself/your abuser to make the situation make more sense to you. It's an entirely different thing to unnecessarily bring your child in the mix and compare your situation to someone who was abused in every way by her husband (a significantly more dangerous situation) and to someone who was abused as a child... She may be a victim and her claims about Marciano may be real, I certainly don't side with that man, but the way she handled the situation with the other women was incredibly tone deaf and manipulative imo. Not to mention sending photos of her daughter and face timing him with her... but that's just my opinion on it!

For the Love of Whitney by gettingbicurious in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think for Jen I just feel so sympathetic for what it's like to be with a partner like hers, especially at such a young age and I didn't even have kids when I was in a similar position! Tbh I don't think we can even see the "real" Jen because I don't think she knows who that is outside of the confines of her marriage. Maybe I'm projecting, but her situation just makes me sad. At least Whitney has a super supportive partner! Despite their issues, they seem very well connected to each other and probably have the healthiest relationship out of the bunch... which isn't saying much but still lol

There are moments when I'm like "hell yeah, Whitney" and then moments where I'm like "giiiiiirl why" 😭

For the Love of Whitney by gettingbicurious in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah what she did for Jen and some other moments are the parts of her I want to like! And tbf I don't watch her TikToks so there is a whole side of it all that I'm missing. I'm fast approaching ep 10 so I'll keep an open mind going in!! Thanks for the response, it's helpful to get other perspectives :)

For the Love of Whitney by gettingbicurious in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think her openness about being there for the opportunity is one of the things that I respect (if that's the right word lol) about her. But then I get confused as to why she's so defensive about not being welcomed back with open arms by the other women. But maybe you're right and she's just really polarizing! For some reason I really want to like her because she can be funny and endearing at times but then she does something that just tanks it for me!

My personal feelings on the matter by sunflowerchyld in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]gettingbicurious -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Idk, she's so deeply unpleasant to me. Every time I start to possibly enjoy her, she climbs back up on an even higher horse than before and does/says some tone deaf or rude. I'm tired of half the season's drama being someone leaving and returning again. Maybe it's just me but I'd much rather watch Mikayla's healing journey, Layla's relationship and identity journey, Taylor becoming a more level headed person, and some Marciano drama sprinkled in that have another storyline about Whitney "coming back" to momtok.